I have had up to 14 plates spinning at once myself (I was testing a system I had come up with - It worked too well). It should of course go without saying that I was not working during that time and it will be virtually impossible for you to manage such a number if you have anything else at all going on in your life (work, studies, travel, rest, etc.). Even if you can logistically pull off spinning such a high number of plates at once, I recommend that you not do that to yourself because those females will consume absolutely all of your time and it will become annoying because you will find that you do not get anything done and you will just keep having the same empty conversation and running through the same patterns with each girl every day, one after the other. This is a pretty fast and reliable way to burn yourself out to the point where you will want to take a month off to go live in a quiet village or monastery somewhere and be away from women entirely.
Each one of those females is likely going to text/call/voice message you several times a day at different times, you are going to forget what you said to each of them and may mix your conversations up (thus creating confusion that will take more of your time to resolve), meeting all of them regularly will be nigh impossible unless you are meeting 2+ girls every day as there are only 7 days in a week, you'll be constantly scouting and gaming new plates to replace the ones that fall for whatever reason, you will be constantly distracted by whatever drama they try to subtly inject into your life throughout the day, etc. Repeat:
All of your time. One reason I generally dislike online dating is the tendency that I, and probably most other men, have to fall into this sort of pattern when utilizing online dating systems.
Females can very often handle spinning such a large number of plates and even going higher than 14 (I've seen it) because they do not have to put any real work or thought into anything since the impetus to initiate and the burden of performance are all on you and all a female really has to do is budget the time and not completely let herself go. Females are also sex objects whereas males are generally success objects. As a male, you will be judged worthy or unworthy for mating primarily based upon a female's assessment of your success level relative to all of the other guys she thinks she has a shot with. Nice clothes, nice shoes, nice hair, good grooming, ability to pay for things, ability to easily transport yourself around, ability to afford living in a particular part of town, etc. All of these things are indicators of your success relative to other men because all of these things cost money to acquire and maintain. You are not a female so I recommend against trying to be as non-monogamous as they often are simply because it will consume all of your time until you are eventually unable to maintain those status indicators I just mentioned because you are losing all of your time and not getting anything done.
3-5 plates at a time is a good number if you want to actually have a life outside of only dealing with females. If you choose to be in an LTR (including marriage), I recommend keeping 2-5 other plates spinning so that you don't become desperate and easy to manipulate. This does not necessarily mean being sexual with those other plates as they can just be females your have friend-zoned in the same way that females friend-zone guys in order to keep them around in case they need a rebound after a breakup/separation or something else (a should to cry on, heavy objects to move, a free meal, a free ride somewhere, etc.).
Again, it is important to remember that you are not dealing with traditional girls who want to be virgin brides, get married with their parents' consent as soon as they are legally allowed to in their country, be loyal housewives who don't work outside the home, and lovingly raise the children that they had only with the man they married whom they honor and respect. Those women are un-gameable and it is likely that you have never encountered one. You are dealing with modern secular women who want to ride the carousel with bastards like us before settling down in their late 20's or 30s once their SMV starts plummeting with a well-to-do beta who will be blissfully unaware of their nature and of their past or a burnt-out alpha who does not have enough energy left to play frame games and react to her relentless shit tests but who is also too tired and jaded to ditch her and start gaming ferociously like he did back before he hit his maximum novelty notch mark and started getting diminishing returns and whom she can begin to neglect and/or ditch just like the beta as soon as she has secured the number of children and quantity of resources she desires.
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I think that it is the women who, irrespective of the outcome, will end up losing the most in the so-called gender war.
Men did not create the Game. Women did and they are the dungeon masters who decide what the rules are and who use their beta hordes to enforce those rules on the few men who are aware. We are the guys who choose to play rather than become permanent incels by withdrawing or be shut down by the betas for trying to flip the table and set up a different game. Don't feel guilty. We did not create this system. We just happened to be born into this dystopian gynocentric Matrix, we can't unplug all of the blue-pill betas to start a revolution, and, until a blue-piller is unplugged, he will fight to protect the Matrix. It's not a matter of fighting back and making feminists or women pay for anything. It's about surviving this anti-sane artificial reality and doing what you've got to do to not be destroyed by it.