Quote: (08-11-2018 02:51 PM)Ogunn Wrote:
Quote: (08-11-2018 04:21 AM)Noir Wrote:
99% of women are shit conversationalists and bad at flirting with intent. They're only good at responding to what you put out there
This is some serious gold.
I have noticed the hotter the girl. The more true this statement is.
Generally speaking yes, but they ping off you. If you're hot and high status, the more work they will put in and try. Some are shit, some are amazing with flirting but they always get what they want so it's minimum effort until you come along. It usually takes some time.
Rule of thumb - the more out of your league/hotter than you she thinks she is, the less investment she will put in. (sidenote: go out with hot women and this investment increases - preselection)
If you're top of the food chain, she will put in the effort. This is why I laugh when 6s and 7s try shit on me (they cold approach or perimeter me) and put in the effort. I respect it but I find that I respond like a hot girl and make minimum effort past being polite because they simply aren't in my league.
Well, this is what it's like with most women and when I write shit here it's specifically for the top, TOP, finest women. I don't fuck with SEA broads or girls who are below 7. Even 7s; I have become so anal with my time/energy usage.
There are exceptions. FWB who came over last night is a 7 and nothing spectacular past her body. She is inexperienced (been with 2 guys before me and I believe that) so cannot flirt for shit and I thought about this, she's just a receptacle for me to fuck. It's terrible but I am done with girls pretending like they don't need game for us guys. Itch meet scratch. It's scratched now, so I'll scratch her off my list too probably. I kept her around because she made an effort (bring food, pick up a friend of mine from a bar and give him a ride, whatever). It's all fine and good until she wants to have the 'what are we' discussion which is where you lay down the law.
Going back my post in the other thread ('modern game' lol), about that phenomenal connection I had with this absolute stunner on Wednesday (social circle girl, not Thursday's cold approach).
It blew me away because she was putting in the effort 110%. My wing/friend had a harder time with this target but he's learning the ropes and of course, he set it up. Legend. Even his girl and him were surprised and gave us space. They 'got it'.
It's also feedback that I am indeed top of the food chain within certain environments. It's liberating.
Assumptions do 80% of the work but there's a 20% which doesn't abide by this rule of thumb and this is where I find the most intriguing girls. The ones who I wake up and think about because they ain't template.
I know if she has the potential and it needs unlocking, within 5 minutes. It's all about the bait you drop. My friends say I just pull out 'the talk'.
Dreams, certain experiences, fantasies and cool shit. Less qualification of what you DO and more projection of what you want to DO WITH HER. Shit that got your mind racing and whether she fucks with that. The bait.
My initial statement stands but I thought I would provide a juxtaposition because this girl was/is bonafide hot, 22 and ticks all the boxes. My mate always says 'take her home to mom'.
I very much stand by the original statement and your agreement of it but just to dig deeper in to what happens with the rest (1% that its amazing and the 20% that have the potential).
Hot girls will make the effort if you are 'out of their league'. This is mainly when they are younger or older (rarely same age) and similar in looks and are a sexy fucking guy. Otherwise, they never had to make the effort, their hotness did it for them (this explains feminism but let's not bring that up again).
For all this talk about being good with game, no one really connects this with being 'sexy'.
Anyone spending time around women knows that this is their barometer of fucking a guy. Is he sexy?
We discuss the individual constituent elements but tying them together = sexy.
First you gotta be Mr. Right Now before you are Mr. Right.
Lover vs provider.
Quote: (08-11-2018 12:40 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
*reads Noir's post*
*deletes 468 pages*
WIA
re: allowing women time to think
I want your side of this, what do you think?