The thing about dry spell is that its hard to get out of it if you let it be the center of your life.

Trying to get out of a dry spell because you are frustrated would just make you more frustrated, i.e vicious cycle.
Some guys plough through it by sheer iron will. They just grind and grind and grind until they are satisfied.
It is important for you to know, if you are this type of guys.

If you are like I was, then grinding on and getting a 4-5 just for blowing the load, will make you way worse off than fapping.
In this case, you need to find a passion/interest where you can really grind yourself in, which also happens to let you meet women.
Let that passions be the center axe of your life and not the desire to get out of a dry spell.
Dancing is a no brainer and worked great for me and many others.
Any social hobbies that allows you to meet people, befriend them and going places as a group is also golden.

Quote: (02-09-2017 05:55 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

One thing that I'm convinced of is the following: A woman can sense acutely when a guy hasn't gotten laid in some time and it quickly becomes a Catch-22 which disqualifies him from getting laid ever again if you find yourself in a longish dry spell.

Yes, it's quite a cruel problem that is completely ignored and even ridiculed in western society. Unfortunately the men who cannot get laid for the life of them are not supposed to get laid; it is nature's way of weeding out the unfit. It may be cruel for one generation (the guy experiencing it) but nature's "wish" is that the "unfit" genetic line ends there, thus putting an end to the misery by not producing any more men who can't get laid for the life of them. Obviously this is nowhere near perfect because in developed society the environment changes so much in a very short amount of time. But where I have had unpleasant dry spells and noticed this exceptionally cruel catch-22, I came to accept it (as much as reasonably possible) by admitting that it may be cruel for me, but it's actually less cruel in the long run if I don't reproduce (or perform the action that is historically associated with reproduction prior to modern contraception) because then I will not have sons who go on to experience the same pain. Thus the immediate cruelty at the hands of women is in fact "kind", and this prevented me from hating women too much for their difficult nature. Modern men are fucked up enough as it is - at least some of the worst where women are concerned are getting shut out of the market and will never have children who would have otherwise been born with similar failure, mental illness etc.

While I agree that women do have very impressive "detectors" for a wide range of male attributes, they are not psychic. It is possible to "fool" at least some women and that is necessary to break the cycle. Fake it til you make it has its place, but is easier said than done. If you're naturally a depressive, quiet, anxious person and have never been "cool" at any point in your life, it's basically pussy repellent. If you also are harboring large amounts of long-term incel rage and having suicidal breakdowns that escalate into hospitalization, then I am not being pessimistic when I say that, if you somehow manage to recover enough bang hot girls in EE/SA while being reasonably happy then you are in the top 0.1% of incels and probably deserve a fucking medal. I would say the one Obama gave Joe Biden but awarding that to Biden kinda diluted the great honor it is supposed to be.

But you know what I mean. To say it's fucking hard is an understatement. You're drenched in pussy repellent and the only way to get rid of the stench is to get pussy! But you're drenched in pussy repellent! Time to go to SEA!

Quote: (02-09-2017 09:41 PM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  

Now to lighten things up a bit...

How to deal with a dry spell in 3 easy steps:

1.) Stop fapping
2.) Start approaching (open, attract, escalate)
3.) Bang

If you can't bang, lower your standards and begin again. Rinse and repeat.

Yeah I'm going to echo this.

There are a lot of guys who say DON'T lower your standards...and I get that. But for me, if I am in a dry spell...then I'm going to lower my standards to snap it. Not only does it break you out of your funk, but you get a little bit of confidence to build on.

I am Pro-Slump Buster.

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One thing that I'm convinced of is the following: A woman can sense acutely when a guy hasn't gotten laid in some time

No, I'm 100% sure this is a myth based on personal experience.

If it really bugs you a lot that you haven't had sex in a while, then she may sense that. However, if you don't care, she can't tell.

Just work in living in the moment and not in your head. It then becomes a non-issue.

One thing I know for sure is banging hookers doesnt help at all. You feel like shit afterwards.

Rough one today. Guess I'll be going back to fapping to porn for the time being. It's certainly not healthy when my mind and body are constantly screaming for sex and basically any woman that is younger than 40 and not completely obese seems like a 10/10.

When it rains it pours though. Last year, I went on tinder with bad pics and had a decent amount of matches and had quite a few dates and with good looking girls too. Now, I basically have nothing. I have slightly better pics now but only 1 match. I'll be looking to get some professional pics done in a few months.

What I'm saying to myself is I've already suffered this long sexually so it can't get any worse. I can also take solace in the fact that I at least know the concepts of game. It's definitely a rough world for the average guy and the guys who don't have a great social circle, no remote awareness of game and are below average (the majority of the population) just have no chance. I've basically maxed out my looks and I'm struggling really bad right now. I'm certainly not in the top 20th percentile but I have a good physique although not jacked in clothes, and my style game is point so hopefully if I keep plugging away, I'll get something, anything. Being Asian and avg height definitely limits me particularly towards the white chicks though.

This sexual frustration certainly isn't healthy.

The way I killed a very long dry spell pre pickup was building a social circle. Go to any structured class with women in it that does social shit afterwards. Be there every time. Make sure to promote drinking and a "having fun" vibe. It's all about that social time after class: the longer the better.

I am afraid beding a long dry spell from cold approach only works if you are 200% motivated to make it happen. And then still you need face to face coaching from wings or someone else'. (In my experience at least) Most guys can't drop their ego enough during that dry spell to do what's neccesary. No problem, but put the time in going to a lot of social events. Spot the horny women and be persistent.

Quote: (02-09-2017 05:55 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

One thing that I'm convinced of is the following: A woman can sense acutely when a guy hasn't gotten laid in some time and it quickly becomes a Catch-22 which disqualifies him from getting laid ever again if you find yourself in a longish dry spell.

Agree. I'm certainly no scientist, but I suspect that evolution has endowed women with a gift of sensing things in men.

I read your other thread - have you considered a trip out to Asia/South America?

My early 20s played out very similarly to mrman848's, actually. Couldn't get laid, got depressed, ended up in the hospital so they put me on meds which made me fatter, making it even harder to get laid, LOL.

I didn't start getting laid regularly until my mid 20s, after I moved to NYC. Got off the meds, got in shape, things started to fall in place...

But I digress. Point is, I've been here before, so I know the feeling. Desperate situations call for desperate measures. For me, it called for picking up and moving across the country to a city where I knew not a soul, because I knew it would be easier for me to get around there. Life's too short to be spent being miserable. If you can't change the mindset of the women around you (ie, into sleeping with you), try a whole different set of women! And traveling some place far away makes that possible.

Quote: (02-08-2017 12:59 PM)BetaNoMore Wrote:  

What types of networking type events do you recommend? I'm thinking of doing some sort of volunteering once my schedule frees up a little which will give me the opportunity to give back to society and also meet some women. Interestingly, I work with mostly women but none of them seem to be interested. Not that I should be going for colleagues anyways but it's evidence that there's some sort of deficiency that I need to work on. I've worked on my social skills through reading, self-awareness (via meditation, retraining my thought patterns) and engaging with people over the past year or so and have made tons of improvement. There's still a ways to go and my game/flirting skills will need to improve as well. But I'm making strides.

I lift and do bjj but those aren't the greatest places to meet women. The gym possibly and I have started some indirect stuff there but I'm not in the top 10-20% of looks so I'm not expecting much especially when my gym has a ton of roided out dudes.

Well, I'm in a large city and there's also networking events going on. Just Google for events going on in your city and attend as many of them as you can. I've gotten dates and some action from these over the years.

Quote: (02-10-2017 08:14 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

The thing about dry spell is that its hard to get out of it if you let it be the center of your life.

This. This. This.

You need to stop worry about how long it has been since you last got laid. From what I have read, you are basically cockblocking yourself because all you are thinking about is sticking your dick in anything with a pulse.

Stop thinking. Learn to enjoy yourself when you go out or when you have a date. Like Dalaran said, let conversation flow naturally. It'll all click. Just give it time and approach.

You also have to remember that despite women's anti-slut-defenses, they want sex. But even sluts want to make sure the context is right before they spread their legs, but on a basic physical level, they want sex. Inexperienced men see women purely as rejection machines. They're a series of hurdles to jump. That's just a source of stress. They don't realize how much women want sex. They just need to be given a reason to have sex WITH YOU.

The best way I've found to make it happen is through physical escalation. Sex for a woman really begins with the first touch. They don't recognize it as foreplay, but that's what it is. That's their weak spot. Their entire bodies respond to touching in a way men don't. You don't HAVE to touch their boobs or put your hand down their pants for them to start to tingle. It can start far sooner with "innocent" gestures like hand-holding.

When I hear newbies tell stories about how they managed to get to hugs and some kissing but could not seal the deal I don't understand how that can be. If you touch a woman just right she will become putty in your hands.

I also think one of the problems is men escalate too fast. The trick is to TEASE a woman to the point where she either escalates herself or by the time you do it you kind of know she's thinking "gosh, finally". The only wrong move you can make during escalation is escalating too soon. You can never escalate too late because that just builds tension which women love, plus comes across like you're a restrained gentleman. The longer you escalate, the more you're trust-building, the more at-ease she'll be receiving your touch, the easier it will be when you finally escalate to the next step. Guys don't need any of this. A woman could just spread their legs and bam. Women need to feel comfortable being touched by a new guy.

One of the things I've figured out is even for less attractive and beta guys (like me) if you escalate a woman beyond the point of no return, she isn't going to give a crap about whether you tick all of her alpha-male boxes. Her body is going to take over by demanding sexual release. So it's been a way for me to sidestep having much in the way of other alpha techniques. Cuts to the chase, so to speak.

I believe that masturbating with your hand can cause a man to be scene as more "unattractive" in the eyes of a woman. If you masturbate with your hand, you end up giving off a creepy vibe to women. Women pick up on it and are repelled by your presence. My solution... purchase a fleshlight. I have a fleshlight and use it here and there. One thing I realized is when I use the fleshlight I send off a good vibe and women pick up on it. Women will look at you in a positive light and actually find you more attractive then if you masturbate with your hand. I also believe internet porn has a negative impact on a man's physiology and psychology. It may sound like a contradiction to what I just said, but some possible alternative's are soft-core nuddie mags or soft-core porn (with women only). Another great option, is joining the whole "no-fap" movement. This is also pretty effective and can help you achieve great results. But if you have higher testosterone levels then the average man it may make you overly aggressive.

Overall, the main message is women pick up on your aura, vibes, and energy. Women are very intuitive and can pick up on things that logic cannot comprehend. Women will pick up on how well your doing. If your depressed with borderline suicidal tendencies she will know something is wrong and end up repelled by your presence. Work on your inner self, try looking into yoga and meditation. Women also pick up on anxiety, stress, and negative energy. Work in your inner self and your overall well being. Everybody has there own path, but there are tools that can definately help you overcome this problem. If your not willing to try new things you will always be stuck in this negative spiral.

Quote: (02-12-2017 02:58 AM)kartik13 Wrote:  

I believe that masturbating with your hand can cause a man to be scene as more "unattractive" in the eyes of a woman. If you masturbate with your hand, you end up giving off a creepy vibe to women. Women pick up on it and are repelled by your presence. My solution... purchase a fleshlight. I have a fleshlight and use it here and there. One thing I realized is when I use the fleshlight I send off a good vibe and women pick up on it. Women will look at you in a positive light and actually find you more attractive then if you masturbate with your hand. I also believe internet porn has a negative impact on a man's physiology and psychology. It may sound like a contradiction to what I just said, but some possible alternative's are soft-core nuddie mags or soft-core porn (with women only). Another great option, is joining the whole "no-fap" movement. This is also pretty effective and can help you achieve great results. But if you have higher testosterone levels then the average man it may make you overly aggressive.

Overall, the main message is women pick up on your aura, vibes, and energy. Women are very intuitive and can pick up on things that logic cannot comprehend. Women will pick up on how well your doing. If your depressed with borderline suicidal tendencies she will know something is wrong and end up repelled by your presence. Work on your inner self, try looking into yoga and meditation. Women also pick up on anxiety, stress, and negative energy. Work in your inner self and your overall well being. Everybody has there own path, but there are tools that can definately help you overcome this problem. If your not willing to try new things you will always be stuck in this negative spiral.

Excellent advice. Women distance themselves from men with depression and failure as it if was the black death.

Quote: (02-12-2017 03:49 AM)McCarthy Wrote:  

Quote: (02-12-2017 02:58 AM)kartik13 Wrote:  

I believe that masturbating with your hand can cause a man to be scene as more "unattractive" in the eyes of a woman. If you masturbate with your hand, you end up giving off a creepy vibe to women. Women pick up on it and are repelled by your presence. My solution... purchase a fleshlight. I have a fleshlight and use it here and there. One thing I realized is when I use the fleshlight I send off a good vibe and women pick up on it. Women will look at you in a positive light and actually find you more attractive then if you masturbate with your hand. I also believe internet porn has a negative impact on a man's physiology and psychology. It may sound like a contradiction to what I just said, but some possible alternative's are soft-core nuddie mags or soft-core porn (with women only). Another great option, is joining the whole "no-fap" movement. This is also pretty effective and can help you achieve great results. But if you have higher testosterone levels then the average man it may make you overly aggressive.

Overall, the main message is women pick up on your aura, vibes, and energy. Women are very intuitive and can pick up on things that logic cannot comprehend. Women will pick up on how well your doing. If your depressed with borderline suicidal tendencies she will know something is wrong and end up repelled by your presence. Work on your inner self, try looking into yoga and meditation. Women also pick up on anxiety, stress, and negative energy. Work in your inner self and your overall well being. Everybody has there own path, but there are tools that can definately help you overcome this problem. If your not willing to try new things you will always be stuck in this negative spiral.

Excellent advice. Women distance themselves from men with depression and failure as it if was the black death.

I feel as a now fully paid-up member of the incel club that in order to end my lifetime subscription, I need to perform a tightrope act, in the sense that although I'm deprived of the one major ground for feeling upbeat, I still have to pull the act off with aplomb of acting as if this were not the case. As an incel, you're given the slenderest of supports, but you have to find a way of walking the rope all the same otherwise it will hang you.

That's why social circle game is way easier. You do an activity which both you and the girls enjoy without thinking about how hard your life sucks. You go out for drinks afterwards and are focused on getting a little tipsy. When you see a little interest from a girl, you can jump it like a vulture and she is unlikely to notice you are desperate because of your previous behavior.

Quote: (02-12-2017 04:03 AM)asdfk Wrote:  

That's why social circle game is way easier. You do an activity which both you and the girls enjoy without thinking about how hard your life sucks. You go out for drinks afterwards and are focused on getting a little tipsy. When you see a little interest from a girl, you can jump it like a vulture and she is unlikely to notice you are desperate because of your previous behavior.

This is surely common sense. In my case I've been working various social circles since my return to Germany, but the girls are either already taken or are quite happily single, despite their having a gaggle good-looking guys expressing an interest in them. The same old fucking story. And the ones that do flirt and want to spend the evening talking always are married or in happy LTRs. If I had a euro for every time I've encountered this phenomenon now, I'd be a millionaire by now.

Quote: (02-09-2017 05:55 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

I, too, have had to increase my dosage of anti-depressants in the past month, since I was sinking into far too deep a hole that included having regular suicidal tendencies, but without attempting to act on them, thankfully. The last straw came recently after I'd had a two-hour date off OKC with a girl here who told me that she always hooked up quickly for sex with guys off the internet. When I asked her about meeting up again, she replied, "Sure, but not for sex". After this I went on a real downer which took a whole week to come back from.

This belies quite a lack of understanding of the basic tenets of game.

Women do not communicate like men. You cannot take their words at face value. They are not business-like and they do not stick to what they say. Sex is not a "contract". Words are much more fluid for them and indicate their current feelings or a rationalization. Do not take seriously any kind of promise or future guarantee.

Let me translate for you.

"Sure, but not for sex" in man-speak is "I want to meet you and I'm thinking about having sex with you but worried I might come off looking like a slut if I say so and anyway just in case it doesn't work out I don't want to commit to anything just yet."

In my opinion you probably had a shot at laying this girl.

To illustrate how absurd girls can be with this, here is a text conversation I had recently:

   

^^ this girl drove over to my house and fucked me the very next day.

If a man said "I'm not wasting my time with you any more" you could rightly assume the relationship is terminated.

If a girl says it, it can have any number of meanings. In this case it was a power play. She tried to get an apology or admission of wrongdoing out of me. I gave her no such thing and responded showing I thought she was being ridiculous and didn't take her seriously. She responded to my complete indifference by getting horny and wanting to fuck me. Do not take women's words at face value like you would a man's.

Quote: (02-10-2017 06:13 PM)BetaNoMore Wrote:  

Rough one today. Guess I'll be going back to fapping to porn for the time being. It's certainly not healthy when my mind and body are constantly screaming for sex and basically any woman that is younger than 40 and not completely obese seems like a 10/10.

...

This sexual frustration certainly isn't healthy.

No it is not healthy. You've said it yourself that this is consuming you and holding you back.

If I was you bro I would make this literally my number one priority in life to fix. Get in the gym, and get out there in the streets, at social events, in bars, online, whatever you gotta do, do that.

Throw that fucking porn in the bin man, you only get one life and you want to spend it alone? Your entire instinct is screaming at you to fix this. You have an advantage over many men on this forum in that you are literally exploding with pent up sexual frustration, which means you have motivation. You gotta channel that raw sexual frustration into energy that pushes you out into the world to find women.

There is a woman out there who will have sex with you. I guarantee it.

Worst case nobody here will judge you even if you pay for it. I think that can be beneficial on occasion because you won't be crapping your pants so much when faced with the real prospect of an actual naked woman. Just don't make a habit of it.

Quote: (02-12-2017 06:45 AM)rafaeld Wrote:  

Women do not communicate like men. You cannot take their words at face value. They are not business-like and they do not stick to what they say. Sex is not a "contract". Words are much more fluid for them and indicate their current feelings or a rationalization. Do not take seriously any kind of promise or future guarantee.

If a girl says it, it can have any number of meanings. In this case it was a power play. She tried to get an apology or admission of wrongdoing out of me. I gave her no such thing and responded showing I thought she was being ridiculous and didn't take her seriously. She responded to my complete indifference by getting horny and wanting to fuck me. Do not take women's words at face value like you would a man's.

I wish I had had as deep understanding of key principles of dealing with females as you a few months ago. Acting nonchalant and indifferent is taking power away from females and brings to mind Heartiste's XV and XVI commandments. In my case, for example, I got too invested and reactive and things spun out of control. Truth be told, the girl was a drama queen. Either way, live and learn. Thanks for writing up this.

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This is surely common sense. In my case I've been working various social circles since my return to Germany, but the girls are either already taken or are quite happily single, despite their having a gaggle good-looking guys expressing an interest in them. The same old fucking story. And the ones that do flirt and want to spend the evening talking always are married or in happy LTRs. If I had a euro for every time I've encountered this phenomenon now, I'd be a millionaire by now.

Listen, don't focus on commitment. If you are in a dry spell, it's absolutely ineffective to dream about having a girlfriend. Dream about ramming some slut in her wet hole instead.

Don't go on dates either. Dates are for screening girlfriends. Drinking with people after class is screening for horny girls that want some dick.

Read my post again. Go to class. Go to the happy hour after said class. The longer you do this, the least all your objections matter.

They are married or have an LTR? Bro, if they are out there getting drunk with the group you can not take that seriously. The girls certainly don't. Matter of fact: if girls are in a relationship they can get attracted to the "horny rage" you get from a dry spell. That feeling you want to pound the shit out of her? A lot of girls in relationships don't get that raw masculinity in a relationship. Embrace that feeling, but be tactical about showing it. After she had some drinks. Has given you some attention. And responds favorably to playful touch, raw eye contact, etc.

Never engage in conversation about her relationship, except raising your eyebrows for a second when she brings it up. You are not screening for a girlfriend, but for some whore that wants to be your love hole tonight. You don't care about her prior commitments. Show, don't tell.

Also, just that a guy is good looking doesn't mean she will fuck him. A pretty boy without that masculine vibe is like a woman to her. I am ugly as shit. But I got laid through these events because I was persistent, not a pussy and learnt to spot female signals. I was on a sick dry spell once and this is how I got out. You can do the same.

How old are the girls you are targeting?

Quote: (02-12-2017 08:59 AM)asdfk Wrote:  

Matter of fact: if girls are in a relationship they can get attracted to the "horny rage" you get from a dry spell. That feeling you want to pound the shit out of her? A lot of girls in relationships don't get that raw masculinity in a relationship. Embrace that feeling, but be tactical about showing it.

This is one of the best reframes I have ever seen. I will use this myself if I ever have another dry spell (God, protect me from a dearth of willing pussy).

OP, read and apply.

Quote: (02-12-2017 09:17 AM)rafaeld Wrote:  

...they can get attracted to the "horny rage" you get from a dry spell. That feeling you want to pound the shit out of her? A lot of girls in relationships don't get that raw masculinity in a relationship.

Haha this is exactly what I did, it works. I came off a long dry spell and went crazy on a girl, she was entranced and fell in love that day, said I was a maniac and it was the most insane sex she had ever experienced. I totally pacified her, after it was as if I owned her, all those dozens of men in her daily life who wanted to bang her, immediately fell into the background. Fuck like it's your last fuck on earth. Unleash the incel rage. Embrace it and unleash it on her, take no prisoners. Dysfunctional, degenerate extremes of emotional and physical passion.

Simplify things. Get a girl home, don't kiss her in public or touch her other than maybe a few incidental touches. Put on some music, give her a few drinks. Then go for the kiss. If she reciprocates, start to unleash. Feast on her body, touch and kiss her all over, take your time. If she tries to touch your dick swat her hand away. Remove her clothes and devour her. Lick her ass hole, all around then actually stick your tongue in. Then go back up to the other hole but rotate thumb and finger in her ass hole. Go back up, kiss her stomach as you do so, then continue to make out with her. Listen to "Your Body Is A Wonderland" by John Mayer. When you are banging, all different positions, everything you want, go for many hours. You are feasting because you don't know how long it will be until you get another meal. (But if you do this one right she should be begging to come back for more.)

It's easier said than done I know but I feel you have to develop a ruthless streak. All of the best naturals I have known have a distinct killer instinct. They see an interested prospect, they take her home, they try to bang her, and if they take her home, most of the time they bang. You will never get anywhere near 100% success, but for any of the bangs available, you should ideally leave nothing on the table.

In your meeting with the 7 for example you should have just tried to pull her home and bang her, because why not? You literally had nothing to lose, but you were being so hesitant and polite that you potentially left a bang on the table. It may be against your natural disposition but you have to develop the killer instinct. Otherwise you'll be stuck in the abyss forever.

Quote: (02-12-2017 02:58 AM)kartik13 Wrote:  

I believe that masturbating with your hand can cause a man to be seen as more "unattractive" in the eyes of a woman. If you masturbate with your hand, you end up giving off a creepy vibe to women.

I think this is nothing but the male equivalent of an old-wive's-tale. Women are intuitive but not THAT intuitive.

That being said, one thing that I loathe about porn is the amount of hand-wanking that guys wind up doing, especially at the end. If you find yourself needing to wank with your own hand to get off during sex, you've got a verifiable problem. If the root of the problem is hand-wanking to porn, THEN stop doing it that way. But I don't believe women somehow have a sixth sense about these things when you first approach them.

The whole point of having sex is being able to STOP using your own hand at all.

Your wrong about that, women definately have a sixth sense. If you don't believe have some geniune conversations with women about there intuition and how it applies to them in there life. When I have bad vibes they pick up on it and even address it. When i'm vibing good, they basically start acting more pleasant and friendly around me. You can definitely use this to your ADVANTAGE. Trust me on this one.

Quote: (02-11-2017 11:59 AM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  

Quote: (02-09-2017 05:55 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

One thing that I'm convinced of is the following: A woman can sense acutely when a guy hasn't gotten laid in some time and it quickly becomes a Catch-22 which disqualifies him from getting laid ever again if you find yourself in a longish dry spell.

Agree. I'm certainly no scientist, but I suspect that evolution has endowed women with a gift of sensing things in men.

I read your other thread - have you considered a trip out to Asia/South America?

My early 20s played out very similarly to mrman848's, actually. Couldn't get laid, got depressed, ended up in the hospital so they put me on meds which made me fatter, making it even harder to get laid, LOL.

I didn't start getting laid regularly until my mid 20s, after I moved to NYC. Got off the meds, got in shape, things started to fall in place...

But I digress. Point is, I've been here before, so I know the feeling. Desperate situations call for desperate measures. For me, it called for picking up and moving across the country to a city where I knew not a soul, because I knew it would be easier for me to get around there. Life's too short to be spent being miserable. If you can't change the mindset of the women around you (ie, into sleeping with you), try a whole different set of women! And traveling some place far away makes that possible.

Well, I moved back to Germany in July, 2016 partly to escape the dating market in the UK. Furthermore, if it wasn't for the situation with women, I'd actually be quite happy here for various reasons, so I'm quite reluctant to move again. On the other hand, yes, I have actually been thinking a lot about that - as a last resort - maybe a move to eastern Europe might well be the ultimate solution, although I really don't want to have to take this step if I can at all avoid it. On the other hand, I know that I'm going to snap if I don't get laid in the foreseeable future, of that I am certain.