018 ATL daygame: Aquarius and Mr_Nobody
03-11-2018, 04:08 PM
On Friday, I met up with Mr_Nobody in ATL. At first, I was kinda not sure about meeting a stranger from an internet forum, especially neither of us had a high post count when we met. However, when I first met him on Friday, it turned out to be great. It was very refreshing for both of us to meet someone of the same age with the same mentality. Big shout to Roosh for making this meeting possible with this forum!
Approach #22
We posted up at the same coffee shop I went on Monday for Friday afternoon. When I was waiting for Mr_Nobody to arrive, I approached a girl reading a book at the communal bar while waiting for my coffee. It turned out it was a book about midwifery, so I chatted to her a little about babies, with the conversation revolving around how babies cry a lot. And from there, I try to close via Galnuc by asking her where she studies midwifery. She told me which college she goes to, and we chatted a while comparing our respective universities. Then as I went in for the number close, she said that
"But I'm only in town for a few days"
Clearly she was lying and I pointed it out to her that its impossible to go to school here and only be here for a short trip on a few days. So I held my phone up and told her to put her number in. She refused, so I wished her good luck and left to a different table.
Mr_Nobody is Somebody
So Mr_Nobody shows up. He's white, around 6 ft tall with a muscular/athletic but not quite jacked build, and a rather alpha vibe. He looks completely different from me with a completely different teenage experience, but what matters is that our mentalities and goals in life align very closely.
Before he showed up, I located a blonde 7.5 at a table in the corner that I wouldn't have any way to approach while I was sitting at a communal table by the exit. So when he got here, I told him that it'd be better to move to a table near the window so we did. I then moved my stuff over, went to the bathroom, and intentionally left one thing still at the place I was originally sitting at. I went and picked it up, and in order to go from the place I was originally sitting to the new table, its easy to go right past her. Which is what I did.
Blonde 7.5 on Laptop in Coffee shop
I opened this blonde 7.5 with piercing blue eyes and a tan as Mr_Nobody watched me from a distance. I went for an indirect, elderly opener telling her that I'm looking for a new laptop and whether I should get the same laptop as hers. According to Mr_Nobody, my initial opener and eye contact was strong, and we chatted for a while comparing Thinkpads and Macbooks, with her doing slightly more talking in this part.
After a good 5+ mins of friendly, smooth conversation about laptops with her being rather engaging, I decided to transition this into a conversation about getting to know her more by getting into Galnuc too quickly without dropping bait. Mr_Nobody thinks that I screwed up here, with the transition being too abrupt and "scaring the cat". While I probably scared the cat, the conversation surprisingly didn't falter one bit and both of us still had a lot to say for a good 10 mins.
I remember that I guessed almost correctly that she's half German, being a quarter German. Using the Galnuc tactic to transition between topics, we talked about where we go (went for her) to school. Turns she went to college in Athens, GA and just graduated, so there was a lot for both of to talk about college; then we chatted about our majors. After describing what I study in detail to her, she told me she studied international relations, so I dropped the big bait by asking her to guess what my favorite country is. She got it right in the first guess guess, and I told her about how vibrant and lit Moscow was and the fun experiences I've had there.
As the conversation has probably at least reached if not exceeded the 15 min mark, I went in for a number close. Turns out she has a boyfriend, but when she told me this, she hesitated and even stuttered a bit.
Even though I didn't get the number, I saw a noticeable improvement in my conversation skills and maintaining frame in front of attractive girls that just 6 months ago I would have been highly intimidated by. My biggest mistake was that I went into Galnuc too early so it seemed abrupt, and probably rambled a bit too much time on Galnuc topics rather than topics that progress naturally from the initial opener.
Mr_Nobody and I daygamed in a park all of Saturday afternoon, the chronicles of which will come up very soon!
Approach #22
We posted up at the same coffee shop I went on Monday for Friday afternoon. When I was waiting for Mr_Nobody to arrive, I approached a girl reading a book at the communal bar while waiting for my coffee. It turned out it was a book about midwifery, so I chatted to her a little about babies, with the conversation revolving around how babies cry a lot. And from there, I try to close via Galnuc by asking her where she studies midwifery. She told me which college she goes to, and we chatted a while comparing our respective universities. Then as I went in for the number close, she said that
"But I'm only in town for a few days"
Clearly she was lying and I pointed it out to her that its impossible to go to school here and only be here for a short trip on a few days. So I held my phone up and told her to put her number in. She refused, so I wished her good luck and left to a different table.
Mr_Nobody is Somebody
So Mr_Nobody shows up. He's white, around 6 ft tall with a muscular/athletic but not quite jacked build, and a rather alpha vibe. He looks completely different from me with a completely different teenage experience, but what matters is that our mentalities and goals in life align very closely.
Before he showed up, I located a blonde 7.5 at a table in the corner that I wouldn't have any way to approach while I was sitting at a communal table by the exit. So when he got here, I told him that it'd be better to move to a table near the window so we did. I then moved my stuff over, went to the bathroom, and intentionally left one thing still at the place I was originally sitting at. I went and picked it up, and in order to go from the place I was originally sitting to the new table, its easy to go right past her. Which is what I did.
Blonde 7.5 on Laptop in Coffee shop
I opened this blonde 7.5 with piercing blue eyes and a tan as Mr_Nobody watched me from a distance. I went for an indirect, elderly opener telling her that I'm looking for a new laptop and whether I should get the same laptop as hers. According to Mr_Nobody, my initial opener and eye contact was strong, and we chatted for a while comparing Thinkpads and Macbooks, with her doing slightly more talking in this part.
After a good 5+ mins of friendly, smooth conversation about laptops with her being rather engaging, I decided to transition this into a conversation about getting to know her more by getting into Galnuc too quickly without dropping bait. Mr_Nobody thinks that I screwed up here, with the transition being too abrupt and "scaring the cat". While I probably scared the cat, the conversation surprisingly didn't falter one bit and both of us still had a lot to say for a good 10 mins.
I remember that I guessed almost correctly that she's half German, being a quarter German. Using the Galnuc tactic to transition between topics, we talked about where we go (went for her) to school. Turns she went to college in Athens, GA and just graduated, so there was a lot for both of to talk about college; then we chatted about our majors. After describing what I study in detail to her, she told me she studied international relations, so I dropped the big bait by asking her to guess what my favorite country is. She got it right in the first guess guess, and I told her about how vibrant and lit Moscow was and the fun experiences I've had there.
As the conversation has probably at least reached if not exceeded the 15 min mark, I went in for a number close. Turns out she has a boyfriend, but when she told me this, she hesitated and even stuttered a bit.
Even though I didn't get the number, I saw a noticeable improvement in my conversation skills and maintaining frame in front of attractive girls that just 6 months ago I would have been highly intimidated by. My biggest mistake was that I went into Galnuc too early so it seemed abrupt, and probably rambled a bit too much time on Galnuc topics rather than topics that progress naturally from the initial opener.
Mr_Nobody and I daygamed in a park all of Saturday afternoon, the chronicles of which will come up very soon!