Do whatever you want, it's not like she can do anything about it. I'd leave them up, travel pics help create an aura of excitement - potentially helping with game down the road.

Why not just unfriend her or block her on facebook? Tell her that as an ex, she ought to be focusing on her new man, not you. If you want to keep the photos, that's up to you, but no need to extort her over it.

Quote: (12-24-2016 02:33 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Leave them up. As much as I hate Facebook, it is still a way to keep in touch with normies and socially validate yourself.

Preselection is good.

Never do anything a woman tells you to do simply because she told you. Your ex- sounds like a real cunt, the fact she tries to sue is laughable. Definitely leave them up. Let the husband find them and get angry, not your problem.

Completely agree with Samseau. Your ex sounds like a bitch, at least let her provide you with pre-selection for other women now. I wouldn't do a goddamn thing someone I wasn't in a relationship demanded I do. You shouldn't have to delete all photographic evidence of your life during that period of time just because you two aren't together anymore. In my view, those photos are just as much a part of your life as they were hers.

Asking for $150 is embarrassing.

Asking for money to do something he didn't care to do, and had no obligation to do, isn't extortion guys. That was going to take time and effort, however much or little it was. Time and effort aren't free.

I wouldn't have made the suggestion that she pay me to do it, but it's not like it's unreasonable to approach a problem as "I don't want to do X. You me to do X. We have no agreement that requires me to do X. Therefore, if you want me to do X, I want you to pay me $Y to do it."

Why all the hate towards the girl? Seems she was polite until being asked for money...I would be pissed off too.

Who was/is she? Just a girl on a trip with a former boyfriend... You should have deleted it the moment you split. Just get over it, has been four years, those pics are not even good for you.

Quote: (12-24-2016 04:10 PM)Rocha Wrote:  

Why all the hate towards the girl? Seems she was polite until being asked for money...I would be pissed off too.

Who was/is she? Just a girl on a trip with a former boyfriend... You should have deleted it the moment you split. Just get over it, has been four years, those pics are not even good for you.

Strongly agree with Rocha regarding deleting an ex's pics if you are still hung up on her. That's not a mentally healthy place to be in if you still care about her. It is time to move on. Forget the money, or pre-selection. If she is still in any way under your skin, delete them. Be honest with yourself.

Quote: (12-24-2016 03:36 PM)Satoshi Wrote:  

Asking for $150 is embarrassing.

This.

Who said he's hung up on her? I have tons of pictures of girls in my facebook history whom I pretty much never think about. I still have "I love you" and similar messages on my timeline from and publicly visible romantic pictures of my ex fiance if I dig back far enough. I'm not wasting my time deleting that shit, I have a life to live here and now.

Also, it's a stretch to say she was being polite and deserved consideration. Who knows how the breakup went? Everyone who's dated much (actually dated, not counting hookups) has at least one or two exes that turned into absolutely foul psychotic bitches after the breakup. Who says she has any right to ask him for so much as a carrot in Animal Farm, let alone demand he spend his time accommodating her whim?

I would just say no and block her.

Quote: (12-24-2016 04:31 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

Who said he's hung up on her? I have tons of pictures of girls in my facebook history whom I pretty much never think about. I still have "I love you" and similar messages on my timeline from and publicly visible romantic pictures of my ex fiance if I dig back far enough. I'm not wasting my time deleting that shit, I have a life to live here and now.

Also, it's a stretch to say she was being polite and deserved consideration. Who knows how the breakup went? Everyone who's dated much (actually dated, not counting hookups) has at least one or two exes that turned into absolutely foul psychotic bitches after the breakup. Who says she has any right to ask him for so much as a carrot in Animal Farm, let alone demand he spend his time accommodating her whim?

You may not give your ex's much of a second thought. If so, good for you. Seriously. It is healthy to move on. That being said, the OP may or may not have oneitis, and if he does, that aint healthy. That's why I said he needs to be honest with himself. I'm not even sure why this whole topic is thread worthy, which leads me to believe that he quite possibly is still hung up on her, ergo, those pics aren't good for him. I could be wrong, but the only one inside of the OP's head, is, the OP.

Quote: (12-24-2016 04:35 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Quote: (12-24-2016 04:31 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

Who said he's hung up on her? I have tons of pictures of girls in my facebook history whom I pretty much never think about. I still have "I love you" and similar messages on my timeline from and publicly visible romantic pictures of my ex fiance if I dig back far enough. I'm not wasting my time deleting that shit, I have a life to live here and now.

Also, it's a stretch to say she was being polite and deserved consideration. Who knows how the breakup went? Everyone who's dated much (actually dated, not counting hookups) has at least one or two exes that turned into absolutely foul psychotic bitches after the breakup. Who says she has any right to ask him for so much as a carrot in Animal Farm, let alone demand he spend his time accommodating her whim?

You may not give your ex's much of a second thought. If so, good for you. Seriously. It is healthy to move on. That being said, the OP may or may not have oneitis, and if he does, that aint healthy. That's why I said he needs to be honest with himself. I'm not even sure why this whole topic is thread worthy, which leads me to believe that he quite possibly is still hung up on her, ergo, those pics aren't good for him. I could be wrong, but the only one inside of the OP's head, is, the OP.

I agree, I'm just saying we shouldn't make assumptions that aren't necessarily supported in judging the situation.

I used to get hung up on girls, it totally fucked my life up in my mid 20s. So many hot girls I passed on because I was fixated on a particular girl. Wish I could go back and boot myself in the ass over it sometimes. But I don't get hung up on that either.

agree with Samseau.

And AMPLIFY! Got an instagram account going yet? Wack em on tumbler & Pinterest too.

I say leave them up and double your fee. Then again I'm a rebellious asshole who loves getting people especially women to lose their shit over stuff like this. Its just so much fun.

Quote: (12-24-2016 04:42 PM)Conscious Pirate Wrote:  

And AMPLIFY! Got an instagram account going yet? Wack em on tumbler & Pinterest too.

Do either of you have naked pictures of each other?

Aloha!

Quote: (12-24-2016 02:44 PM)Philosopher Wrote:  

Yes, I am wondering at what point to block her both on FB and Whatsapp.

Right about now.

I am on the side of leaving them up. She should be thankful that you don't make them obscene now via photoshop, MS Paint, etc.

Nice thread.

I say keep them up until she pays up, but if you feel like removing them do it.

Do what you want.


Women especially need to understand that there are consequences to actions and what once done cannot be undone. She should have thought about such a scenario before letting you post the pics in the first place.

Anyways bro, do what you want, if you cant be bothered then fuck it.

Like others have suggested, you should have done your own thing, regardless, of what she wants. Fuck her.

BUT, asking for the $150 has completely changed the dynamics of the situation. It's so cringe-worthy, I actually felt embarrassed on your behalf when I read it. Your ex now most likely feels a visceral disgust at having been with you, and who could blame her?

It sounds like you haven't gotten over her, and your claim that you need to be compensated for your time makes you sound like whiny bitch.

1. Make a special album of all your pics with girls

2. Add all the pics with her (make sure one of you two is the cover pic)

3. Call it "Good Times: Girls I've Banged" or some such

4. Post it to your wall publicly.

5. ?

6. PROFIT.

Bitch Ex calls me up asking me to do something for her, just because she says? No.

The thing involves helping her to hide my previous role in her life? No.

I can see how the rest played out from there. Maybe asking for money sounds crude in hindsight. In the moment he was thinking fuck you, and rightfully so.

I'd say forget about the incident. Don't give it a second thought, and leave the pics for pre-selection.

I don't get these analyses saying it's cringy to ask for money to do something he has no obligation to do. They're his pictures, it's his right to use them. For all we know it might take hours to sort through them all, unless he deletes the albums entirely which he probably doesn't want to do. Why are the only options 1. ignore her or 2. comply without compensation?

If your ex from years ago flew into town and wanted a ride from the airport to her new boyfriend's place, would you think it's cringy to say "sure, if you pay me for my time and gas"? You're not friends, she doesn't get special treatment. And if you did give her a ride for compensation, how is that indicative that you're still hung up on her? The logic just doesn't follow.

I can come up with dozens of other analogous situations where nobody would think it's "cringy" to ask for compensation. Why's this one special?

Leave them up.

The 150 wasn't a bad move. She's asking you to do something for her. Don't do it without compensation

Quote: (12-24-2016 02:35 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Quote: (12-24-2016 02:33 PM)Philosopher Wrote:  

All right, deleting in progress)

Bro you take action without waiting to see all of the responses you get? Thread's been up 20 minutes and you cave? Come on bro think like a leader.

@Weambulance

Its cringy because it literally takes about 5 minutes to log in on his phone and delete them if he chooses to do so, and nobody is fooled into thinking his time is worth $150 for 5 minutes. Your situation clearly involves more effort and costs. Next what, charge strangers who ask me for the time, since I paid for my watch? This just seems like lower class behavior, it makes it seem like hes trying to get back at her and isn't over her, and futhermore doesn't actually care about keeping the pictures he's just trying to stick it to her. That is beta behaviour, alpha behavior would be to make a decision and stick to it, not put a petty pricetag on it.