What would you teach your son (if you ever had one) about women? There are multiple websites on how to raise a feminist son, so we might as well write down our techniques here when it comes down to raising a sexist son.

It's pretty simple, IMO. People only believe this stuff because they're blasted with it from birth. Under the proper conditions, I think your son will naturally be sexist.

There are three sources of influence: schooling, media, and personal role models. If get these in order, the chances of having feminist children will be much lower.

1. Have your wife stay at home and home-school them. The schools are fully committed to advocating feminism, multiculturalism and homosexuality.
2. Ensure none of their close friends are female, effeminate or androgynous. One's peers have a huge influence on development.
3. Throw out your TV.
4. No books or films made after ~1960, without prior approval.
5. When he asks about women, explain them.
6. Set a strong masculine example.
7. Ensure his mother respects and submits to your authority.
8. Encourage masculine hobbies, discourage feminine or androgynous ones.

Lastly, don't treat him like a baby, treat him like an adult rival. I constantly see grown men 'babying' children, saying gibberish to them, talking in a gay voice, and it's disgustingly emasculating. Boys are naturally competitive, and there's no better way to reinforce that than with some sport and competition.






And if you have daughters, for God's sake, send your daughters to ballet practice, or violin lessons, not god damn little league. Don't be that dad who wishes his girls were boys.

hahaha, I googled 'How To Raise A Feminist Son' and Roosh was the first response, right above Feministing.

Basil, your advice is good, but there needs to be some kind of time-frame for your suggestions. Otherwise your son will grow up to be horribly vain and uncontrollable.

Between the ages of 0-12:

Do nothing. Let him be a child. Homeschool or bust. Keep school work to a minimum.

Keep him away from bad influences. Stoke his curiosity about the world.

12-16:

Sports, learning a trade (such as capentry or programming; varies with intelligence), and introducing him to society at large. Make sure he doesn't associate with arrogant or vain crowds, as this will ensure he's controlled by PC thought.

17-21:

Introduce him to women and Game. Don't worry if he gets laid, don't rush him into sex. The longer he waits to lose his virginity, the more likely he'll be successful in whatever his interests are.

He doesn't need to be a natural. Learning game is easy. He has the rest of his life to score poon. It's more important his survival skills are up to par.

Help him find some venture for him to survive off of.

Ice hockey(sharpen our own skates) BMX (build our own shit) Motocross(build our own shit) Watch dad game girls from birth. Snowmobile racing if up north. Boat racing if down south. Once again build our own shit.

Don't ever let him see a woman touch the grill and make one clean his room and put away his clothes. No car unless restored with his own hard earned cash.
Public schools and have his back. Home school raises pussys

nice list Basil but a much easier and overall healthier option is to raise your son and family in a male dominated society where men are men and women are women and beautiful, sexy, FEMININE women plantiful and easy going. I grew up in a small town in the south of France and from I what remember, the men were men and women, women. When I settle down, I wouldn't mind returning to a small town in either the south of my native France or even Spain or Italy. Brasil would be another option as would be Japan. One thing for sure, I'll be light years away from the feminism hen and PC hell that is North America. Problem solved.

Quote: (10-17-2011 12:55 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

1. Have your wife stay at home and home-school them. The schools are fully committed to advocating feminism, multiculturalism and homosexuality.

Do you have a kid going to school? Which state? I'll hold off calling it bullshit yet, but you're pretty close there - especially when you talk about "advocating homosexuality" it is pretty clear you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. And what's wrong about advocating multiculturalism???

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2. Ensure none of their close friends are female, effeminate or androgynous. One's peers have a huge influence on development.

Not possible, and basically useless.

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3. Throw out your TV.
4. No books or films made after ~1960, without prior approval.

Agree. This goes for all books though. Yet, this only works till 12 or so.

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5. When he asks about women, explain them.
6. Set a strong masculine example.
7. Ensure his mother respects and submits to your authority.

Those are the most important; 7 comes out of 6 and is redundant.

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8. Encourage masculine hobbies, discourage feminine or androgynous ones.

This doesn't matter. Skydiving, for example, is full of completely pussified dudes. Personal example is the most important one.

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12-16:
Sports, learning a trade (such as capentry or programming; varies with intelligence), and introducing him to society at large. Make sure he doesn't associate with arrogant or vain crowds, as this will ensure he's controlled by PC thought.

As I have said before, your ideas about raising kids are very unrealistic. I'd like to see how you gonna ensure he "doesn't associate with arrogant or vain crowds", unless you raise up a pussy boy who is going to ask your permission every time before talking to someone new.

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12-16:
Sports, learning a trade (such as capentry or programming; varies with intelligence), and introducing him to society at large. Make sure he doesn't associate with arrogant or vain crowds, as this will ensure he's controlled by PC thought.

As I have said before, your ideas about raising kids are very unrealistic. I'd like to see how you gonna ensure he "doesn't associate with arrogant or vain crowds", unless you raise up a pussy boy who is going to ask your permission every time before talking to someone new.

Keep him busy so he has no time to hang with them.

Shame the crowds you know are bad and praise the ones you know are good.

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1. Have your wife stay at home and home-school them. The schools are fully committed to advocating feminism, multiculturalism and homosexuality.

Do you have a kid going to school? Which state? I'll hold off calling it bullshit yet, but you're pretty close there - especially when you talk about "advocating homosexuality" it is pretty clear you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. And what's wrong about advocating multiculturalism???

Actually, you have no clue.

Multiculturalism is just as problematic as the others. It consists of putting "nice" ideas about the way things are over the actual, unflattering truth. I don't want my sons to hate women, gays or foreigners, I just want him to see them as they are, not as leftists wish them to be. Ignoring reality so you can think nice happy thoughts about everyone is the height of being a pussy, intellectually.

It's impossible to discuss policy honestly nowadays, because there's always some harpy or sackless male who will shout "You can't say that!"

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8. Encourage masculine hobbies, discourage feminine or androgynous ones.

This doesn't matter. Skydiving, for example, is full of completely pussified dudes. Personal example is the most important one.

It's for the peers he'd find there. I'll take skydivers over D&D players and anime fans any day.

The hostility is unnecessary.

I'd say raise your kid in a community that shares your beliefs. A father or mother can only go so far in raising a child. The community the child grows up in has an equal, if not more important, role in how the kid turns out.

Parents can only do so much "protecting." Eventually the kid will be out there in the real world making decisions, and coming up with ideas, all on his own. The only way a father can influence his son's decisions is through his actions. If you want to teach your son, do it through your actions as a father! That's really all you can do. If your son is smart he will be able to read through the bullshit anyway.

Whatever you do, don't shelter your kid.

Quote: (10-18-2011 12:06 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Keep him busy so he has no time to hang with them.

Good luck with that. Didn't you skip homework/duties as a youngster to hang out with your friends? I did, all my friends did, and your kid will too, unless he's so pussified that he is completely scared to go after his desires.

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Shame the crowds you know are bad and praise the ones you know are good.

Samseau, not to be a jerk but I told you several times - do not touch the topics you have no idea about. You really think your teenager kid will listen to your opinion about his friends? Ask pretty much every parent - a typical 13yo teenager thinks of his parents as a bunch of old farts whose opinion about everything is so outdated that only a complete idiot would believe in anything they say. And this is perfectly NORMAL for this age. That's how kids learn.

Quote: (10-18-2011 12:39 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

Actually, you have no clue.

Let's clarify things. "Advocating" means "to support or recommend publicly; plead for or speak in favour of". I don't see anything about advocating homosexuality in that bill. I really hope you're not one of those idiots who believe homosexuality is a choice which could be influenced?

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Multiculturalism is just as problematic as the others. It consists of putting "nice" ideas about the way things are over the actual, unflattering truth. I don't want my sons to hate women, gays or foreigners, I just want him to see them as they are, not as leftists wish them to be.

Multiculturalism is exactly about it - accepting that everyone has a right to be different, and the people do not have to fit into the patterns. It is about telling your son that if someone has a different opinion about something, he is not supposed to kick his ass (or invade their country) because of it. It is about that just because someone is different from you doesn't make him wrong and it doesn't make you right.

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It's impossible to discuss policy honestly nowadays, because there's always some harpy or sackless male who will shout "You can't say that!"

Ironically what you describe is a typical example of LACK of multiculturalism - someone just cannot accept that people may have different opinions about things. And once you hear that, just look into his eyes and calmly ask, "why"? I have done this multiple times, and this was always enough.

Quote: (10-18-2011 08:01 AM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

It's for the peers he'd find there. I'll take skydivers over D&D players and anime fans any day.

Well, I wouldn't be so sure. For example, I'd say much less anime fans do drugs or drink heavily.

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Quote: (10-18-2011 12:06 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Keep him busy so he has no time to hang with them.

Good luck with that. Didn't you skip homework/duties as a youngster to hang out with your friends? I did, all my friends did, and your kid will too, unless he's so pussified that he is completely scared to go after his desires.

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Shame the crowds you know are bad and praise the ones you know are good.

Samseau, not to be a jerk but I told you several times - do not touch the topics you have no idea about. You really think your teenager kid will listen to your opinion about his friends? Ask pretty much every parent - a typical 13yo teenager thinks of his parents as a bunch of old farts whose opinion about everything is so outdated that only a complete idiot would believe in anything they say. And this is perfectly NORMAL for this age. That's how kids learn.

No, your kids don't listen because they've already been corrupted by the school system. Your children would be more loving and appreciative had they never attended public school.

I'm more qualified to speak on this subject than you could possibly imagine. I have experience with hundreds of children.

First of all, I think the title is wrong. There is no need to raise a sexist son.

I come from a culture that is patriarchal. Although I was born and grew up in the Western hemisphere, I am able to contrast the two and extract the good where is needed.

How would one raise a masculine male?

One needs to set a personal example and be the DOMINANT figure in the household of the child. There are certain behaviours that are not overtly exhibited that the child will absorb and implement into his own behaviour which will come into manifestation when he needs to exert his masculinity.

Let your son see your interactions. When you interact with the mother, let your son see you operate as a man in a logical sense and not in a wild emotional sense. Explain to your son why a man has to operate with valour and accountability as we are not afforded the same leniencies that a lizard would be afforded.
A lizard can afford to be emotional and irrational. People will just see that sort of lizard as a irritating annoying presence.
An emotional male is seen as a threat. A testosterone powder keg capable of severe damage.
If you look at all these urban gang bangers these days (irrespective of race) they are merely looking for a father figure. Beating someone up (or stabbing them/shooting them) for gaming your lizard or stepping on your new shoes is an EFFEMINATE behaviour.

Take your son into different environments. Let him see how you interact with different cultures.

Basilransom - Denying your son access to multi-cultural environment is absurd. No disrespect but I have to disagree with that. Denying one access to different cultures is like denying them access to education, what you will have is a moron that you created, who exists as a male FORCED to operate on emotions because he has no knowledge base to make a rational decision.

I've always insisted that the most travelled guys in here often have wisdom beyond their ages because travelling exposes one to a different culture and forces them outside of their comfort zone.
Multi-cultural exposure is a similar thing.

What culture do you want your son to be exposed to? Just one? And how will he cope when he has to go out and deal with others. This is a global world, we don't live in a homogenous society.

Samseau - Not wanting your son to go to a public school? Home schooling? And when he is about to go into the adult world on his own, he will be retarded socially because he has always been mollycoddled by his parents (regardless of whether there was a strong male presence home schooling him).

What you want to do is put the male in a decent public (or private) school (amongst kids who have parents of similar ideals to yourself) and ensure that his home environment (your home) corroborates him with the correct internal tools so he can best withstand some of the challenges that will be thrown at him by life.

I have friends of multiple backgrounds and I'll tell you this - the ones who came from the type of ideal that I listed, by and large, are doing JUST swell.
They are not sociopathic and their inner confidence is strong.

I'm open to any questions or opinions.

Quote: (10-19-2011 12:57 PM)Moma Wrote:  

If you look at all these urban gang bangers these days (irrespective of race) they are merely looking for a father figure. Beating someone up (or stabbing them/shooting them) for gaming your lizard or stepping on your new shoes is an EFFEMINATE behaviour.

You just expanded my mind.

Quote: (10-19-2011 11:38 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

No, your kids don't listen because they've already been corrupted by the school system. Your children would be more loving and appreciative had they never attended public school.

This is just laughable. Did you read any books? The teenagers were always like that, challenging the authority and ignoring the advice of their parents. Did Romeo and Juliet attend public school?

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I'm more qualified to speak on this subject than you could possibly imagine. I have experience with hundreds of children.

You already mentioned you "attended" law school, but didn't elaborate it. Which makes me wonder what kind of experience you have, as you may mean that you have seen hundreds of children in your life - barely an experience.

So let me ask you a simple question: how many kids you personally raised through their teenage years?

Raising a child isn't relevant to the discussion - we need to look at children who have been raised, what worked and did not work.

The criteria used to judge a child's upbringing is the most relevant issue. Do you believe children should learn to respect and sympathize with others? Value the oppinion of their parents? Be happy with themselves and accept others for who they are? This is what I judge people and children by, and I notice that public schools fuck people up in these categories, often permanently.

Make him watch Golgo 13 so he becomes a sniper who wisely sticks to hookers.

Point out differences between men and women in a casual manner.

Examples from my childhood:
Tease your wife for taking a long time getting ready.
Make "sexist" jokes.
Say women are bad drivers.
Tease women for being emotional, or tell stories about women being emotional

Proceed as normal until they're twelve or thirteen; that's when they start to become 'half-men' and also when feminists begin to target them (with moronic sexual education classes at school that go way beyond their original purpose of teaching kids how to make babies and how to have sex without making babies ). Once they reach that age you should expose them to tonnes of 'red-pill' literature while also enrolling him in a few masculine activities/sports. Please don't take away his books even if you consider them inappropriate or feminine in their message; by now you have discreetly introduced him to the red-pill so he'll be able to draw the line and distinguish bullshit from reality in most cases. If you've been a good father thereby making him trust you he might choose to address topics that bother him (say he somehow came into contact with Ibsen A Doll's House). If he doesn't it's not a big deal; teenagers don't tend to be very appreciative of literature! Over the course of his life, you should provide an example with your interactions with women and of course you should be a loving father who also 'administers' discipline when it is necessary. I'm not a father but that's the path I plan on taking if I ever become one.

Lol after seeing this thread... It's a wonder oldnemesis never got banned. His posts are, a propos of his name, needlessly antagonistic.

Quote: (05-17-2015 06:26 PM)Basil Ransom Wrote:  

Lol after seeing this thread... It's a wonder oldnemesis never got banned. His posts are, a propos of his name, needlessly antagonistic.

To be fair, he did earn a respectable number of rep points before abruptly disappearing in 2012. While his opinions may have differed on child rearing, he did contribute value to the forum.

Compared to the garbage peddled about forbidding kids to engage in multicultural environments and tightly regulate their group of friends, oldnemesis' posts rang with common sense. Also, he actually had a kid, unlike many of the people arguing with him. Public schools fuck some people up, sure, but every kid I met in high school who was homeschooled was essentially a high-functioning autistic.

"To be fair, he did earn a respectable number of rep points before abruptly disappearing in 2012. While his opinions may have differed on child rearing, he did contribute value to the forum."

I praised his departure and one or two other respected forum members messaged me privately in agreement. Plus he didn't just leave the forum, he flounced - you have to be something of a real life prick or prima donna to flounce. My sentiment is based on more than just this thread. I don't remember clearly what he would say, but he seemed blue pill by omission, by taking a stand against common beliefs here, in an belligerent way.

This thread has certainly be raised from the dead.

I'm going to try the following with my son when he turns 18 (in many years time) and would like some opinions.

1. Take him to a strip club
2. Sit down one of the jaded, battle worn strippers and get her too tanned fake titted ass to tell him about customers that try to turn her into their girlfriend and how its weird/wrong....as most dudes that try to pick up strippers, that do it wrong, will do supreme beta things. Hearing "don't be all buying flowers, showing up all the time, telling me you love me" from a hot naked woman should fry his circuits. I'm not going to ask her "how to get a girlfriend" as she'll default to her hamster programming and say "be yourself, be sweet" and all that bullshit....despite probably having an amateur MMA, semi drug addict boyfriend that slaps her around.