Keep in mind, that my post is not about the money, but about the principles. It's also not addressed exclusively to kimaru89.
How is she getting around, when she is meeting her friends, other lovers, going out etc? Why can't she get around like that, if she's meeting you? Would you pay a taxi for a girl that you didn't have sex with?
If a good friend really couldn't afford to get home or doesn't have enough cash in his wallet, of course I would help him out. Does this happen often?
That's how I tread girls I have sex with. I tread them like a good friend + the flirting and sexual stuff and not like someone who made me a present called sex without receiving the same from me, so I have to "pay" in other values, that this person spents time with me - - > The sex and the time she "gives" to me is more valuable, then the time and sex I give to her. It shouldn't be!
On the other hand, if I invite her for dinner etc and I know it's unaffordable for her, I pay. One thing that shows her attitude is if she sometimes pays for me if it's cheap things like a jeepney ride or whatever. It's not about the money, it's about the gesture. This is about beeing in a poor country. In a rich country we share the costs or maybe I pay today, she pays tomorrow. Like with good friends. Also think about it: If she's that poor that she even can't afford the transportation to come to your place, do you really want to spend time with her?
I'm in Kuala Lumpur right now. I don't know how someone can call it a shithole. I would say it's the most modern, cleanest, nicest and safest city in South East Asia after Singapore. I have fucked a vietnamese woman two times. She speaks really bad English (but understands it surprisingly well), has a son and she paid taxi and dinner for us and says stuff like "Grab is so cheap, I never used public transport". Public transport is awesome in Kuala Lumpur. Of course I also paid dinner etc.
To sum it up: I handle it with girls I have sex with like with a good friend + flirting, being sexual etc. If you just want to pump and dump her and have a bad conscience about it, because she wanted more or whatever and you used her like a masturbation doll and can't wait to get rid of her after, you can pay the taxi. I did it
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Anyway it's never P4P compared to a hooker. If she didn't like you, she wouldn't fuck you just for a taxi ride.