I don't mean game PRINCIPLES, like all of the knowledge the red pill entails and how to behave properly around women,
I mean game as seduction.
I have a decent amount of pussy thrown at me with hardly any work, at university. Enough(Quantity and attractiveness) to make alot of guys satisfied. After I stop seeing one girl its usually a 5-15 days before I find a new one. It's maybe due to good looks?? But I used to date hotter girls in the end of senior year-post-high-school and freshman year era, so my stantdards are high. and the hottest girls at Uni are too few and too entitled.
They really only offer a chance to guys from a small few elite frats, and they expect guys to be taller than me, and I don't get the opportunity of facetime in lecture, even though I always close girls from lecture!!!
My experience with learning game comes alot from off campus, generally at clubs and concerts, I've noticed that, pre-approach, the girl either wants me or doesn't want me. I'm very absolutist in my beliefs right now.
Game doesn't matter. When the girl wants me, I don't really need to neg, just kino, a cold sexual stare, and light friendly convo wins her over. I usually need to be careful on my negs, any more than 1 and the girl may start feeling hurt, and ive messed up alot in overnegging.
When the girl DOESN'T want me, solid openers don't matter. A sly, confident smile at approach doesn't help. I'm ousted from the start. My success rate with approaches from the IOIs is extremely fucking high. I'm a sniper.
But being a sniper is boring because I want a rotation of girls. And I have issues with gaming girls at places like the gym where everyone is already hating on me squating so much. They'd love to see me blow out with a girl. Sometimes a girl will open me in public, then I can get things going but I don't really like the day time approach. Sorry. So I'm encouraged myself to approach more at nightlife/party events.
I don't get much opportunity to get off campus because of school but I ran a little experiment, hot and cold. I would go to a 21+ club (I recently turned 22 yo) that plays good music. I picked this club because good music generally puts me in a really good mood, which is great for my state. It's kind of a new thing, but every other week at their larger-scaled parties I either approach hot (after receiving IOIs) or cold (a girl not giving me any cues, but standing approachable).
So far I've done 1 cold approach night and 1 hot approach night 1. In the cold approach night I approached 7 times before I got tired, all 7 girls were all polite; one even gave me a drink, another came back to dance but I walked away. During the hot night I didn't get any IOIs at all from girls I was interested in talking to. It was terrible. There was one really hot girl who was grinding sexually on the DJ booth so everyone could see her, but I'm pretty sure she was the DJ's girl seeking attention as she turned down others' approaches.
I'm trying to better myself with game but game never even works for me. I have a good notch count for my age but nothing but inner-game has accounted for successes. When I do succeed, I literally talk about RANDOM SHIT that's extremely irrelevant to game, and I am rarely able to use game tactics. It seems like just asking simple questions about the girl gets them wet, after they've given the IOI. I'm getting really frustrated and pissed at this.
Does game maybe not apply to some people?
I mean game as seduction.
I have a decent amount of pussy thrown at me with hardly any work, at university. Enough(Quantity and attractiveness) to make alot of guys satisfied. After I stop seeing one girl its usually a 5-15 days before I find a new one. It's maybe due to good looks?? But I used to date hotter girls in the end of senior year-post-high-school and freshman year era, so my stantdards are high. and the hottest girls at Uni are too few and too entitled.
They really only offer a chance to guys from a small few elite frats, and they expect guys to be taller than me, and I don't get the opportunity of facetime in lecture, even though I always close girls from lecture!!!
My experience with learning game comes alot from off campus, generally at clubs and concerts, I've noticed that, pre-approach, the girl either wants me or doesn't want me. I'm very absolutist in my beliefs right now.
Game doesn't matter. When the girl wants me, I don't really need to neg, just kino, a cold sexual stare, and light friendly convo wins her over. I usually need to be careful on my negs, any more than 1 and the girl may start feeling hurt, and ive messed up alot in overnegging.
When the girl DOESN'T want me, solid openers don't matter. A sly, confident smile at approach doesn't help. I'm ousted from the start. My success rate with approaches from the IOIs is extremely fucking high. I'm a sniper.
But being a sniper is boring because I want a rotation of girls. And I have issues with gaming girls at places like the gym where everyone is already hating on me squating so much. They'd love to see me blow out with a girl. Sometimes a girl will open me in public, then I can get things going but I don't really like the day time approach. Sorry. So I'm encouraged myself to approach more at nightlife/party events.
I don't get much opportunity to get off campus because of school but I ran a little experiment, hot and cold. I would go to a 21+ club (I recently turned 22 yo) that plays good music. I picked this club because good music generally puts me in a really good mood, which is great for my state. It's kind of a new thing, but every other week at their larger-scaled parties I either approach hot (after receiving IOIs) or cold (a girl not giving me any cues, but standing approachable).
So far I've done 1 cold approach night and 1 hot approach night 1. In the cold approach night I approached 7 times before I got tired, all 7 girls were all polite; one even gave me a drink, another came back to dance but I walked away. During the hot night I didn't get any IOIs at all from girls I was interested in talking to. It was terrible. There was one really hot girl who was grinding sexually on the DJ booth so everyone could see her, but I'm pretty sure she was the DJ's girl seeking attention as she turned down others' approaches.
I'm trying to better myself with game but game never even works for me. I have a good notch count for my age but nothing but inner-game has accounted for successes. When I do succeed, I literally talk about RANDOM SHIT that's extremely irrelevant to game, and I am rarely able to use game tactics. It seems like just asking simple questions about the girl gets them wet, after they've given the IOI. I'm getting really frustrated and pissed at this.
Does game maybe not apply to some people?