Quote: (10-07-2017 09:49 AM)Ski pro Wrote:  

I cannot seem to find a consensus on this in this thread. By stop masturbating you mean to porn.? It's the fapping to porn which I understand to be the biggest issue here. It's a very destructive thing.

Quitting ALL forms of solo masturbation permanently (with or without porn) always produces the best results in men.



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Reporting back in guys. It's been a long time after my last post here. Anyway I'm on week 3. Completely clean which means no porn and no masturbation. My secret is simple. A. The right mindset and B. A 18 year old freshman chick that I'm banging.

Hey everyone.
I've tried NoFap in the past, but I had a bad experience with it.

My first bang after starting, I ended up finishing way too soon.
I'm talking about embarrassingly quick.

How am I to deal with this if I am to stop fapping?
I know I shouldn't care what the girl is thinking afterwards, but I still want to enjoy it!

Quote: (10-07-2017 11:35 PM)Sancho Wrote:  

Hey everyone.
I've tried NoFap in the past, but I had a bad experience with it.

My first bang after starting, I ended up finishing way too soon.
I'm talking about embarrassingly quick.

How am I to deal with this if I am to stop fapping?
I know I shouldn't care what the girl is thinking afterwards, but I still want to enjoy it!

Just fuck her twice. Dude you can fuck her all night long . Don't just stop because you came too early!

Quote: (10-07-2017 11:35 PM)Sancho Wrote:  

Hey everyone.
I've tried NoFap in the past, but I had a bad experience with it.

My first bang after starting, I ended up finishing way too soon.
I'm talking about embarrassingly quick.

How am I to deal with this if I am to stop fapping?
I know I shouldn't care what the girl is thinking afterwards, but I still want to enjoy it!

I had this same problem. I think many men here have had it. The solution is simple: keep banging. You will grow accustomed to it and regain your usual time marks.

I fucked a Tinderella last night. Over drinks she said she was worried I "just wanted to hook up."

An hour later she was naked in my apartment.

I fucked her four times. The first time I honestly lasted about 3, 3 and half minutes. Each time after a little longer.

She had an inquisitive look about my rapid orgasms. She kept making comments about me being "smooth" and so on, being impressed when I removed her bra with one hand, and was probably confused as to how a "smooth" guy could finish so soon

So I told her I stopped masturbating. She told me she masturbates a lot, watches porn, etc. Quite a slut.

I will fuck her again.

Something no one here has ever mentioned in the previous 137 pages. (Yes, I have read all pages of the entire thread)
A very simple and practical solution
Wearing something on your fapping hand whenever you go to sleep or are tempted.


A few suggestions:


Sandpaper glove:








Metal abrasive glove:







Anti masturbation cone:







These suggestions may seem absurd and silly and downright embarrassing, but for those who keep relapsing and have lost hope and given up, it could be a very practical simple solution that works.

Masturbation is for losers, so in my book any means necessary is acceptable
In the end who gives a shit what crazy method you used to quit this awful disgusting habit.

That last photo is an absolute pisser. It's a SAD reality what us men have become.

P.s my dog wore that around her neck when she had an infection on her foot to prevent her licking it.

Quote: (10-08-2017 07:33 PM)-eWf Wrote:  

That last photo is an absolute pisser. It's a SAD reality what us men have become.

The shame is not in wearing an anti masturbation cone.
If that is what it takes to make a man quit playing with himself, then so be it.
The true shame is not doing whatever it takes to stop jacking off like a weak pathetic animal.




Make a clear choice.
What kind of man do you want to be ?




Do you want to be this ?






Or this ?

Quote: (10-08-2017 05:18 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  

Something no one here has ever mentioned in the previous 137 pages. (Yes, I have read all pages of the entire thread)
A very simple and practical solution
Wearing something on your fapping hand whenever you go to sleep or are tempted.


A few suggestions:


Sandpaper glove:








Metal abrasive glove:







Anti masturbation cone:







These suggestions may seem absurd and silly and downright embarrassing, but for those who keep relapsing and have lost hope and given up, it could be a very practical simple solution that works.

Masturbation is for losers, so in my book any means necessary is acceptable
In the end who gives a shit what crazy method you used to quit this awful disgusting habit.

Bro what about the involuntary rub and scratches you in your sleep! I could never flirt with the chance that sandpaper gets any place close to my junk!

Mental strength is best to reprogram the brain to not want to give in. This method isn't easy but changing the environment to maintain mental strength is key.

Transition slowly to help adaptation versus going cold turkey. It is impossible to go from fapping 8 times a day and watching hardcore porn to the next day no porn/no fap, easing it in is a good strategy.

10 days in and I am not an animal yet. Horny as hell but it isn't so aggressive it handicaps me like I have noticed prior. The big milestone is the 2-3 week mark and then 1 month

Quote: (10-09-2017 08:08 AM)kosko Wrote:  

Bro what about the involuntary rub and scratches you in your sleep! I could never flirt with the chance that sandpaper gets any place close to my junk!

Mental strength is best to reprogram the brain to not want to give in. This method isn't easy but changing the environment to maintain mental strength is key.

Transition slowly to help adaptation versus going cold turkey. It is impossible to go from fapping 8 times a day and watching hardcore porn to the next day no porn/no fap, easing it in is a good strategy.

10 days in and I am not an animal yet. Horny as hell but it isn't so aggressive it handicaps me like I have noticed prior. The big milestone is the 2-3 week mark and then 1 month

My photo suggestions are for those who have failed over and over again.
Agree this is about training and hardening your own mental strength....but not all men are created equal.
By all means, I encourage you to do it the way you describe and I hope you succeed, but other men may not be so lucky and eventually reach a point where they are desperate to quit and have run out of other options.

Today I was out with a few co-workers for dinner and somehow the conversation turned to the subject of porn. A co-worker freely volunteered that he masturbates up to four times a day daily, shuffling through a wide variety of porn since he needs the constant variety. He then spoke about how he has no interest in real life women due to his sexual needs being completely satisfied by porn. In previous conversations we had discussed women and relationships and he had spoken about how relationships of any kind with women at this point in his life was not a priority whatsoever. I figured that it was mostly just due to him being a young guy that isn't too removed from his college years and not wanting to deal with the huge commitment at a young age when he has to focus on building a career and tackling the other parts of life. Nope, turns out a lot of it was just plain apathy and him throwing away his male energy down a black hole.

When I mentioned that I haven't whacked off for over 60 days, everyone at the table started at me in amazement as if what I did was a feat that couldn't be done by mortal means. I don't blame them because I would have thought the same thing if someone had told me they had done the same thing prior to accomplishing it myself. I spoke about the benefits, not the esoteric stuff so much since I knew a lot of it would seem unbelievable to people who haven't gone through the process but instead I focused on how it's an excellent way build up your discipline and that the willpower you cultivate from resisting one of the most basic and primal urges present in all biological beings transfers to other areas; concentrating on finishing a programming assignment and resisting the urge to instead goof off on your phone isn't as much of an epic feat once you see what you are capable of while doing no fap. A few of the other guys agreed with me, the most surprising agreement coming from this guy from Spain who's all about women and was actually currently trying to cheat on his girlfriend with Tinder thots. Perhaps he understands how overwhelming these flames can be, feeling it so strongly himself.

I tried to encourage my co-worker who was talking about whacking off multiple times a day to give no fap a try but I heard all the usual excuses: it's just too hard, I can't even last for more then 3 days, what's the point of it, I need to do it because I'm not getting women and I need a release and such. I pointed out that the discipline he would gain would benefit every part of his life and he replied he didn't need any of that as he's pretty satisfied with his life at the moment. I asked about what his typical day after work was like and looks like he throws much of it into video games. I wasn't surprised to hear that, complacency and not caring about where you life is going, how often do we see those attitudes from chronic porn users? Two of my other co-workers on the other hand agreed to give it a try so there's that.

I'd join the gathering just to share my accumulation of porn destinations with you all. Cmon, no wanking without porn isn't a test. Observing some well done and NOT wanking, now that is the thing that REAL MEN do!

These maille gloves are used by butchers when working with meat. I guess serious fappers should use them so they don't work with their "meat".

Quote: (10-10-2017 12:51 AM)lucyajones Wrote:  

I'd join the gathering just to share my accumulation of porn destinations with you all. Cmon, no wanking without porn isn't a test. Observing some well done and NOT wanking, now that is the thing that REAL MEN do!

This is the NoPorn / NoFap group. The consensus appears to be that porn is as damaging if not more so than wanking.

Kindly take your suggestions to Reddit.

Quote: (10-10-2017 12:51 AM)lucyajones Wrote:  

I'd join the gathering just to share my accumulation of porn destinations with you all. Cmon, no wanking without porn isn't a test. Observing some well done and NOT wanking, now that is the thing that REAL MEN do!

HAHAHAHAHA Lucy!

You really went there, didn't you! To the NoFap thread!

Women of my generation really have no idea how little their opinions are worth. To assert your female opinions on males resisting the urge to rub one out...The fucking chutzpah of you broads!

Not enough chutzpah to obey the rules (of course) & SHOW US YOUR NON-FAT TITTIES!

Keep reading Lucy (I know you are, you must be stinging hard from the ban). You're allowed to do that & you might just learn a thing or two, though I won't hold my breath.

Big love x

Quote: (10-09-2017 11:35 PM)Wutang Wrote:  

A co-worker freely volunteered that he masturbates up to four times a day daily

Bet nobody shakes his hand anymore...

Quote: (10-11-2017 07:28 AM)Sam Malone Wrote:  

Quote: (10-09-2017 11:35 PM)Wutang Wrote:  

A co-worker freely volunteered that he masturbates up to four times a day daily

Bet nobody shakes his hand anymore...

Is this what we've come to? That it's socially acceptable to talk about how much you masturbate...to your coworkers?

I would've lit this guy TF up!

Bragging about how much you masturbate is a stepping stone towards "sex bot" culture.

This stuff is coming. Sex bots, fleshlights, VR porn, the reason for men to drop out of the SMP increase everyday.

We could whine about it here on the forum, or we could call these guys out in person.

There's no reason we should have to accept his habits, or anyone's. If you think something's weird, speak up. It's likely no one else has the balls to.

Quote: (10-11-2017 08:14 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

Is this what we've come to? That it's socially acceptable to talk about how much you masturbate...to your coworkers?

I would've lit this guy TF up!

Bragging about how much you masturbate is a stepping stone towards "sex bot" culture.

This stuff is coming. Sex bots, fleshlights, VR porn, the reason for men to drop out of the SMP increase everyday.

I'm sure most of you recall the scene in Wolf of Wall Street where Matthew McConaughey's character is telling DiCaprio's character he needs to jerk off more. "Those are rookie numbers."

The cynic in me thinks that was added to brainwash more men into beating off more.

Quote: (10-11-2017 08:27 AM)Lucky Wrote:  

Quote: (10-11-2017 08:14 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

Is this what we've come to? That it's socially acceptable to talk about how much you masturbate...to your coworkers?

I would've lit this guy TF up!

Bragging about how much you masturbate is a stepping stone towards "sex bot" culture.

This stuff is coming. Sex bots, fleshlights, VR porn, the reason for men to drop out of the SMP increase everyday.

I'm sure most of you recall the scene in Wolf of Wall Street where Matthew McConaughey's character is telling DiCaprio's character he needs to jerk off more. "Those are rookie numbers."

The cynic in me thinks that was added to brainwash more men into beating off more.

I agree.

Now you've given me a good meme idea.

Next time someone says "I'm on day 5 of NoFap"....

Day 7 or 8 for me, never managed to go further than 14 days.
Just moved to a new city and have a shit ton of young, hot, horny and fertile girls in my dorm and university. Want to make the most of it so I will stop jerking it.

I already notice way more motivation and confidence when talking to girls and they pick up on it.
Today some gay dude at the mall grabbed my ass while I was on the escalator too, guess I'm oozing those pheromones.
I want 90 days, let's do this

Ended fap/porn the end of April. The end of this month will be 6 months. I FEEL AMAZING!!!!. I'm an athlete and my overall strength in the gym has gone up. I notice that i can endure more strenuous training. I also seem to be overall more positive on life. I've stopped thinking of things so negatively. You won't believe the effects until you actually DO IT. I turned my energy into approaching more women and in the last six months I'm an overall more social person. People ask me how do i make new friends so quickly nowadays but i wasn't like this 6 months ago. Life is short , anything that can enhance your well being should not be over looked

A girl i've met before but haven't banged wants to meet today, the thing is for the last 3 days I had a PMO binge and I don't feel that sexual energy, should I just go for it today or recharge my batteries and reschedule for next week?

1 month in and I need to put my thoughts somewhere. My willpower is really going down the drain right now. I'm on an extreme caloric deficit, which is enough taxing on my discipline by itself, and I'm alone for 4 days with no social life whatsoever due to family obligations. This means I don't really have a valve to relax.... I'm committed though, on Sunday I will have sex and then the rest of the week I will resume my normal life. But man being isolated with nothing but a pc is hard. I've already read and I don't really know what to do now! I guess it's time to continue with Jordan Peterson's Personality lectures. I was just venting here, I already feel better. Damn this thread is good for accountability.

Quote: (10-13-2017 10:52 AM)Mikestar Wrote:  

A girl i've met before but haven't banged wants to meet today, the thing is for the last 3 days I had a PMO binge and I don't feel that sexual energy, should I just go for it today or recharge my batteries and reschedule for next week?

It is much more likely you will bang her if you are on NoFap at least 7 days.

However, you have to make a judgement call.
Next week she might have another guy asking her out, be on her period, or have any other excuse not to see you.
On a general basis, I would never postpone a date with a girl you haven't banged (but want to) for any reason.

You will just have to push yourself a lot more harder not to be lazy in getting the bang on the date.