Quote: (05-28-2015 08:28 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
^ Where do you find these normal girls who are genuine?
Most girls are looking for a successful guy, not sure how you escape this fact. Sure "game" might help to a certain extent but considering a lot of girls are making decent money, they want a guy on par with them financially.
I notice your flag says Germany, I assume things are easier there compared to North America.
Don't agree with the "on par" part.
Here in the States, the girls typically want a guy who make considerably more money than she does.
She wants a lifestyle change. No more Red Lobster, she wants Lobster Thermidor.
So if she's a doctor, he's a surgeon.
If she's a teacher, he's a principal if not superintendent.
If she's a lawyer, he's a partner.
If she's a real estate agent, he's a developer.
So much more that she only works to make disposable income for trivial shit like purses, shoes, manis and pedis.
We're talking 1.5, 2, 3x, 10x times what she's making.
She feels like she deserves it. Bitches got the nerve to talk about "We" just expanded the business.
"How you gonna do all that hard work yourself and not give nothing to me?" © Typical American Chick.
Wanting a rich man is a trap of the woman's own design.
Years ago, I posted a blog entry about the wives of doctors.
- Most of these ladies tend to be educated.
- Lots of them tend to be stay at home wives/mothers.
They hold down the home as best as they can, some of that includes getting cooks, maids, and nannies.
An educated woman who's decided to become a stay at home mom/wife for a rich man
- she's bored out of her mind talking to children
- she's idle much of the day
Most of all, to make that kind of money, most men have to work more than 40 hours a week.
That's what they don't realize. He probably didn't have that much time when he was courting her, and living with him usually means less quality time.
I see it all the time, blue collar and white collar
A lawyer or banker making top dollar works 80-100 hours a week. When he's not in the office, he's in his home office, or checking his smartphone for new developments. Dating half a man was fine, but marrying him is not.
On the blue collar side
http://www.humansofnewyork.com/post/1199...wasnt-much
Guy - “I grew up in West Harlem where there wasn’t much opportunity. When I got my job with the MTA, suddenly I was making five times more money than I had ever made before. So all I could think about was not wasting the opportunity. Once I worked a whole month straight with no days off. With overtime, I think I clocked 180 hours during a two-week period. I felt like any time that I wasn’t working was time wasted."
These days I don’t work nearly as much.
Photog - “What caused the change?”
Guy - “She broke up with me for awhile.”
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You have tons of chicks that want a guy with money, but what they really want is the money and the guy, not necessarily the package deal.
Hearing shit like she don't like "Raising Children Alone"
Bitch sure likes that M Class Mercedes.
She sure likes not worrying about moving to a good school district.
She likes shopping @ the good grocery store.
Yet to give her that lifestyle, all she does is bitch and complain.
I need to change threads, i'm getting bitter by proxy. LOL
Long story short, FUCK WHAT SHE WANTS.
She doesn't really know what she wants.
When she gets it, she sabotages it.
She wants a guy that's fit, but then she wants to eat out all the time and keep him off his diet.
She wants a guy that's handsome, a guy that other women want, but gets mad when other women flirt with him
She wants a guy with money, but mad that he saves his money, he invests, or he spends time making that money and not with her.
She wants a thug, and then mad when he stops beating on other cats and starts beating on her, cause she got outta line.
What does the player want?
What does he want?
What do we want?
That's what matters.
I know if holla at a chick that wears heels and tight ass dresses on the regular, some dudes out there are gonna test me when I'm with her, and some players will get at her when I'm not. I go into the situation knowing that.
Big titties? She needs expensive bras and them shits gonna eventually sag
Phat Ass, probably a year or two out from being Fat.
Bitchy attitude, that shits gonna turn my way eventually.
Submissive, she's going to make me do the thinking for her.
For all the upsides, there are downsides.
But players know that when they get into the game.
Women do not. And they make the man pay for her ignorance.
WIA