I will always say I am a beginner of game. Nothing of which I say comes from a level of expertise other than my own experiences. I have always had approach anxiety, I have always had escalation anxiety, I have always had a soft spot in my heart for females.
That being said, I wanted to share my life of being the booty call guy for the last few months.
You could say that I am currently "seeing" 4 girls. Some may say I have a "harem" of 4 girls. Some may say that I am "playing" 4 girls. Each of these statements have a hint of truth to them, but none are completely correct.
I make it a point to show females that I am not interested in a relationship. Some I say it outright say it to, some I make it obvious through my actions. It is not that I am against a relationship, I think relationships are great...some girl coming over regularly to cook, clean, do laundry, and engage in disgustingly fruitful adult activities sounds awesome to me...However I have no free time for that.
The problem with relationship is this: time. It takes too much time out of my daily activities to be actively courting anyone, yet alone a single female. I live my life, chase goals and dreams, and just take advantage of whatever gravitates to me.
This has led me to being a consistent booty call. The girls in my life are okay with this. How do I know this? Because I NEVER text them first. Why do I never text them first? Because I am too damn busy doing other stuff in life to worry about them.
I just keep plugging away at goals in my life, and once every few days respond to a "What are you doing tonight?" text. Sometimes I don't even answer, because while I have the time, I would rather spend it doing other things.
That has boiled down to this: 4 girls which are happy with the in-n-out anti experience. They text me asking when I'm free, I give them a short window, they come over, bang, and leave. Their typical time in my apartment is about 90 minutes, enough time for a few pleasantries, my pillaging of their pussy, a little cleanup (I use the same dirty towel for all girls, It makes me chuckle), and they are on their way. I always part with the classic "Text when you get home,so I know youre safe", because I do care. However when that "I'm Home!" text comes, chances are my phone is in the other room and I am working in my office and something way more important in the long run than some female.
Im nothing special, and I rarely post game threads as I believe the core concepts have already been discussed ad nauseum. But sometimes the secret in life is not pursing the secret in life. Woah, deep...right?
All jokes aside, "game" (and I quote it, because game is very subjective term) to me means becoming the most successful man you can be. You end up judging yourself based on your accomplishments in doing so. The problem that a lot of guys make is that they make pursuing females their ultimate goal in life. In doing so, you end up anchoring all your achievements to females. Your goals need to revolve around one person, YOU!
You can work a 9-5 and daygame/night game the rest of the time. Sure, you'll rack up a bunch of notches. But you end up being stuck in the same groundhog day situation day after day, month after month, year after year. You need to focus primarily on yourself and on your goals.
So just be busy. Be busy on improving your life. Evolve your own frame and make others fit to it. Make no apologies. Chances are you will be much happier and much more sexually relieved.
That being said, I wanted to share my life of being the booty call guy for the last few months.
You could say that I am currently "seeing" 4 girls. Some may say I have a "harem" of 4 girls. Some may say that I am "playing" 4 girls. Each of these statements have a hint of truth to them, but none are completely correct.
I make it a point to show females that I am not interested in a relationship. Some I say it outright say it to, some I make it obvious through my actions. It is not that I am against a relationship, I think relationships are great...some girl coming over regularly to cook, clean, do laundry, and engage in disgustingly fruitful adult activities sounds awesome to me...However I have no free time for that.
The problem with relationship is this: time. It takes too much time out of my daily activities to be actively courting anyone, yet alone a single female. I live my life, chase goals and dreams, and just take advantage of whatever gravitates to me.
This has led me to being a consistent booty call. The girls in my life are okay with this. How do I know this? Because I NEVER text them first. Why do I never text them first? Because I am too damn busy doing other stuff in life to worry about them.
I just keep plugging away at goals in my life, and once every few days respond to a "What are you doing tonight?" text. Sometimes I don't even answer, because while I have the time, I would rather spend it doing other things.
That has boiled down to this: 4 girls which are happy with the in-n-out anti experience. They text me asking when I'm free, I give them a short window, they come over, bang, and leave. Their typical time in my apartment is about 90 minutes, enough time for a few pleasantries, my pillaging of their pussy, a little cleanup (I use the same dirty towel for all girls, It makes me chuckle), and they are on their way. I always part with the classic "Text when you get home,so I know youre safe", because I do care. However when that "I'm Home!" text comes, chances are my phone is in the other room and I am working in my office and something way more important in the long run than some female.
Im nothing special, and I rarely post game threads as I believe the core concepts have already been discussed ad nauseum. But sometimes the secret in life is not pursing the secret in life. Woah, deep...right?
All jokes aside, "game" (and I quote it, because game is very subjective term) to me means becoming the most successful man you can be. You end up judging yourself based on your accomplishments in doing so. The problem that a lot of guys make is that they make pursuing females their ultimate goal in life. In doing so, you end up anchoring all your achievements to females. Your goals need to revolve around one person, YOU!
You can work a 9-5 and daygame/night game the rest of the time. Sure, you'll rack up a bunch of notches. But you end up being stuck in the same groundhog day situation day after day, month after month, year after year. You need to focus primarily on yourself and on your goals.
So just be busy. Be busy on improving your life. Evolve your own frame and make others fit to it. Make no apologies. Chances are you will be much happier and much more sexually relieved.
God'll prolly have me on some real strict shit
No sleeping all day, no getting my dick licked
The Original Emotional Alpha