Quote: (05-14-2016 09:56 AM)Kid Twist Wrote:
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So, is it bad parenting? Or the fact that women are conformists generally speaking, and the society is at an all time high in "diseased" status?
LOL, diseased. You guys kill me sometimes.
Humans need change and novelty, constantly.
Women are humans
Thus women need change and novelty.
So the men that women typically interact with
- guys that give them everything with on strings attached - 85% of guys (Betas)
- guys that make them earn things - 10% of guys (Alphas)
- guys that do not care about them, yet still interact with them (Players)
The betas are not much of a challenge.
The alphas are more of a challenge.
The players don't seem to want to play the game with her, but she wants them to play, hence the greatest challenge of all.
The "will he or won't he" feeling, the tension, - that's what she's after.
The alpha gives that to her to some extent, the player makes that his main thing. And most of that tension is sub-communicated, which is what a good player specializes in.
She wants that novelty, that change, that unknown...and then she wants the tension released.
Wash, Rinse, Repeat.
Every time, every day, every girl.
For the man that understands a woman's mischievous nature, the question is
Do I want to play?
Do I want to keep her around?
What value is she giving me by being around me?
When you look at the progression of a player
- happy to get a number
- happy to get a make out
- happy to have a date that ends in sex
- happy with one night stands
- happy with crazy wild circus sex involving a midget and a spotter
- happy with super hot chicks
Then it sort of stalls out as you realize that 19 year old with the banging body and deep throat skills is just a bag of flesh and bones. She's an empty vessel. You can recalibrate your sense of hotness, and go for higher - but there always seems to be something missing. Nothing is actually wrong with the girl.
So then the search switches from the strictly physical, to the mental and personality engagement - he's using all the skills from before to find a chick who's sexy, has great sex, lots of other skills on paper - but who keeps him mentally engaged with her.
You want to have a great day at work, but you also want to be excited to come home and see your chick.
Tall order. Cause a chick has to bring things to the table that she has not been taught to develop.
Some settle with just affection, and then they grow weak being hit by it.
The lucky find a chick that taps into his own desire for novelty.
WIA