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07-03-2015, 08:27 PM
Ok so this may be a wee bit complicated but the short version is that I basically don't get a lot of female interest for a couple of reasons, however recently a girl (probably a 7) has been extremely interested. She's described me as "beatifiul" and "out of her league" to a mutual friend, which aren't things I hear too often. The catch is she lives in England and I live in Ireland. How I know her would take too long to explain but I've known her for a few months and we met briefly in person last week when I was over there and apparently she's spoken about me quite a lot since then. I'll not be there again for a wee while but I will eventually be back so something could happen.
How would you lot handle the situation?
Sorry if this is a bit of a ramble, it's my first post on here and I'm a bit knackered. Any advice would be great.
Oh and sorry if this is in the wrong place.
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07-10-2015, 08:22 PM
Ok I know no one replied to this but said girl has been texting me all night and without going into detail she stopped just short of saying she wants to fuck me. The message was pretty clear though. Still not really sure how to proceed though
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07-11-2015, 04:46 AM
Make her come your way.
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07-11-2015, 01:44 PM
From the story you provided it´s hard to say how much that girl is really into you. But if you have a good feeling about her, show some balls and go all in.
Invite her to stay with you in Ireland for a weekend. Shouldn´t be a problem for her with Ryanair for example. Tell her she can stay at your place. If she agrees to that, it´s "don´t fuck up game". Be smooth, provide drinks, proceed to bang.
If she disagrees, don´t worry. At least then you know that she wasn´t that serious and you were a bit too optimistic this time. Maybe she´ll change her mind after a while. In the meantime, focus on other girls and only text her the next time you are in England. Just don´t put her on a pedestal, other mothers also have hot daughters. Try to increase your options a bit more, so you don´t have to overcome bad logistics like that to meet some girl from another country. How active you are in your local hunting grounds?
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07-11-2015, 02:08 PM
Like the rest says, it's pretty clear cut: just invite her over for the weekend (do you live alone?), she'll probably come and it'll work out.
However, it sounds like you are obsessing over this girl, which isn't good.
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07-11-2015, 02:52 PM
Agreed...Be assertive and tell her to come down. If she balks, radio silence her ass and find more pussy either way.
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07-12-2015, 10:59 PM
Cheers guys, appreciate the responses.
Bit of an update here, we spoke a lot tonight and she basically says she's really into me and doesn't want to speak to other guys while we have whatever it is we have. I really don't want to commit to a long distance deal but I'm pretty convinced that the next time we are together I'll be able to bang her without too much difficulty, so I might try and sort something out in the next couple of months. She mentioned about heading over there around Halloween but that's a bit of a wait.
I'm definitely not obsessed over her but I haven't really had much luck locally so it seems like too good an opportunity to pass up.
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08-22-2015, 05:55 AM
Went to see her last week and we had sex