Quote: (12-26-2015 12:49 AM)Troutslayer Wrote:
Nomad, if you can maintain anonymity & you don't mind the question, what do you (generally) do for a living?
Go a few pages back and you can find this information.
Something I've been thinking about:
I've now had four girls lie or hide the fact that they had boyfriends when they were seeing me, two of them I really liked. But of all the women I've put time into here in Kiev none of them were ever married.
Girls in relationships are far more willing to stray but don't want to lose the established relationship they're in. I don't know if it's because I have a super exotic factor going for me where they just want to experience a foreign fling then stroll back to their provider or if it's more common than that. However married women are far less willing to cheat, I've only met one here that made it clear she was DTF but she was a 6 and approaching the wall.
I'm more of a relationship guy, I'm really not looking to get ONS's. As Mystery points out: "If I'm going to dedicate a good amount of time, money, and energy into getting a girl into bed, I want to have sex with her as many times as I can, not just one night." So a real problem I have here is when I meet a girl that I actually like, I'm developing a sort of "reverse user" radar where I gauge the sincerity of here interest. Meaning: is she only interested in me for a fling or is she down for more of a long term thing.
I know your guys reaction would be, "What does it matter? Get the bang." But it does matter because girls here don't fuck on the first date. Whether their only interest is in a fling or a longer term relationship, they are all a time, money, and energy investment.