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Post flake alpha attitude
01-28-2010, 02:19 PM
I got flaked on this week. Although I had created sufficient attraction to get this girl's phone number, I had not established enough comfort for her to return my call when I finally rang to confirm our planned meet up.
Ok... number deleted as per Roosh's Bang guidelines! Disappointing but that's the way it goes.
However, I'll see her again with friends (at her work place - she's a waitress) next month and am wondering what is the very best alpha attitude to show when I see her. Any suggestions, guys?
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-28-2010, 04:09 PM
Act like the whole thing never even took place. Like you never even got her number or attempted to call her. Don't ignore her if she initiates a conversation and don't avoid conversating with her if its obvious she wants to talk. This will blow her away as she will be expecting you to shun her or act upset by deliberately ignoring her. An advanced move would be to sit in her section. But I would only do that if I had the "indifferent" act down about the whole thing.
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-28-2010, 08:15 PM
Just do your thing. If anything SHE is the guilty party, not you.
If she brings it up, just shrug and imply that you had a good night anyway.
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-29-2010, 01:00 AM
Just act like it never happened.In fact if you can, swoop another girl and bring her to the same restaurant where she works. Females are jealous by nature.
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-29-2010, 02:36 AM
haha priceless sketness :-) that is actually a good one. You might even introduce her as your friend to the date, if she serves you.
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-29-2010, 05:32 AM
Thanks for the ideas, guys, but a follow up question.
Looking at the big picture, what is the goal of this post flake alpha attitude? What is to be achieved by it?
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-29-2010, 07:48 AM
Thanks Eric!
In short, I'm running my own training regime; have read a lot including Bang and I want to improve my outer an inner game. Knowing how best to act in certain situations gives me a lot more confidence etc.
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-29-2010, 11:00 AM
And thanks to you too, JoeSea...
I think you and Eric have hit the nail on the head. Great input! I do think, though, that it takes a strong inner game to pull this off in the beginning but I think that it's well worth the effort. Cheers...
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Post flake alpha attitude
01-29-2010, 05:22 PM
No problem man, cheers to you too! Let us know how it goes for you.