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What would you do if your wife was infertile?
01-05-2019, 09:25 AM
I have thought about this. I would get another woman pregnant. That way, I can still pass on my own offspring. Adopting is something I am fine with other people doing, as it provides a home for a child who otherwise probably would not have one, however, it is not something I would do personally.
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01-05-2019, 10:23 AM
In the old codes of most religions, a "barren" wife gave the man grounds to get a mistress, or a second wife along side the first, or if the wife had a unwed sister, you could get the sister pregnant.
However, you could not divorce or abandon the barren wife unless she lied about being a virgin.
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01-05-2019, 10:33 AM
Could be the #1 reason to get her pregnant before marrying her is possibile infertility.
2nd Reason is if she divorces you, takes a chunk of your money, and doesn't even do the hard work of getting pregnant and delivering some kids.
3rd reason is to better protect your finances.
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01-05-2019, 10:40 AM
I also think in ancient times in some cultures, if the sister of the barren wife was already married with children of her own, she could still "volunteer" to get pregnant with her brother in law if her husband consented. After the birth the child would be adopted by the barren sister and raised as if her own.
I dont know how widespread this practice was though as it entails a man consenting to being cucked. (Although for a good cause).
Most likely it was done in secret with only the 4 of them knowing, so everyone involved remained publicly "respectable".
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01-05-2019, 10:53 AM
Great question. This is a situation where what somebody says they would do and what they would actually do will often vary dramatically.
Thinking about it now, I would try to find another woman with whom to have a child, whether coming to a compromise with the wife (having a child w/another woman and having her raise it), or ending the marriage outright. I want my own children and its hard to imagine living a life without having kids.
In reality, this would be one of the most painful things one can experience besides death. Assuming my wife and I have been dating/married for some time, we obviously love each other. She would be absolutely devastated to find out that she can't have children, and unlike me, she doesn't have the option to have kids with somebody else. To look her in the face and tell her that I'm ending it (because of something not even remotely her fault)... I don't know if I could do that.
I would be really interested to hear if anybody has faced this situation, and what they chose to do. I think that would speak louder than a theoretical discussion.
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01-05-2019, 01:42 PM
I see no reason to dump your wife for that reason.
I would just work my mojo to convince her I need to impregnate a beautiful girl since we need a baby with good genes.
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01-05-2019, 02:06 PM
IVF
It works but isn’t cheap. It does have a eugenic component to it that is positive: embryos are genetically screened. Weak embryos generally don’t survive the process.
As a result, the chances of getting a weak, genetically damaged child is very low (but not zero)
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01-05-2019, 03:33 PM
Here's two questions to really get your head spinning.
1. What would you do if your wife was infertile?
2. What should your wife do if you are infertile?
Hard questions.
It's probably something that should be discussed before entering a marriage.
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01-05-2019, 04:00 PM
^^ Not sure I would want to make the commitment to marriage without kids (unless I get a virgin lol).
So for me its honestly a deal breaker and I would understand if it was for her too.
Perhaps if I was married younger I would be more loyal. I know you can talk about it beforehand, but what people say they would do (what they think is right) and what they actually would do are often two different things. Agree that the conversation should be had, and that you might be able to gauge her sentiments from that convo.
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01-05-2019, 04:02 PM
Peter from Mad Men is a beta who is jealous and angry at alphas. Personally, I can't stand that kind of guy. I usually like beta guys, I almost always like independent kind of guys ( I am one). I usually like alpha guys. But betas who want to be alphas are really no fun.
In any case I wouldn't really mind if my long term girl friend was infertile. Marriage and kids in the Anglo world can wreak havoc on your long term happiness.I would however feel sad for the sake of my girlfriend.
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01-05-2019, 04:14 PM
If my wife was infertile I'd use "Infertile Wife Game" (my new book) and build a harem of fertile wives like the Muslims do and make my original, infertile wife, the boss of the harem. She would then feel motherly looking after all of those hot young secondary wives.
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01-06-2019, 07:06 AM
I had a plate that was infertile, and she shared that info very early on. I appreciated that, but knew I honestly would not consider her for a ltr/marriage because of that.
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01-06-2019, 11:03 AM
Quote: (01-05-2019 03:33 PM)LINUX Wrote:
Here's two questions to really get your head spinning.
1. What would you do if your wife was infertile?
2. What should your wife do if you are infertile?
Hard questions.
It's probably something that should be discussed before entering a marriage.
In the current age, I am of the opinion that there are few reasons why men should get married other than to procreate, and honestly if there is another reason outside of procreation please let us know. If she is not willing to have a fertility test before marriage, or is deemed unfertile, than this automatically disqualifies her as marriage material in my book.
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01-06-2019, 11:24 AM
Quote: (01-05-2019 04:07 PM)Caduceus Wrote:
This also worked the other way round. If the man was infertile, he would be more likely to adopt a child if his wife conceived with his own brother than with a genetically unknown man.
Watch "Outlander" Much?
Given how potent the XY Chromosome is, and how resistant that it is to change, this would be optimal. Even though they had no idea how genetics officially worked back then, they had a clue. Yes a man is basically cuckolded, but being a biological uncle and legal father is better than nothing especially if you need male airs.
As related repeatedly in literature and scripture, raising someone that is not related to you causes a lot of issues that most people don't realize until it is too late. Just say no. Even in this age where IFV can use anyone's genetic material, these issues come up all the time.
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01-06-2019, 11:39 AM
Don't want kids and I'm childfree so this would be a blessing
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01-07-2019, 04:54 PM
Quote: (01-05-2019 01:42 PM)joost Wrote:
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I would just work my mojo to convince her I need to impregnate a beautiful girl since we need a baby with good genes.
Game at a very high level
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