Quote: (11-06-2017 12:54 AM)Disco_Volante Wrote:
The frustrating thing about being self-employed is so much is still dependent on other people and them either buying your product or agreeing with your point of view.
It's not like running a marathon or weightlifting where your ambition is directly in your hands. You can't force clients to agree with you or move at your speed it sucks. So many men who make decisions are older with families and well-off to the point where they don't act with a sense of urgency or expediency it's frustrating as fuck.
For example, I guarantee anyone trying to get anything done Nov.18-30th will take twice as long simply because the cocksucker you're trying to do business with is going to be mentally checked out due to some family event or some shit. I hate it. Ultimately you can only move as fast as your clients can mentally accept.
The world changes fast as fuck and some of the older guys who run companies you'll deal with have already 'made it' and don't share your urgency.
Yea all of this exactly. I feel like I could've written this word for word.
The key decision-makers are usually middle-aged men with no sense of urgency. Some (most?) are at that point where they've delegated a lot of key responsibilities to their managers and only sign off on stuff after the managers have done all the heavy lifting with the due diligence.
When I first started my business, I went after the largest companies possible since they had the resources to decisively capture the market. However, I personally preferred dealing with smaller companies because they were (1) hungry to grow, (2) their CEOs were willing to give me direct access to them, and (3) they didn't/couldn't try to bully me into accepting their one-sided terms due to their market cap and influence.
But being small also meant they wouldn't have the warchest necessary for a proper marketing/advertising campaign.
And on the other hand, I got this one guy, real OG in the industry, who could make me a multi-millionaire with a stroke of a pen. He's a cunning little shit who is remarkably talented at getting others to take on the lion's share of the risk in any new venture and also frustratingly patient. I am genuinely concerned that he will try to exploit any weakness or mistake I may make to take the company out from under me.
That's been my experience so far. Swimming with turtles who mosey along at their own speed or sharks who are out for blood.
tl;dr: We don't always get to choose our customers/clients, and that sucks, but it is what it is.