I threw up an ad last night, it went live at 1:30am and I was at a girl's house at 2:30am. Two blocks from my house.

Small town too, but I tailored my ad to appeal to that.

This is a great move if you're on a dry streak. Better than messaging 50 people on tinder or whatever. One ad and people come to you.

When I asked why she replied to my ad, she said the headline, which was simply: Listen to Me.

Also, I'm a copywriter, so writing an ad is automatically appealing to me.

Quote: (05-09-2017 02:52 PM)Lights Wrote:  

I threw up an ad last night, it went live at 1:30am and I was at a girl's house at 2:30am. Two blocks from my house.

Small town too, but I tailored my ad to appeal to that.

This is a great move if you're on a dry streak. Better than messaging 50 people on tinder or whatever. One ad and people come to you.

When I asked why she replied to my ad, she said the headline, which was simply: Listen to Me.

Also, I'm a copywriter, so writing an ad is automatically appealing to me.

What section did you post the ad under (casual encounters or dating)? Did you include pics of yourself-- or send them via email/text?

Quote: (05-09-2017 03:04 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

Did you include pics of yourself-- or send them via email/text?

I put two pics of myself. No face shot. Just showing my body.
No dick pic either. I blurred any identifying marks.

I posted under the dating one.

She emailed me write away (I didn't put a number) and included a pic of her tits.

My ad had some erotic copy.

I had no way of knowing if she was real or not so I just asked ...and she replied with her number to call her.

So I did.

It was bizarre at first but it turned out great. Be careful though. I had no way of knowing what was waiting for me.

On average how many messages do you exchange before meeting up? I seem to propose for meeting too fast (in my 3rd message or so).

P.S. I've posted an ad that targets young girls who are into older men. Got a response from a cute 18 year old today. Seemed to be really up for it so after a few messages I suggested to meet for a coffee today but then she didn't respond. I guess I went too fast.

You don't meet CL girls for coffee, you meet them to fuck. You can just outright start talking dirty and flirting and pushing to meet at someone's house or a motel. She probably thought you were looking for something else and she was just looking for dick.

If the ad is sexual in nature (as it should be). Push for a meeting 2nd or 3rd message right after you build enough comfort to let them know you're not a serial killer and they know you're their type/handsom/whatever and have working sex organs.

Quote: (06-10-2017 04:37 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  

You don't meet CL girls for coffee, you meet them to fuck. You can just outright start talking dirty and flirting and pushing to meet at someone's house or a motel. She probably thought you were looking for something else and she was just looking for dick.

If the ad is sexual in nature (as it should be). Push for a meeting 2nd or 3rd message right after you build enough comfort to let them know you're not a serial killer and they know you're their type/handsom/whatever and have working sex organs.

@duedue

^Eugenics is right

Your coffee "date" suggestion likely instantly transformed you from "hot dominant daddy fantasy" to "creepster old guy" in her mind's eye.

Additionally, a lot of young chicks have daddy issues that manifest as older guy fantasies. But that doesn't mean they want anyone to know about it. In fact the most common reason young chickies don't act on the fantasy is their fear of being judged for it.

It's ok if your her "dirty little secret". But she doesn't necessarily want to be seen in public with a "dirty old man".

Interesting. I thought she might not be comfortable stopping by at the place of someone she just talked to on CL so suggested the date in place of meeting for a drink (because of her age). Any way to save this one? Something like "Stop by at my place daddy wants to see how wild this innocent looking girl is"?

Quote: (06-11-2017 06:41 AM)duedue Wrote:  

Interesting. I thought she might not be comfortable stopping by at the place of someone she just talked to on CL so suggested the date in place of meeting for a drink (because of her age). Any way to save this one? Something like "Stop by at my place daddy wants to see how wild this innocent looking girl is"?

I dont know if you can save this one but I would definitely add something like "I'll be your dirty little secret" and "I can host" right in the ads. See if your response rate goes up. Maybe send the same thing to that one

"Bring a friend"



...who knows? Cant hurt

I get quite a few responses to my ads but I bomb most of them for a reason another. Got a response to the ad mentioned above from a cute blond, an 8 at least.We exchanged a few messages, she telling me she was submissive in bed, I did some banter and she seemed to be intelligent and really interested. I asked her when she was free to meet, she said she was in another town with he folks and could meet in a week. A couple days later (yesterday) I sent her a message that I'd be in her town for the holiday. (The trip is for personal reasons not for the sake of meeting her.) No response yet. She had asked me why I was using CL (among other questions) but I didn't answer that one. I guess the best thing to do would be not to get back to her till/if she does so first.

I will admit this first: I have never met a girl from CL. I have read posts there though. I find it hard to believe attractive women without mental illness use the website. There are too many other options for this to make sense. Can someone explain to me why a normal, attractive women would use CL vs other options? Genuinely curious.

Surprises me its young girls on CL looking for older men. Why wouldn't they just go on SA to find older dick and get money for it?

I believe they do that spur of the moment or they get curious about the personals section when they are browsing other parts of CL. CL has a mysterious old school aspect to it that at first you have no idea whom you're talking to or who's written an ad and I believe this makes it a little attractive, just a little, to make it worth a try. Also not all girls know about SA.

Quote: (07-03-2017 12:34 PM)astro Wrote:  

I will admit this first: I have never met a girl from CL. I have read posts there though. I find it hard to believe attractive women without mental illness use the website. There are too many other options for this to make sense. Can someone explain to me why a normal, attractive women would use CL vs other options? Genuinely curious.

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The End.

Quote: (07-03-2017 12:34 PM)astro Wrote:  

I will admit this first: I have never met a girl from CL. I have read posts there though. I find it hard to believe attractive women without mental illness use the website. There are too many other options for this to make sense. Can someone explain to me why a normal, attractive women would use CL vs other options? Genuinely curious.

To elaborate, for the very reasons you think they wouldn't. It's all counterintuitive...sometimes it's spur of the moment but many of these women have always wanted a way to act out their depraved fantasies but they fear of being judged has held them back. This is one avenue for them to take that is nearly anonymous (they think), has a hint of danger,eroticism & mystery. Afterwards, they go about their normal lives.

The difference between this and places like OKC, POF and the other alphabet soup sites, is that on those there is a certain frame they have to preserve as it is seen as a dating platform and along with that come a certain rigidness

On CL, when they answer your ad the sparks of curiousity has already been lit and it becomes your mission to turn it into a wildfire. No pretense of a LTR, or courting to has be removed, because it was never there.

"Surprises me its young girls on CL looking for older men. Why wouldn't they just go on SA to find older dick and get money for it?"

For the same reason most guys with game would never pay for sex. Just because a younger women wants to sleep with an older guy doesn't mean she's a whore.

@duedue: Think of CL... as a Goddamn Filthy place... that's organised! I know this seems like a weird picture to paint... but just like others who've responded to you... it's the correct one!

It took me a bit to figure it out since I came to CL from Daygame... but on CL, you're mentality going in HAS TO BE "I'll Fuck you Rawdawg while choking you out Bitch"... but with elegant charm & delicacy! I know WTF!

It sounds crude & sadistic in a way... but that's what average to good-looking Chicks are looking for on CL. ALL legit semi attractive Chick on CL are on other Dating sites. CL is their Truck Stop!

Quote: (07-03-2017 12:44 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  

Surprises me its young girls on CL looking for older men. Why wouldn't they just go on SA to find older dick and get money for it?

Because not all girls know about SA, SA girls are mostly ones in college or strippers. Your local ghetto queen won't know about SA....although that is starting to change.

Edit: I gave up on CL, for some reason my ads always get flagged within 30 minutes. I used to post some stats about me, location, and cock size along with a body/face/dick pic. My proposal was "drinks and dick" or "cock and scotch". Any advice guys?

Also, do you guys have any "MILFs/Cougars" replying to y'all? I'm wondering whether to do a "one ad fits all" or post two ads, one for younger and one for older.....but then they might read both and not be interested.

Quote: (07-03-2017 12:01 PM)duedue Wrote:  

I get quite a few responses to my ads but I bomb most of them for a reason another. Got a response to the ad mentioned above from a cute blond, an 8 at least.We exchanged a few messages, she telling me she was submissive in bed, I did some banter and she seemed to be intelligent and really interested. I asked her when she was free to meet, she said she was in another town with he folks and could meet in a week. A couple days later (yesterday) I sent her a message that I'd be in her town for the holiday. (The trip is for personal reasons not for the sake of meeting her.) No response yet. She had asked me why I was using CL (among other questions) but I didn't answer that one. I guess the best thing to do would be not to get back to her till/if she does so first.

If she's telling you she's submissive in bed then tell her what to do.,,, Dont ask. The fantasy for her is giving up control...comfort banter is less necessary (and actually counter productive) as with this type as the "raped/ravaged" component is almost always present in the submissive fantasy/dynamic. Use it

Try "I want you to meet me at XYZ (your address) tomorrow at 7pm. Dont disappoint Daddy and dont be late else he'll have to punish you"

Disclosing your address is likely all the comfort she'll need

Quote: (07-03-2017 04:20 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

"Surprises me its young girls on CL looking for older men. Why wouldn't they just go on SA to find older dick and get money for it?"

For the same reason most guys with game would never pay for sex. Just because a younger women wants to sleep with an older guy doesn't mean she's a whore.

Just because the currency isn't money doesn't mean she isn't

Quote: (07-04-2017 03:29 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Quote: (07-03-2017 12:44 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  

Surprises me its young girls on CL looking for older men. Why wouldn't they just go on SA to find older dick and get money for it?

Because not all girls know about SA, SA girls are mostly ones in college or strippers. Your local ghetto queen won't know about SA....although that is starting to change.

Edit: I gave up on CL, for some reason my ads always get flagged within 30 minutes. I used to post some stats about me, location, and cock size along with a body/face/dick pic. My proposal was "drinks and dick" or "cock and scotch". Any advice guys?

Also, do you guys have any "MILFs/Cougars" replying to y'all? I'm wondering whether to do a "one ad fits all" or post two ads, one for younger and one for older.....but then they might read both and not be interested.

Maybe not to use the words "cock" or "dick"? Also try posting using a new email address.

Quote: (07-04-2017 03:29 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Because not all girls know about SA, SA girls are mostly ones in college or strippers. Your local ghetto queen won't know about SA....although that is starting to change.

Edit: I gave up on CL, for some reason my ads always get flagged within 30 minutes. I used to post some stats about me, location, and cock size along with a body/face/dick pic. My proposal was "drinks and dick" or "cock and scotch". Any advice guys?

Also, do you guys have any "MILFs/Cougars" replying to y'all? I'm wondering whether to do a "one ad fits all" or post two ads, one for younger and one for older.....but then they might read both and not be interested.

When my ads have been flagged, they never actually go live. Meaning that there's something in the post that the system is picking up on and causing the post to be flagged automatically.

I've even had a time where I posted two different ads, one of which was flagged and the other wasn't. But the overall gist of them were the same, the writing was just slightly different.

It's certain words or combinations of words, I guess, but I haven't taken the time to figure it out.

If you still want to give it a try, just rewrite a sentence or two of your ad and keep reposting it.

If all you're writing is literally "drinks and dick"/"cock and scotch", try taking out the words dick/cock or changing your pics.

Quote: (07-03-2017 01:16 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

Quote: (07-03-2017 12:34 PM)astro Wrote:  

I will admit this first: I have never met a girl from CL. I have read posts there though. I find it hard to believe attractive women without mental illness use the website. There are too many other options for this to make sense. Can someone explain to me why a normal, attractive women would use CL vs other options? Genuinely curious.

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The End.

Bingo.

The reason attractive girls REPLY to CL ads is:

1. It's extremely anonymous; she's only showing her pic to one guy, and even then she may not show her face in the pics.

As I've posted before, a coworker of mine's GF messaged me through CL in the past, practically begging for it. If she had done the same on Tinder, dating sites, etc., her boyfriend almost certainly would have found out.

2. The guy she's messaging has already proven value (if you wrote your ad right).

There's a thread on here about something that Tyler Durden of RSD wrote about the "Secret Society". The fact that you can write a few short paragraphs that show experience and understanding of women and sex puts you in the secret society category, where it's not a big deal to fuck you.

She knows you're an "unjudging stud", as MDP put it.

Basically, CL allows her to only expose herself to a very select number of guys, and those select number guys are already vetted, in her mind.

As I believe I've pointed out before, the girls I've gotten from CL have been MORE attractive than the girls I've landed from regular online dating. And those CL bangs required substantially less time and effort.

Messing around on CL can really show you the red pill on women, in a lot of ways.

I've had some great success with CL ads. Have some FB's I still hook up with years later. Just updated & renewed my ad from 8 years ago, lol.

One more thing: does suggesting to meet the same day convey thirst? I know through reading and personal experience that it's not good to ask when she is available to meet so it leaves the ball in my court.