been seeing this girl about 2-3 times per wk over the last 2 month or so and we text pretty much daily, even if it's just a simple one or two texts back and forth.
Saturday night, we banged and she was acting all self conscious saying "all you care about is sex" and afterwards saying "do you think we have good sex? I want you to have a good time in bed with me." I reassured her it was good because she seemed vulnerable and didn't seem like a time for C&F or shit-test response. she left Sunday seeming all was good.
Monday we texted a bit. Tuesday I got done with work and texted "I'm hungry let's get dinner." She responded "I'm at the movies with [her roommate]." I didn't respond but on Wednesday, I texted her saying "I'm gonna be in your neck of the woods this evening, are you free?" She didn't respond and hasn't texted anything since then.
So here is my question(s):
1. Do I make it known that I don't appreciate her not responding or do I just ignore that and hit her up again? My gut tells me that if I call her out for not responding, it will come off as insecure.
2. Can I re-open with another invite to hang out, even though she basically turned me down two times in a row? Should I take the "ball is in her court" mentality and not contact her at all until she reaches out to me?
I always over-analyze things and I am admittedly not good when it comes to relationship game and I really want to get these kinds of situations handled. Any advice is appreciated. thanks.
Saturday night, we banged and she was acting all self conscious saying "all you care about is sex" and afterwards saying "do you think we have good sex? I want you to have a good time in bed with me." I reassured her it was good because she seemed vulnerable and didn't seem like a time for C&F or shit-test response. she left Sunday seeming all was good.
Monday we texted a bit. Tuesday I got done with work and texted "I'm hungry let's get dinner." She responded "I'm at the movies with [her roommate]." I didn't respond but on Wednesday, I texted her saying "I'm gonna be in your neck of the woods this evening, are you free?" She didn't respond and hasn't texted anything since then.
So here is my question(s):
1. Do I make it known that I don't appreciate her not responding or do I just ignore that and hit her up again? My gut tells me that if I call her out for not responding, it will come off as insecure.
2. Can I re-open with another invite to hang out, even though she basically turned me down two times in a row? Should I take the "ball is in her court" mentality and not contact her at all until she reaches out to me?
I always over-analyze things and I am admittedly not good when it comes to relationship game and I really want to get these kinds of situations handled. Any advice is appreciated. thanks.