Quote: (05-02-2015 01:12 AM)Mibdmth Wrote:
I admit I am new to the whole pua thing. That being said I have a steady gf who is hot and puts out for me and only me at the drop of a hat so I am not that thirsty. I also hold good frame with her and she basically is like a wife from the 50's as far as cooking and cleaning and doing as her man says so I don't think I am being painted fairly on this thread cause you guys don't know me and that's the bottom line. I do work out at the gym but I will admit it's only been for the last 6 months or so and yes I could still loose some weight but I have still banged women that are 8's plus but not in the last couple of years which is why I read the RVF daily to get a edge that might help me bag the younger chick's not just the easy ones. I rarely get to get out of dodge though but when I do I plan on getting some strange or give her hell trying and maybe it's just the salesman in me but I am going to try to make the most out of all the leads that I have and see which one bites. After hearing all the Mibdmth bashing though I say it has lit a fire under my ass to show you guys that you are wrong. If not the stripper I still have a date lined up for Sunday evening and I am going to jump in for the big win!
So you're going to go against the grain of advice presented to you by fellow members and "game" the stripper anyway? On your way you may as well buy some flowers and give them to her. She'll like that. You mentioned you have a date lined up with another girl. Concentrate on that more, your own account suggests it's a sure deal. Do go enjoy yourself though and if that does involve a strip club significantly lower your expectations.
You mentioned you spoke to her for more than 6 hours. Can you recall how you acted prior to that interaction? Presumably somewhat non-chalant and not caring about where you were. Try to replicate that.
No one is really bashing you it's just no one agrees that it's a good idea. Your words express a sense of neediness and being emotionally invested in this girl. I suspect that your game is not ready for banging strippers. Strip clubs aren't my thing though, I don't think they're that big in the UK. I can see some limited benefit to them if your have self control. Having overly sexualised girls approaching you could be beneficial before hitting a nightclub. Giving you a sense of rejecting "hot" girls, a belief in you choosing, increasing horniness and increasing desire to do approaches.
As I and others said, concentrate on the date you've already got lined up. I think you'll have more success there.