Sounds like you are good at making girls comfortable around you. Thats good. Very good because
comfort is a critical part of the process (without it they will just go away)
Here are a few tips to build on the
comfort and create
attraction .
Accidental / casual touching is a way to break the contact barrier.
1.When possible sit next to her not across. This way your knees can "accidently" form time to time. This "innocent" cotanct helps build the sexual tension...aka "tingles"
2. If she's wearing jewelry ask her about it. If she's wearing a bracelet grab the hand she's wearing it on and say "That's a cool bracelet. Where did you get it?" Keep looking at it as she tells you the story then just make something up "It reminds me of the bracelets the women in Bali wear when they want to signal that they are single" (or some other such bullshit story...have fun with it....the more you do this the better at it you'll get)
The same thing works for necklaces, and earrings (just put your finger tips behind the item as you ask)
This does two things: Allows you to casually make physical contact without it seeming like a big deal and the story allows you to indirectly drop important information "value" on yourself : you travel, youre experienced, cultured....
interesting. That is the most important thing to "be" if you want to create "attraction". The worst thing to be is boring Youre going to need stories to tell (but thats another topic)
3. Look her in the eye when speaking to her. Holding eye contact is super important. When she's talking alternate between her eyes and her lips. This is very suggestive to girls. They know you want to fuck their mouth and are thinking about it but the fact that its not being talked about is very exciting....the opposite of boring
4. Sexual-ize the conversation subtly as quickly as possible. For example for years I used a routine I called "Evan and Mongo" (this works really well with groups of two or more girls) Basically Id ask girls what they wanted in a guy (this is automatically leading the discussion towards sex...the most interesting subject there is to girls) . Id always get the "Im looking for a guy who's funny, sensitive, smart....yadayadayada" Then Id say "ok Well I have two friends Evan and Mongo. Tell me which one sounds more interesting to you. Evan is sensitive guy who writes poetry, plays acoustic guitar, does volunteer work at the homeless shelter,,,,blah bla blah" Basically to girls this guy sounds like a boring phag
Her/them "What about the other guy, what's his name?...Mongo?"
This is where I'd smile to myself
PT "Well Mongo is the complete opposite of Evan. He's more of a cave man"
Her "Oooh how so?"
PT "Well Mongo is the kind of guy that will just come over to your house, pull you down by your hair , rip your clothes off and jungle fuck the shit out of you within an inch of your life"
Girls reactions then progress from
to
then
"OMG!.."
Convo sexualization achievement unlocked. Note though I did this indirectly by making it about third parties (Evan and Mongo)
they know that I knowwhat's up. From there its a playful mock hair pulling, grab assing, manhandling and a very short transition to make out then bang. Pulled a few 3 ways this way
Customized for situation, personalty, etc...this was my go to for years
Hope this helps
Play on
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Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
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"Leap, and the net will appear".
John Burroughs
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The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
Joseph Campbell