A gold digger.how to recognize?
03-21-2011, 01:15 PM
Gold diggers are generally incredibly easy to fuck, without giving up more than the price of a few drinks. This may or may not continue over 2 dates. All girls are gold diggers to a small extent, and so this works with most women. But to a larger extent with women who are primarily set on the material resource game.The only issue is finding out what her gold digger status is. In most areas, its still not PC to be a gold digger, and so you will rarely get that direct admission that Mixx is used to in Miami. But its not hard to find out what the score is.
Usually, if you start casually talking about stuff like jewelry, she will tip her hand with something like "I love jewelry". Bang. There you go. Gold digger, with 95% certainty.
You can mention how you have to get used to not wearing a watch, because it's getting repaired. And how its so hard to find a well made watch these days. You love yours, and so your paying $600 to get it fixed. She'll probably bite, and you can gauge her gold digging values by what she reveals as you both start talking about jewelry. Or, even easier, you can just compliment her on a piece of jewelry that she's wearing, as gold diggers tend to wear their best jewelry when out on a first date or when dressed to find a sugar daddy. Ask her questions about it, and see where she takes the conversation. Also, gold diggers generally dress like cheap whores (because they generally don't have much money or class), at least around here. That's another huge red flag. Of course there is another tier of of upper class gold digger, commonly divorcees or daughters of rich men, but they are less common and harder to find unless you know where to look.
Now that you know her gold digger status, the next and final step is to just feed the greed. Easy enough. She'll inevitably want to know what you do, in as much detail as possible. It won't be pretentious, because she wants to find that sugar-daddy more than anything. So feel free to feed her as much BS as she needs, while staying believable and a bit cryptic. It usually doesn't take too much around here, but I can see how you might need to DHV a bit more in Miami. Its not so much how much you say, but that what you say triggers her gold digging instinct.
Remember this: Unless your dealing with the rare intelligent (in a business sense) woman, you can say shit which most business people would shrug off as meaningless or probable bullshit. To these women, with the business sense of an average 15 year old, what she hears is much more important than what you actually say. So, if I said "I just authored a book, which is about to be released" (I commonly use this because I actually did) this lights up the eyes of most gold diggers, as they think "status" and "money" when they hear "book author" (especially because I mention that its in Real Estate. You can say that its in Natural Resource Investing, or something else that has to do with money). Most rational business minded people would think "long shot" and "scraping by". But remember that gold diggers want to believe, and most don't know shit about the real world of making money.
There are a ton of variations on this BS. Just use the language of the wealthy and money, that she will inevitably know little about other than it sounds like money. Keywords like: IPO, author, enterprise level application, Investing, consulting, blah, blah, blah... will usually just translate it into "money, money, money" in her mind. Add two parts alcohol, some dirty dancing at an after hours club, and get ready to reap the harvest of your seeds after only one or two dates. Remember that you are triggering her 'provider' attraction signals, and not the primal alpha attraction that will lead to throwing away all inhibitions as soon as possible. Therefore, she will strategize (ironically by trying to raise her value by sometimes playing harder to get - ha) which is why I say that sometimes it takes more than one night. But as long as you pepper in some legitimate direct style game on top of the provider BS, than she should soak her panties through with the thought of the prospect of a guy with money who also talks to her like the dirty sex object that she is.
I love gold diggers, because they are just so fucking easy. Their strategy leaves them vulnerable. And don't feel bad int he least. They decide to play a game, and I just try to play it better. Remember, that its important to not try to sound like you are trying to impress her. Be somewhat cryptic, but still give the necessary information. And dress the part. You should look like you make money, and maybe have just come from doing so. You won't be convincing if you look like you should be on the Jersey Shore or sitting at the end of the corner bar. That means nice shoes/loafers, slacks (no jeans), and a nice shirt at minimum. Unless the girl is just real young, and has absolutely zero clue.