Greeting gentlemen,

So I've been going out alot lately, and I've been doing my fare share of approaches. When I talk to women I'm usually funny, friendly and a bit of a jerk (but in a funny way.. meaning i don't filter what i say). "example: Easy there modern 21st century woman, times are changing.. my turn to get wine and dined"

I approached a group of girls with my buddy, we were taking, flirting we were I was getting alot of good vibes and out of no were one of them called me sassy. I paused for a second cause I don't really know what that means for a guy to be called sassy. I brushed it off my cracking a smirk and choosing not to comment on it.

Basically my question/concern is.. What does it mean when a guy is called sassy.

It's an easy shit test. I typically agree and amplify by thrusting my hips to one side and doing the Z snap. gets some laughs, and things go on as normal. Nothing to trip about.

Don't overthink it, it's just a shit test. It really doesn't mean anything besides the usual 'she's shit testing you', just agree and amplify and move on without a second thought.

Quote: (02-28-2017 09:57 AM)dima514 Wrote:  

Greeting gentlemen,

So I've been going out alot lately, and I've been doing my fare share of approaches. When I talk to women I'm usually funny, friendly and a bit of a jerk (but in a funny way.. meaning i don't filter what i say). "example: Easy there modern 21st century woman, times are changing.. my turn to get wine and dined"

I approached a group of girls with my buddy, we were taking, flirting we were I was getting alot of good vibes and out of no were one of them called me sassy. I paused for a second cause I don't really know what that means for a guy to be called sassy. I brushed it off my cracking a smirk and choosing not to comment on it.

Basically my question/concern is.. What does it mean when a guy is called sassy.

That line sounds kind of "tryhard" to me, frankly. Maybe that's why you're sassy.

One thing I've noticed about my own game and I'm trying to work on: I talk too much. It's OK to be cocky but a while back I went out with the best "natural" I know, an old friend from down in NJ and he watched me and put it this way: "You're talking too much at these girls. She's thinking 'Boy I really liked him until he opened his mouth.' It's coming off as gay."

I think he's got a point.

Quote: (02-28-2017 11:06 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

"You're talking too much at these girls. She's thinking 'Boy I really liked him until he opened his mouth.' It's coming off as gay."

...Gay for that pussy

Sassy isn't bad, it means you have her attention and she is into the conversation. Can be good during an opener, pace needs to change though after opening. I think a lot of guys that don't have solid sex appeal game, yet have solid social game fall into the trap of using to the same energy of opening (that they are good at) to try to hook a girl. This doesn't work. Acting like you are on The View or some other witty feminine banter only acts to let the girls quickly know you aren't a creep and know how to socialize. Once the girls get that and the bitch shields fall, time to send in the tanks.

Hooking a girl is about sexuality. This is more about posture, vocal pace & tone, smiling the right way at the right time, eye contact, touching a girl the right way at the right time, invading space.

Looking at my own experience getting a girl to say that shit test though means you probably are going a little hard on trying to hook attention or get reactions. Too much trying to score witty points instead of pussy wetter points.

The times where I have gotten the surefire girl hot for me lays or my friends, or seeing another guy out and pretty much steam rolling the girl with his game is that there is some light banter, not to that level of getting called sassy though.

If it's going right with a girl even in a group situation most everything is eye contact and finding a way to start touching and isolating her. If you have her comfortable enough you can put your hands on her shoulders or hips and lean in to whisper silly shit in her ear to make her giggle "her and your secret" even when in a group situation you are getting toward that guaranteed clip off coupon bang. When that's happening she isn't saying "you're sassy". She's giggling or saying usually in your ear or only to you directly (not to the group open for comment) shit tests more like "do you have a girlfriend?", "how many girls do you get with?", "you're bad", "you're such a jerk", "do you live here?"

Thanks bros. Appreciate all the advice

Quote: (03-06-2017 01:26 AM)Travesty Wrote:  

Looking at my own experience getting a girl to say that shit test though means you probably are going a little hard on trying to hook attention or get reactions. Too much trying to score witty points instead of pussy wetter points.

Can confirm this. I've been called this a lot once I first got into game. Usually it was with hotter, higher value girls who I was a bit more hesitant to be more upfront with sexual intentions. I was being a wizard with words and negging them like crazy. Anyways, a good response is something like "Yeah I am, and you love it." After hearing this, you have to sack up and start touching her, display sexual interest. Start trying to win the battle for her pussy and not the battle of words.