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06-06-2018, 08:09 AM
Hi friends, I am from London and am meant to attend a conference for a couple of days in NYC next month. I am planning to take a week off and either stay in NYC or go to another city.
Now I quite like grinding at clubs, and that is very uncommon in London. So can someone suggest which is the best city in the US where grinding on random strangers is common?
Please don’t beat me up if grinding isn’t your thing. I suppose some people may find it creepy, or prefer talking or whatever...but each to his own and would love to hear suggestions. I am open to anywhere in the US, so recommendations for cities/clubs will be much appreciated.
Thanks
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06-06-2018, 08:43 AM
Oh yes, I should have mentioned - I am 31. Is that too old?
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06-06-2018, 11:06 AM
Hahahah, used to do that all the time as a young buck.
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06-06-2018, 11:13 AM
Lol in London it is popular.. Especially amongst carribean communities. So I assume anywhere with a large Carribean population.
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06-06-2018, 01:38 PM
Bashmentparty.com for uk grinding parties, I am a big fan of those too, I have been to few this year and they are not as good as the ones I used to go to when I was a youth, the younger they are, the more they grind.
Around brooklyn (crown heights /flatbush), you get a lot of these parties and clubs, girls in new york grind really good, new york women are probably the best grinders I have ever met.
Check out crop over in barbados, perfect for grinding, I went there in 2014 and loved it.
I am about that life haha.
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06-06-2018, 01:39 PM
I would go to a place with a lot of college bars, so either a college town or a city with multiple universities. There are places like this in NYC (look into LES and EV), as well as in the rest of the northeast. Avoid the "classy" venues, or hipster-type spots, since that isn't really a thing there.
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06-06-2018, 01:50 PM
Do you guys agree that those places of young girls are easy to grind , makeout , but very very hard to pull (so flaky )
older girls tend to be harder to makeout but easier to pull if they like you
Someone agree , or do you find young girls easy to pull as well?
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06-06-2018, 02:17 PM
New Orleans, Louisiana.
Grinding and dirty dancing is part of Louisiana culture.
I grew up doing this.
The cool thing about New Orleans is that slut shaming isn't really a thing there. Slutty behavior is pretty much encouraged by everyone, guys and girls. Life is good down there.
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06-06-2018, 02:51 PM
East Saint Louis, Illnois. Especially when they play anything by Nelly.
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06-06-2018, 07:06 PM
Grinding is over.
People don't grind anymore in the USA at clubs. Maybe that shit still goes on in fraternity parties at large party universities, but good luck getting into one of those
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06-06-2018, 09:51 PM
Dancing in general is not a pickup scene in the US like it once was. Tinder killed that among many other things. I'm sure you can get plenty of grinding at the strip club though.
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06-06-2018, 10:58 PM
There was grinding back in 2011 - as far as I can remember when I was in college that's all we did. I loved grabbing some fine ass and getting dances without saying a single word.
But now it just doesn't happen.
It doesn't happen anymore because American girls think its "awkward" now and they have Tinder and online dating now so they much more options. It's also just not cool anymore and not socially acceptable.
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06-07-2018, 01:36 AM
As long as there are chicks that will grind in the bedroom we'll all survive. LOL.
But yeah jokes aside, there probably are niche party scenes here & there where it's still a thing. It's just not as mainstream as it once was.