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Notch count, scare the cat
12-15-2018, 04:36 AM
Is it bad game to share your lay count with a new cat? I shared mine ~100 with a new cat, she said hers was 8 and went silent. Now she not getting back to me, I think it might have scared her off. ZFG about this cat, was kind of a trial balloon.
Bad game to share count?
I'm mid 30s and live in a college town banging mainly 19-22 y.o cats.
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12-15-2018, 04:45 AM
Stop banging cats.
That's animal cruelty.
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12-15-2018, 05:56 AM
I thought I could assume people here read BANG...
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12-15-2018, 06:24 AM
Either share the amount of Serious relationships you've had... or if she's clearly a Pump & Dump... Lie Lie & Lie! You're not scaring the cat away... you're electrocuting it by admitting this high Notch Count!
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12-15-2018, 08:50 AM
There's nothing wrong about admitting a high notch count. If a girl asks me my number, I always tell them the truth.
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12-15-2018, 10:50 AM
I was married twice and consummated both marriages. Then divorced twice. Nothing else is significant or disclosed to the girl. The other innumerable bangs are my personal memories, good and bad. They are none of her business.
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12-15-2018, 11:17 AM
I know Rollo Tomassi advised not to share it since it leaves a mystery and imagination in her mind. But I find that I'm more likely to get a better view of the woman's notch count if I share my notch count (and maybe even slightly exaggerate) as it will be easier for her to admit a high notch count too. You could argue that it shows some pre-selection to admit a high notch count but it's like women want to figure out that by themselves instead, I think so.
If you admit you've banged 10 girls, you'll never hear a woman who says she has banged 26 dudes even if it's true but if you tell her you've banged, say 80 women and you appear "progressive and non-judgemental", she'll be more inclined to admit to those 26 cocks.
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12-15-2018, 11:35 AM
Truth? - TRUTH?? - Kats and Kittens can't handle the truth - they want everything to be warm and fuzzy and drama-free - until they start causing all the Drama of course.
The Ancient Wisdom rules for a reason as it always rings true...
Success is Secrecy and Secrecy is Success...
Tell Em what you are going to do - but Not how you do it - or
It A'int what you do but the Way that you do it that's what gets results...
Keep your plans as dark and impenetrable as Night and when you move - move like lightning.
This is her brain - this is her brain on your Truth serum drugs...
Familiarity and lack of mystery breeds contempt...
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12-15-2018, 12:26 PM
Thanks for the input, the consensus seems to be don't share. I was thinking perhaps high notch count demonstrated high value, but I think mystery trumps that.
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12-15-2018, 12:37 PM
I think anyone who has actually achieved 100+ bangs has a solid idea on how to operate once the "notch count question" comes up
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12-15-2018, 12:45 PM
I seem to remember a rule of thumb: give the true count, up to 15. If higher than 15, just say 15. I would say that's only if she relentlessly insists on a number. Like all direct questions, this one too is better evaded.
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12-15-2018, 03:30 PM
Quote: (12-15-2018 11:17 AM)No More Mr. Soy Boy Wrote:
I know Rollo Tomassi advised not to share it since it leaves a mystery and imagination in her mind. But I find that I'm more likely to get a better view of the woman's notch count if I share my notch count (and maybe even slightly exaggerate) as it will be easier for her to admit a high notch count too. You could argue that it shows some pre-selection to admit a high notch count but it's like women want to figure out that by themselves instead, I think so.
If you admit you've banged 10 girls, you'll never hear a woman who says she has banged 26 dudes even if it's true but if you tell her you've banged, say 80 women and you appear "progressive and non-judgemental", she'll be more inclined to admit to those 26 cocks.
Does it matter how many men a woman has slept with anyway? You're not going to start an LTR with a non-virgin anyway, right? And if she's a virgin, you'll know.
Besides, it doesn't really matter if she spills the means on how many guys she has been with or not. You should be able to get an idea from just getting to know what she's like. The only reason I ask how many guys she has been with (only after she has asked me) is to get a sense of how big of a liar she is.
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12-15-2018, 03:32 PM
Quote: (12-15-2018 12:45 PM)Akwesi Wrote:
I seem to remember a rule of thumb: give the true count, up to 15. If higher than 15, just say 15. I would say that's only if she relentlessly insists on a number. Like all direct questions, this one too is better evaded.
Why? The higher your number the better.
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12-15-2018, 04:31 PM
Since when is a "cat" not a man ??
I could see "kitten" or something, but "cat" has been a dude for decades.
Americans are dreamers too
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12-15-2018, 05:13 PM
Nothing good can come from this conversation, either direction.
"I was a virgin before I met you" with a shit eating grin is how you pass this shit test.
Last thing I want to know is how many different loads she has swallowed, not that she would be honest about it anyway...
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12-15-2018, 06:41 PM
In horror movies as soon as you see the monster, no matter what it looks like, it's less scary than before
Same principle:
Nothing games a woman for you as much as her own imagination
She should think she knows you've slept with a lot of women but she should never know
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Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example
"Leap, and the net will appear".
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The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
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12-16-2018, 07:12 AM
Fuck the cats, bang lizzards!
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12-16-2018, 04:40 PM
One Stat I would want to know - how many bangs where she was in a BF/GF relationship - versus how many bangs where she was paid cash money to phuck.
If she banged over 10 - 20 - 50 or 100 guys for money - if on the higher end then the likelyhood of her pair bonding in an LTR/Marriage with you is slim - well really none actually. Google it for proofs.