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05-23-2010, 01:21 PM
It's all about house parties. It's so much better meeting women at parties then out in the bar/club scene. The women are much more comfortable, so the bitch shields are down and they're more receptive. There's social connections there so they don't worry about you being some stranger that just walked up. They figure you must be halfway cool if you got invited. That's the pro side. The con side is that at my age(mid 30s now), not that many people throw them anymore, at least few I know. I'm sure they go on but you'll have to find out about them somehow.
Me and my buddy were talking about how much better it is to talk to women when they are in a more comfortable and trusting environment. Even a local dive bar is going to be much better than your larger more trendy bars.
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05-23-2010, 09:10 PM
I totally agree with you, bars and clubs can be frustrating with the women that are stuck up, have horrible bitch shields, are attention whores, surrounded by clock blockers, etc., not to mention douchey dudes, drunk fools that want to start shit, and other b.s. House parties are better, but in my situation, living in a college town, most parties are thrown by the college crowd (18-22) and now that I'm 26 and been done for 4 years, I'm kinda "out of the loop." But, I'll always check out a house party as a first option before going to the bars if I have to, I like the more chill vibe, easier to make conversation/have a good conversation, and girls are more open.
I can see how you'd inevitably go to less parties as you get older, bc/ people in their thirties always end up consumed by careers, getting married, having kids, buying a mini-van and mowing their lawn (LOL)... Although, I could see how as you get older the parties would be cooler, because you will probably have a chiller, less pretentious crowd, more educated so better conversation, plus better drinks (no kegs of "Natty Light"), as well as doper pads (pools, hot tubs, etc.)
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05-23-2010, 09:43 PM
The only problem with dive bars is that I tend to get entirely too wasted to game very effectively when I'm in one. For some reason, this only happens when I'm in a dive bar.
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05-23-2010, 11:29 PM
I went to a club this weekend in D.C. and the quality was lower yet the attitude was higher. Now I remember why I was moving to day game before I left. While I did a lot of day game in South America, I still didn't mind going out alone at night to hit on girls. But here if I didn't have my friends I don't think I'd have much will to do it.
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05-24-2010, 04:34 AM
"There should be some Japanese girls there. They love Jack Johnson. "
This is great to hear, Kona. I love J-girls and I can play some Jack Johnson on guitar. I'll have to remember to run some "Jack Johnson Game" in Japan when I go.
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05-24-2010, 04:46 AM
Who the fuck is jack johnson?!
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05-24-2010, 10:29 AM
I went to see Wack Johnson four years ago and can attest.
Mad girls, bring weed.
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05-24-2010, 08:37 PM
what island do you live on Kona?
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05-25-2010, 03:28 PM
Yeah, Parties seems to be nice to meet people, but everybody knowing everybody can be an odd instead of an advantage. It depends.
Also, parties people go with GF and BFs sometimes there aren't that kind of interaction
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