Hello Guys,

I'd like to start this new thread because i think a lot of other "players" in here also have a younger sister, like myself and i was wondering how do you prevent your little sisters from having sex and in general having sex with players .

I'm having a really young 18 year old sister at the moment who has a boyfriend already for 7 months and i heard them having sex and it's made me really depressed. My little sister having sex with her boyfriend, it felt horrendous.

I was wondering to the other players out here, how do you prevent your little sister from having sex with her boyfriend or with players or to postpone it as long as possible, or just to make sure she gets not on the slut carroussel?

Quote: (08-27-2017 11:45 AM)SpursFan741 Wrote:  

Hello Guys,

I'd like to start this new thread because i think a lot of other "players" in here also have a younger sister, like myself and i was wondering how do you prevent your little sisters from having sex and in general having sex with players .

I'm having a really young 18 year old sister at the moment who has a boyfriend already for 7 months and i heard them having sex and it's made me really depressed. My little sister having sex with her boyfriend, it felt horrendous. Should i insult her or beat her up or what is the best way to make sure she is not having sex anymore?

I was wondering to the other players out here, how do you prevent your little sister from having sex with her boyfriend or to postpone it as long as possible?

This sounds like some elliot rodgers shit.

Would not be better to make a thread on "How can I bang the girlfriends of my 18 year old sister" ?

I more meant it like "how to avoid that your sister will be on the slut carroussel", not that she needs to be a lesbian. To show her the right values from a family.

OP,

She's in a LTR and has sex, I don't see any issue.
It's not like if she was banging 3 new dudes, each week.

Can I be 100% honest with you here?
Have you already felt like this with another girl?
Someone you had a crush on, for example...and you felt depressed when she was hooking up with an other dude?
...
Do you find your sister attractive?
You might have some inner work to do in here, just saying.

Quote: (08-27-2017 12:13 PM)Latan Wrote:  

OP,

She's in a LTR and has sex, I don't see any issue.
It's not like if she was banging 3 new dudes, each week.

Can I be 100% honest with you here?
Have you already felt like this with another girl?
Someone you had a crush on, for example...and you felt depressed when she was hooking up with an other dude?
...
Do you find your sister attractive?
You might have some inner work to do in here, just saying.

I appreciate your honest reaction.

I'm not worried that she has sex in LTR, i know it's normal but it's more about the age. 18 years is way too young and i may afraid she will get up to the slut carroussel after this.

And i don't find my sister attractive and i never had any issues by myselves with sombody i had a crush on ( i went to asia on a fairly young age).

Quote: (08-27-2017 12:28 PM)SpursFan741 Wrote:  

I'm not worried that she has sex in LTR, i know it's normal but it's more about the age. 18 years is way too young and i may afraid she will get up to the slut carroussel after this.

Frankly, 18 years old is nowhere near too early to have sex. She is an adult woman and can make her own choices in this regard.

The time to educate a young woman about making wise decisions in her personal life begins in late childhood and extends to her mid-teens. If she hasn't taken good advice and steering to heart by then, it is probably too late. In any event if you already heard her having sex, that ship has long sailed.

Quote: (08-27-2017 12:28 PM)SpursFan741 Wrote:  

Quote: (08-27-2017 12:13 PM)Latan Wrote:  

OP,

She's in a LTR and has sex, I don't see any issue.
It's not like if she was banging 3 new dudes, each week.

Can I be 100% honest with you here?
Have you already felt like this with another girl?
Someone you had a crush on, for example...and you felt depressed when she was hooking up with an other dude?
...
Do you find your sister attractive?
You might have some inner work to do in here, just saying.

I appreciate your honest reaction.

I'm not worried that she has sex in LTR, i know it's normal but it's more about the age. 18 years is way too young and i may afraid she will get up to the slut carroussel after this.

And i don't find my sister attractive and i never had any issues by myselves with sombody i had a crush on ( i went to asia on a fairly young age).

Why is 18 way too young?
What would you think an appropriate age? Also, how many girls have you slept with?

We'll try to be quieter next time.

I don't think he has "some inner work to do". Way too often do we pathologize normal behavior. Dude's wondering how to make sure his sister doesn't end up on the cock carousel, and you think that's weird behavior???

It's absolutely normal for men to feel uneasy about their younger female relatives (sisters and daughters) having sex. You typically see them as innocent little angels as you've seen them grow up from the time they were a little baby.

OP, the only thing I can see working is if she has good role models in her life. One guy I knew had two younger sisters: 8 and 12 years younger. He got a girlfriend in his mid-twenties, they dated for almost a decade and then got married. The girlfriend (now wife) had a really good relationship with the 2 sisters for the entire time and perhaps unsurprising both sisters are now in strong LTRs themselves.

So are you in an LTR with a girl who can be a role model for your sister?

Does she have slut girlfriends? This will be a major determinant in how your sister ends up. Last year I met this girl who was a virgin, despite having had 2 boyfriend. I also ended up meeting her best friend and it explained why this girl was still a virgin: her best friend had only had one boyfriend and didn't drink/do anything crazy.

Do you and your sister attend a traditional church where the women marry young? If not, could you yourself join such a church and at some point tag your sister along?

You can't prevent your sister from having sex, but you may be able to introduce quality people in her life that will induce the social norms you want.

Quote: (08-27-2017 12:47 PM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

I don't think he has "some inner work to do". Way too often do we pathologize normal behavior. Dude's wondering how to make sure his sister doesn't end up on the cock carousel, and you think that's weird behavior???

It's absolutely normal for men to feel uneasy about their younger female relatives (sisters and daughters) having sex. You typically see them as innocent little angels as you've seen them grow up from the time they were a little baby.

OP, the only thing I can see working is if she has good role models in her life. One guy I knew had two younger sisters: 8 and 12 years younger. He got a girlfriend in his mid-twenties, they dated for almost a decade and then got married. The girlfriend (now wife) had a really good relationship with the 2 sisters for the entire time and perhaps unsurprising both sisters are now in strong LTRs themselves.

So are you in an LTR with a girl who can be a role model for your sister?

Does she have slut girlfriends? This will be a major determinant in how your sister ends up. Last year I met this girl who was a virgin, despite having had 2 boyfriend. I also ended up meeting her best friend and it explained why this girl was still a virgin: her best friend had only had one boyfriend and didn't drink/do anything crazy.

Do you and your sister attend a traditional church where the women marry young? If not, could you yourself join such a church and at some point tag your sister along?

You can't prevent your sister from having sex, but you may be able to introduce quality people in her life that will induce the social norms you want.

This is a really usefull reaction , thanks.

We are a traditional christian family ( my grandparents were farmers)and my family lives in a small village. She used to go before to church when she was younger but now not anymore, i'll try to take her to church together with me for All Saints. But there is 0% divorce in our family which is really good.

There are some role models in our family ( female cousins who are in long term relationships and parents who are still together).

And i'm not really a good example for this. I'm not into a LTR at the moment and i haven't been for a while..

But she started to smoking 4 months ago ( influence by some bad friends) , so this could be a point to worry about. In this age, she is really easy to get influenced and get on the wrong way , smoking and experiencing with drugs is a good example from this . But i try to take her more to church, thanks.

Beating up your sister crossed your mind because she did something completely normal, and this is also making you depressed? Dude something is wrong with you. What next, "How to carry out an honor killing on a family member?"

OP what age are you? If you're not old enough to move out, you're not old enough to have an opinion about your sister's behaviour.

Have you spoken to the boyfriend? Is he a good/bad dude? Are you in a major city? Are you getting laid yourself?

Quote: (08-27-2017 01:20 PM)Repo Wrote:  

Beating up your sister crossed your mind because she did something completely normal, and this is also making you depressed? Dude something is wrong with you. What next, "How to carry out an honor killing on a family member?"

In OP's defense: where does he say he thought about beating her up?

Personally I think it's kinda messed up that OP is complaining about his sister having sex with her a boyfriend that she's been with for 7 months already.
Meanwhile OP probably didn't have a relationship with most of the girls he's banged (if I'm wrong, I stand corrected but what I said does apply to most members, myself included).
If his sister is only having sex with someone while being in a relationship, she's more virtuous than 90% of the members.

@svoboda

He edited that part out of his post when he realized how bad it sounded. See phoenix's response to his original post.

Sounds like you are being a little too protective. What's wrong with an 18 year old girl having sex in a LTR? If you are concerned with what comes after, well it's her life not yours.

Quote: (08-27-2017 12:44 PM)Col. Tigh Wrote:  

Quote: (08-27-2017 12:28 PM)SpursFan741 Wrote:  

I'm not worried that she has sex in LTR, i know it's normal but it's more about the age. 18 years is way too young and i may afraid she will get up to the slut carroussel after this.

Frankly, 18 years old is nowhere near too early to have sex. She is an adult woman and can make her own choices in this regard.

The time to educate a young woman about making wise decisions in her personal life begins in late childhood and extends to her mid-teens. If she hasn't taken good advice and steering to heart by then, it is probably too late. In any event if you already heard her having sex, that ship has long sailed.

Yea man you're a little too late...and by a little I mean atlas 4 years. You have until age 14 to get shit done with teaching women how to act. Thats around the time their bodies finish maturing and they start to formulate their opinions on men and how they treat her just for being attractive. She starts realizing that she doesnt need to grow as a person anymore because she can manipulate men with her sexuality--thus the forum's understanding that women are like children.
My advice is to somehow persuade her that most men are underneath her and that she should use her sexuality to manipulate men of value. That would at least keep her from fucking a lot of the population and move her "fuck range" to higher ups. Not a solution but its at least a bandaid

You sound quite creepy, and trust me that when I say it then I really mean it.

Send her to me. I volunteer to perfect her education.

Seems to me that you are just a jealous orbiter.

At 18 it's probably too late to start teaching her values.

She's learned them all by now, and is going to be who she is.

Its admirable to hope for a chaste female relative, but the whole of society is against you, sexualism them and encouraging debauchery, headism and celebrating degenerative behaviours.

If your sister having sex is making you feel awkward, what's going to happen in the event you have a daughter?

18, you say? Hmm...is she hot?

If you were serious about this, you should have started this thread 7 years ago.

Too late now.

Quote: (08-27-2017 11:45 AM)SpursFan741 Wrote:  

I'm having a really young 18 year old sister at the moment who has a boyfriend already for 7 months and i heard them having sex and it's made me really depressed. My little sister having sex with her boyfriend, it felt horrendous.

How long did you listen? Tell the truth.

Aloha!