Quote: (07-17-2012 06:22 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:
That last sentence make me laugh. Every girl in the world is always saying that French and Italian dudes are the most romantic dudes around but when they are couchsurfers they should be extremely white knighting betas who do no dare to make a move on a girl because they are only interested in cultural exchanges.
Seriously, us players use couchsurfing as a tool to pick up a local girl but most beta dudes in the CS scene just use it to come in contact with any girl because they are lame guys who can't pick up chicks if their lives depended on it. Talk about creepy. I would like to see the ratio of guys who only let girls stay over at their places or the ones who actually take older 50+ men/women in also.
If they are that political correct, nice and only interested in cultural exchange they should also take in 200 pound old women dressed in tents.
The naivete of these women is boundless. How many men are going to give a woman free housing, pick her up from the airport, be her tour guide and at least not
hope to get some nookie out of it? Do they really think most guys are doing all that stuff purely out of the kindness of their hearts? Some are admittedly, but even the guys who make no moves on the girls they host are secretly hoping she makes one on him.
After reading this thread, I did a little talley on CS. I was looking at the list of women and men for my city who were looking for a couch. Out of 100 male requests, only 8 had 3 or more replies. Out of 100 women it was 32. So it's basically 4x easier for a girl to get hosted than a guy, and most the hosts are guys. You'll also note that a girl that's pretty almost instantaneously has the "3 or more replies" flag next to her name. What does that tell you? And most the people with their couch set to "yes" are guys. Most women seem to set theirs to "maybe" or "drink or coffee". So let's just be honest about what CS is without all the idealistic facade. It's largely a way for women to travel for free thanks to the "generosity" of men hoping for sex from a foreign woman. Maybe that's not now why CS was started, and maybe that's not what it
should be used for, but just looking at who gets hosted the most and who's doing the hosting, the pattern is clear. So to you guys reading this thread from CS groups and angered by this forum, this shit was already going on. If you are that angry about it, then petition the admins to make a rule that women can only contact other women. Short of that, nothing is going to stop guys from using the site as a tool to hookup. Freud was right,
everything men do short of becoming a priest, is ultimately driven by sexual desires.
So quit your damn whining. Hell, I bet even the guy that founded CS has banged a few girls that slept on his couch. So seriously, shut up about it already. We all know it happens, and you guys aren't going to stop it. Instead of worrying about how many "creepers" are on the site, consider that many women have met their boyfriends and future husbands through CS. Guess what? I'm sure that guy was just trying to score some pussy as well, but maybe somewhere in the process he fell in love. It happens too. Chill out about it. You throw single men and women into close quarters and you think there is going to be no sexual tension? How naive are you people?