Approached a Chinese chick 7.5 on campus and day game number crunched. I am experimenting telling girls I just moved into town a few weeks ago to change things up. I feel like in recent day game approaches I use it in a beginning ramble before going direct and it seems to pique girls' interest in me.
I text her to hang out a few days after the #. She says yes, and asks if I want to go night swimming in the ocean.
Usually I plan everything, I thought if she's willing to hang out with me alone swimming in a bikini with me at night in the ocean it can't be a bad thing to turn down. So I don't say yes right away and build more comfort over text for the next few days.
I set up a phone call the day before the date and she is responsive to text, and even calls me when I text her I am free to talk now. We have a good short and sweet phone conversation, it turns out she lives a block away from me, and we agree I should drive us to the beach.
She comes over to my place next day at 7pm, an hour before sunset. She has an intertube with her when I meet her outside she comes in, and there is no real smoothe way to get a hug in so I just chill on the couch for a minute and she plops down next to me. She is really warm.
I ask her if she wants to smoke weed before hitting the beach, she says maybe after, but if its cool if I do. I say let's just go to the beach and hit the water. We get in my car and drive 5 minutes over. I talk about my travels that I started talking about on the phone call. I talked about going to New Zealand and how she always wanted to go there, and how I am going to Colombia and she has friends from there etc, mention my surfing and so on.
We get in the water and mess around. She has never sat on a surf board so I make her straddle mine and I grab her ass to get in the right balance and show her how to turn it around to catch a wave (there are no waves where we were). Then I ask her how much she thinks I could throw her, she's down I get my hands on her and throw her.
She speaks perfect English, but she is friendly warm, jumping from subject to subject like a lot of 20 year old chicks. There are some lulls in conversation as we float around, I try to keep things going. She asks my age, instead of guess I just say 25 because I think it is the earliest I can get away with. The answer doesn't seem to phase her.
I asks if she likes movies, she says she loves movies, I say we should go watch a movie. She says sure, we pack up I show her how to strap down a surfboard to a rack to get her involved as my helper. On the 5 minute car ride back to my place I tell her what movies I have and we are going through what we want to watch. She looks down and texts a couple times, but is still warm and friendly.
I park my car, she gets her intertube out my trunk and I turn to walk to my front door, she suddenly says:
"I think I'm gonna go, I need to pick some stuff up at my friend's place.... see you next time!"
She says this as she sidesteps and backpeddles away slowly from me with intertube in one hand, phone in the other smiling. No chance for a hug good bye, or any real explanation.
I am hit in the gut. I have never had a chick agree to do something as a next step (venue) in the date and get into a conversation about it, then immediately she bails.
I tried to hide any hint of emotion, it was clear there wasn't going to be a turn around by the way she was already moving and just said "Ok, see ya" with my best amused smirk possible.
Only points I can see are:
She picked what we did for the date, I didn't.
I didn't hug her hello, I haven't had this stop me before though banged lots of chicks where we didn't hug on first meet for any number of reasons.
I didn't escalate enough in the water, I didn't sexually tease her. I tried getting my hands on her on the surfboard moving her ass, then tossing her in the water. I guess I could have pushed more but we were sober and maybe 20 minutes into our first hang out when were in the water instead of being an hour or two of comfort built.
Any tips? I usually don't make posts like this unless something that has never happened to me happens, which is getting rare now and still shocking.
I text her to hang out a few days after the #. She says yes, and asks if I want to go night swimming in the ocean.
Usually I plan everything, I thought if she's willing to hang out with me alone swimming in a bikini with me at night in the ocean it can't be a bad thing to turn down. So I don't say yes right away and build more comfort over text for the next few days.
I set up a phone call the day before the date and she is responsive to text, and even calls me when I text her I am free to talk now. We have a good short and sweet phone conversation, it turns out she lives a block away from me, and we agree I should drive us to the beach.
She comes over to my place next day at 7pm, an hour before sunset. She has an intertube with her when I meet her outside she comes in, and there is no real smoothe way to get a hug in so I just chill on the couch for a minute and she plops down next to me. She is really warm.
I ask her if she wants to smoke weed before hitting the beach, she says maybe after, but if its cool if I do. I say let's just go to the beach and hit the water. We get in my car and drive 5 minutes over. I talk about my travels that I started talking about on the phone call. I talked about going to New Zealand and how she always wanted to go there, and how I am going to Colombia and she has friends from there etc, mention my surfing and so on.
We get in the water and mess around. She has never sat on a surf board so I make her straddle mine and I grab her ass to get in the right balance and show her how to turn it around to catch a wave (there are no waves where we were). Then I ask her how much she thinks I could throw her, she's down I get my hands on her and throw her.
She speaks perfect English, but she is friendly warm, jumping from subject to subject like a lot of 20 year old chicks. There are some lulls in conversation as we float around, I try to keep things going. She asks my age, instead of guess I just say 25 because I think it is the earliest I can get away with. The answer doesn't seem to phase her.
I asks if she likes movies, she says she loves movies, I say we should go watch a movie. She says sure, we pack up I show her how to strap down a surfboard to a rack to get her involved as my helper. On the 5 minute car ride back to my place I tell her what movies I have and we are going through what we want to watch. She looks down and texts a couple times, but is still warm and friendly.
I park my car, she gets her intertube out my trunk and I turn to walk to my front door, she suddenly says:
"I think I'm gonna go, I need to pick some stuff up at my friend's place.... see you next time!"
She says this as she sidesteps and backpeddles away slowly from me with intertube in one hand, phone in the other smiling. No chance for a hug good bye, or any real explanation.
I am hit in the gut. I have never had a chick agree to do something as a next step (venue) in the date and get into a conversation about it, then immediately she bails.
I tried to hide any hint of emotion, it was clear there wasn't going to be a turn around by the way she was already moving and just said "Ok, see ya" with my best amused smirk possible.
Only points I can see are:
She picked what we did for the date, I didn't.
I didn't hug her hello, I haven't had this stop me before though banged lots of chicks where we didn't hug on first meet for any number of reasons.
I didn't escalate enough in the water, I didn't sexually tease her. I tried getting my hands on her on the surfboard moving her ass, then tossing her in the water. I guess I could have pushed more but we were sober and maybe 20 minutes into our first hang out when were in the water instead of being an hour or two of comfort built.
Any tips? I usually don't make posts like this unless something that has never happened to me happens, which is getting rare now and still shocking.
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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems