The issue i have with dating online is just the simple numbers games. Ya you can contact lots of women over a short peroid of time. But so can anyone else, and you lack the chance to make a really good connection, and plus your framing yourself as looking at least at getting laid. I dont like putting myself in those kind of situations.
Like i got a good friend of mine who tried the online dating route, she met with lots of guys who seems charming and awesome, and then as soon as they met is was all like, get drunk, in my pants, no game tools. So she got jaded. I dont want girls like that, nor do i want to be one of the drooling pack of followers. No thanks, id much rather meet on the street on in a club, chatting up what i want, and keeping it all a mystery, plus getting real time verbal and body language ques as where to go. I like running a really tight game where i know exactly what goes off. I am not a fire and forget carpet bombing, more like a precision strike.
That being said, i meet and nail a surprising number of women from online contacts, but none of those come from dating sites. Almost all of them are from interest forums, such as now-gone aznmp3.com for Asian music, to Chinese city forums, to fucking Omegle of all places. Its just like me going out, i do what im normally doing anyways, and if i meet an interesting chick, well my friends, Game on! Its like going to a speed dating session. Anyone who has ever tried it knows its one of the most awkward and strange kind of way to meet new people ever. It just feels so forced, which is exactly why i hate dating sites, you take out all the personal connection out of the picture, and throw up a wall which just makes both people feel like losers.
Seriously, online game is like shooting fish in a barrel. If you got any sort of game, you could, but it takes the fun out of it as well. Anyone with decently good talking skills or who is creative in the least, you will get laid off of an online dating site. But for me, its just one step above a prostitute. Ill rather get blown out all night then get a freebie from some messed up chick who thinks shes hot b/c all these idiots are beta-ing her into an overblown ego, and then decided to go for the alpha. Sorry, i dont like damaged goods.
Like i got a good friend of mine who tried the online dating route, she met with lots of guys who seems charming and awesome, and then as soon as they met is was all like, get drunk, in my pants, no game tools. So she got jaded. I dont want girls like that, nor do i want to be one of the drooling pack of followers. No thanks, id much rather meet on the street on in a club, chatting up what i want, and keeping it all a mystery, plus getting real time verbal and body language ques as where to go. I like running a really tight game where i know exactly what goes off. I am not a fire and forget carpet bombing, more like a precision strike.
That being said, i meet and nail a surprising number of women from online contacts, but none of those come from dating sites. Almost all of them are from interest forums, such as now-gone aznmp3.com for Asian music, to Chinese city forums, to fucking Omegle of all places. Its just like me going out, i do what im normally doing anyways, and if i meet an interesting chick, well my friends, Game on! Its like going to a speed dating session. Anyone who has ever tried it knows its one of the most awkward and strange kind of way to meet new people ever. It just feels so forced, which is exactly why i hate dating sites, you take out all the personal connection out of the picture, and throw up a wall which just makes both people feel like losers.
Seriously, online game is like shooting fish in a barrel. If you got any sort of game, you could, but it takes the fun out of it as well. Anyone with decently good talking skills or who is creative in the least, you will get laid off of an online dating site. But for me, its just one step above a prostitute. Ill rather get blown out all night then get a freebie from some messed up chick who thinks shes hot b/c all these idiots are beta-ing her into an overblown ego, and then decided to go for the alpha. Sorry, i dont like damaged goods.