Quote: (07-11-2017 10:59 AM)debeguiled Wrote:
Are there already labels in standard psychology for sigmas and gammas?
No point in trying to break new ground if you are reinventing the wheel.
Debeguiled:
Some shared qualities - like passive-aggression and high-sensitivity, but they're definitely a
separate thing.
The main difference: Gammas
are socially-empathic,
can recognise nuance,
can recognise superior arguments they have no recourse against, and
can clearly see the reality of the social structure, easily-identifying those who are genuinely-superior to them in intelligence and social popularity. It's why it's so easy for them to lose face, particularly online, because they're constantly-setting themselves up to be knocked down.
The Gamma deep-down knows he's lying about reality. The True Narcissist doesn't. Perhaps that's the key difference. One's a personality dysfunction that can be grown out of with self-awareness and discipline, one's a psychological dysfunction, not so easy to repair.
Gammas are self-aware enough they would never enact the behaviour described in Point 1 unless they were sure they had dominance of the social circle. They might occassionally act out to provoke, but they're self-aware enough to know 'Talk shit, get hit'. Therefore, resentment causes an uncontrolled outburst, then it becomes "Hey, I was only joking."
Point 2: No. No matter how boring or obscure the topic, the Gamma pretends to be an expert in it.
Point 7: Gammas don't have trouble making relationships at all, the way a Narcissist can't. It's just they aren't able to make the relationships they believe they deserve. They tend to do best in subcultures where everyone else is more-pathetic than them, so they can feel like the Alpha. My Stepfather has a circle of genuine friends who can tolerate the quirks of his personality: Deltas and Omegas. My teenage Gamma mate, when the rest of us were starting to hit nightclubs and dance parties, would brag about him being a 'big wheel' in the ten-pin bowling scene.
The problem's happen when they try and enter an Alpha Scene, such as my Stepfather in the Gun Club.
A narcissist's dysfunction happens everywhere.
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Also, even if they
were close enough to be used-interchangeably:
Think of how the Left uses the language of academia as exclusionary code.
Think of how Trump is able to talk to working class people.
Think of how most people don't know what Cognitive Dissonance is, and how it influences the Left politically, but a very intelligent man coined the term 'Doublethink' that had mass appeal.
Cut back to me explaining-carefully to Bill what 'co-dependency' means. Bill: "Fucked in the head." See the failure to persuade? Maybe if I've said "They're like Vampires who survive by feeding off each other's blood..."
Think about 'Cuckservative'.
Think about 'Fake News'.
Do you see the rhetorical power of 'Gamma' to produce an emotional response - everyone knows what Alpha Male is - in a way 'Covert, Introverted Narcissist' completely fails to do? Particularly in the Gamma.
I very much love it, because I'm seeing people in the sphere saying to others "Don't be Gamma", and people knowing what that means. It can be used to give people a self-awareness of patterned behaviour - as I said, Gamma can be worked on,
if the person can admit they have the problem.
Even me. Remember, I was a pre-teen Gamma. There are still moments where that little Gamma instinct rears its ugly head, and I firmly slap it the fuck down.
Conversely, if Sigma is just Gamma with High Social Function, I also work hard to reign the extreme instincts of that in.
An example: that Blonde-Haired CNN reporter the other day saying people going against The Narrative deserve to be doxxed. If I had a Twitter, my Sigma instinct is to slap her pride and pretension down, and being Sigma, I'd take it too far. What might start out as calling her a "CNNT"; would go through me mocking the constant stream of white privilege pictures on her Instagram feed; would then end up with me mocking her with pictures of her eyes over a series of increasingly-white backgrounds, (since her Instagram profile is a series of pictures with increasingly-high contrast to hide her wrinkles I know her vanity about aging is an obvious weak point of attack; and then devolve into me posting her own pictures of her trio of young nieces to John Podesta, asking him if he wants to invite her little girls over for Pizza, not caring if the rumours are true, and that did put them in danger, because I feel no mercy for the children of my enemies. If they'd call me on that, I'd say "The one on the right already has the dead eyes of a kid who's being regularly-fucked by a creep." They set the rules of engagement, I'm just matching their standards.
Obviously, I wouldn't last long on Twitter. Like Gamma, Sigma needs active mental vigilance.
I mentioned in another thread about learning to bear dishonest slander with patience and grace. Reading between the lines of the Bible, it's saying, on a psychological sense: "Don't overreact, worry about the social loss of face, and furiously-protest your innocence like a Gamma would. Don't retaliate to extremes like a Sigma would. Patience and grace has both healthy mental and social rewards over time"