I'm not the best with confrontation. And what I mean with that is if I get into a heated argument with someone, or a fight may potentially break out, or if I suspect a robbery or shooting may happen, I'm not the type to get right in the midst of it and welcome it. It's my nature, I always have been the calmer more collected type. At its worst, I sometimes clam up and get nervous, and that's very annoying. Gives off a weak vibe.
There are disadvantages to not being able to handle intense situations and I would like to improve on that if possible. I'm sure it can be done. I used to not be able to speak in public, and now I can. I use to not be able to talk to girls, and now I can. Etc. But that obviously came with practice. But how do you practice being confrontational?
Any recommended tactics for developing confidence or comfort with confrontation? The only times I've noticed where I have somewhat of this mentality is when I'm pissed off I care less about everything and almost want to confront people. But I don't see that as a viable solution.
P.S. I'm not talking about confrontation with girls, rather I mean with guys.
There are disadvantages to not being able to handle intense situations and I would like to improve on that if possible. I'm sure it can be done. I used to not be able to speak in public, and now I can. I use to not be able to talk to girls, and now I can. Etc. But that obviously came with practice. But how do you practice being confrontational?
Any recommended tactics for developing confidence or comfort with confrontation? The only times I've noticed where I have somewhat of this mentality is when I'm pissed off I care less about everything and almost want to confront people. But I don't see that as a viable solution.
P.S. I'm not talking about confrontation with girls, rather I mean with guys.