Aftershock USA
11-30-2011, 11:19 PM
This will be a long post, but being in my mid 30's now might provide some insight. I travelled on the company dime since my early 20's and it was just at the time when the former USSR was coming to terms with its demise, globalisation was ramping up and feminism had really hit its tipping point in the west.
I have never had a hard time of it with women, was quite popular in high school and that continued into my mid 20's. Being good at sports in Australia helped a lot, and I was always pretty outgoing as a kid too. You dont fully comprehend though that there is a cultural problem with your people in general until you travel though. Its a real eye opener. Its something people who dont travel will never understand and its why so many of them are convinced that they have it best where they live, including the women they spend their lives fawning over.
Im not joking when I say that Russian women have ruined me. I was fighting it for years, but I am way beyond the point of fighting it a long time ago. I gave in years ago now and I have completely and utterly thrown the towel in on all western women. They are a waste of my time and I have little patience for their bullshit. At first you think its you, then you realise its your culture as a whole that is absolutely fucked. After going through the anger and acceptance process of it all, you realise that the needle in the haystack probably was not born and raised where you were. You may get lucky from time to time and come across the odd gem, but 99 times out of 100 it was just your dick playing tricks on you again. You go through enough of them and you eventually realise that they have about as much depth to them as splash pool.
Western women are fucked in the head and you can keep them. They are faulty goods and there is nothing they can offer other than 3 holes in a nice package. They bring so little value to the table that if you removed sex from the equation they would add no value to my life at all. They are nothing more than a distraction and a cure to an itch these days.
I used to spend weeks and sometimes months at a time in Russia mostly, but also some of that time in FSU countries too. Most of it was for work, but a lot of it ended up being travel too. It really sucked me in. Every single time I came back to Australia the first thing I noticed was the massive difference in the women and it changed my views on them completely as time went on. You would start speaking to them and you would realise that they really had lost everything which made them women in the first place. The difference was like night and day and it was not easy to accept at first, but eventually it gets to the point where you need to be an idiot to delude yourself any further.
Its not a difference just in looks either, but in overall attitude as a whole. I can forgive discrepancy in looks, but I cant forgive the rest of the shit they bring to the table. Im preaching to the converted here and you all know the score, but that really is the main problem. Its not that the women abroad are hotter, its that the attitudes in general are far better.
You just came from a place where the women dressed well, were feminine, had basic manners and respect for people, took pride in their appearance. The biggest thing for me is that they actually like to be women.
You land back home and its a place where the women are downright rude, obnoxious, spoiled and seem to reject their femininity completely. Most let themselves go horribly, dress poorly and have little respect for men at all. They are caricatures of sitcoms, reality TV shows and TV dramas with little interest in anything outside their own immediate lives and status whoring.
Now many Russian and EE women have hobbies. Things like music, dancing, painting, writing, language study. It was not the "passion" an Australian girl would have for scuba diving or rock climbing, because she had done it two weekends in a row and needed to tell you something impressive, it was a genuine desire to master something they enjoyed. They are very often highly educated, and not in bullshit liberal arts degrees and psychology all the time either. They often have technical degrees in sciences, treating the study of language or history as a hobby. They actually had an interest in shit outside celebrity gossip and the day to day drama of their super awesome lives.
Australian girls would rarely give you the time of day unless you kept it light and entertaining for them too. It is like I am spending my time with children or idiots and they bore me to tears. And it is not just Australian women, it was ALL western women. If they are really attractive, they are almost always so vapid the only reason I want to fuck them half the time is to pound them into submission. I hate fuck western women because its all they are good for. You are talking to a 9 year old little girl, who is in the body of a woman, and it still has dreams of being a princess and stamps its foot like a petulant child when she wants her own way. I take them as seriously as I take a wet fart.
Ironically, treating them with disdain and downright contempt at times has done nothing to harm my success with them.
I started to catch myself staying in touch with a lot of women in Russia and then seeing them when I would return. I would actually LIKE to spend time with them. I would like take them out to dinner because they actually liked to talk about something other than themselves or utter bullshit. I would like to go to a museum with them or take them with me for a weekend somewhere. A Russian women may have an interest in history or politics. An Australian women did not touch a non-fiction book the minute she left high school or university half the time. One I fuck, the other I can actually spend time with if I am not fucking.
I only really learned to appreciate the company of women when I travelled. In most cases I still bang them a few times and then go cold on them, but for the most part I actually do like them. Im just not around enough to get serious with them and I wont apologise for the fact that I like variety. The time spent to bang them though never feels like a chore. Unlike Australian women, where it feels like I am sitting in front of a chalkboard with nails being dragged across while I stick it out for the inevitable bang.
The best way to deal with this is to treat western women with utter disdain. Treat them like the tramps that they are. If anything, you fuck more of them when you view them for what they are. Ill jump through a few hoops if I want to bang her, but not too many because I view them the same way I view cattle. They are all the fucking same, there is nothing special, its just her packaging that is making you think that she is not yet another Sex in the City idolising, celebrity gossip reading, beer drinking slut who lives a selfish existence with a sense of entitlement so great you even cannot comprehend how demanding she really is.
Dont fight it. The place where you live offers other things, but the likelihood of it providing you with quality women is very, very unlikely. Watch the circus with amusement but dont be one of the clowns running around the ring. You know what you know now, use it to your advantage and dont make the same mistakes others do. The advantage you have with women is that western women in general are downright whores. They are absolute sluts and you need to treat them as such. You cant expect whores to be ladies and its not going to happen.