I had this FWB thing for like a month with a really nice 21 year old single woman. We had a really great 1st date and I never expected it would turn into a FWB thing because it had potential to be much more. I kissed her on the 1st date on an escalator to subway and she loved it because she told me how she couldnt stop wanting me that day. That same evening she started messaging me and wanted to come over and giving me straight signs and telling me how we will zpend amazing night.I invited her and it turned into an amazing night and she stayed over. Next day when she left home she txted me at night and asked me how did i like it. I said it was really nice and she told me she liked it alot and do i want to have this again sometime. I said yea. And since then we been hooking up. She has been single for 8 months.
About a week ago she bailed out on me out of nowhere. We have had talks about relationships and she did mention me that she didn’t want anything serious at the moment. She one time asked me that what do i think this is.. i guessed and said that i think you like being with me and we are having fun and she said i was correct. She then asked me am i dating someone and i said no and i asked her the same and she said only me right now. One night she alerted me that this is going to end soon and that I should prepare myself. Like wtf why?
I am going out of my mind right now because last week before she bailed i started getting feelings for her. I like her a lot and I never wanted this to end. I don’t want to lose her. I want to talk to her and I miss her company because we had nice conversations and we had lots in common and it seemed we could have had something. I even cooked for her and we used to play video games before we had great sex. She always stayed over night. I sometimes took her out to a cafe and such. and she suddenly became cold and left and her excuse was that we had great time but she wanted to move on because nothing lasts forever and she said goodbye to me like she threw everythin just like that away and doesnt want to see me.This whole thing lasted for just 1 month.
What can I do ? I am planning to wait for about month or so and then contact her and see if she’d be open to restarting things. I really like this woman! I want it to be just like in the 1st date! Of course i will take it easy but i want to be persistent to show her i will work to earn her.
About a week ago she bailed out on me out of nowhere. We have had talks about relationships and she did mention me that she didn’t want anything serious at the moment. She one time asked me that what do i think this is.. i guessed and said that i think you like being with me and we are having fun and she said i was correct. She then asked me am i dating someone and i said no and i asked her the same and she said only me right now. One night she alerted me that this is going to end soon and that I should prepare myself. Like wtf why?
I am going out of my mind right now because last week before she bailed i started getting feelings for her. I like her a lot and I never wanted this to end. I don’t want to lose her. I want to talk to her and I miss her company because we had nice conversations and we had lots in common and it seemed we could have had something. I even cooked for her and we used to play video games before we had great sex. She always stayed over night. I sometimes took her out to a cafe and such. and she suddenly became cold and left and her excuse was that we had great time but she wanted to move on because nothing lasts forever and she said goodbye to me like she threw everythin just like that away and doesnt want to see me.This whole thing lasted for just 1 month.
What can I do ? I am planning to wait for about month or so and then contact her and see if she’d be open to restarting things. I really like this woman! I want it to be just like in the 1st date! Of course i will take it easy but i want to be persistent to show her i will work to earn her.