[TennisPlayer]

What do you do with girls who want to fuck you but you just want to be friends with them because they are social connectors

when they call up to do something what do you do?

When I have gatherings at my place I invite them over for shit like that but for just one on one stuff?

[drymarro]

You don't want to fuck them? If not, then don't. Do what you like. If you don't want them, go for their friends. Not sure if that answered your question but you were a little unclear.

[TennisPlayer]

ya I know that but when I hang out with friends that are girls its always through social gatherings with my social group like drinks before we goto an event etc

I dont hang out with any of my girlfriends like lets go see a movie or lets goto coffee its always group related things

i dated this girl but I didnt like her but I find it weird to goto coffee?? idk

if I invite her for drinks at my place shes forced to bring friends because she would feel weird coming solo its just staying friends with someone

[Amour Fou]

Well, are you acquainted with the concept of "friends with benefits"?

why not?

[TennisPlayer]

I dont want to fuck her

[Wizard]

(01-28-2012 11:50 PM)TennisPlayer Wrote:  

I dont want to fuck her

Then let her know flat out that you're not interested, there is no point in hedging your bets on this issue. Sure she might be a little miffed, but she will either get over it or isn't worth your time anyway.

Be decisive.

[TennisPlayer]

I already told her that as well...

[Wizard]

(01-29-2012 08:30 AM)TennisPlayer Wrote:  

I already told her that as well...

Then tell her again, and this time make it so abundantly clear it's impossible to miss, and if you have to use a damned neon sign.

[Giovonny]

I wouldn't tell her that you don't want to fuck her. Better to live it a mystery. If you flat out tell her, she might resent it and secretly start to dislike you. Keep her on your good side. You don't ever have to touch her if you don't want to. Why give up power?

Who knows? You might want her to give you a late night BJ sometime.

Be cool with her and she will set you up with her friends.

[ccurtis189]

(01-28-2012 11:50 PM)TennisPlayer Wrote:  

I dont want to fuck her

She doesn't look good, I take it?

[WesternCancer]

she must be pretty ugly if you dont want to bang. try to set up a friends with benefits kind of deal, make jokes about banging her friends and then do so. she'll eventually fall in love with you and wont care what you do because shes under your alpha spell.

[Chad Daring]

(01-29-2012 12:43 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I wouldn't tell her that you don't want to fuck her. Better to live it a mystery. If you flat out tell her, she might resent it and secretly start to dislike you. Keep her on your good side. You don't ever have to touch her if you don't want to. Why give up power?

Who knows? You might want her to give you a late night BJ sometime.

Be cool with her and she will set you up with her friends.

This.

I work with a girl AND her dad, she's over weight but her dad being right there trumps that. She's not only undesirable but entirely off limits as far as I'm concerned, BUT I dont cold shoulder her and lay it out like that.

Im on the cusp of flirty with her just because she likes me more if I am and having people like you is advantageous

[Samseau]

(01-29-2012 12:43 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I wouldn't tell her that you don't want to fuck her. Better to live it a mystery. If you flat out tell her, she might resent it and secretly start to dislike you. Keep her on your good side. You don't ever have to touch her if you don't want to. Why give up power?

Who knows? You might want her to give you a late night BJ sometime.

Be cool with her and she will set you up with her friends.

Yep, play her. Make up "I'm busy" excuses as to why you can't hang out, just so there's plausible deniability that you aren't rejecting her because you don't like her, but because you're actually busy.

Btw, welcome to the forum. Cool to have a Tennis player around here.

[Giovonny]

(01-30-2012 11:47 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

Cool to have a Tennis player around here.

Thats mens final at the Australian Open was awesome. Those 2 guys are great athletes.

I like to wear those stylish and comfortable tennis shirts around town.

[SVK]

Yeah, def don't reject her outright if you want to benefit from her in any way/ I had a chubby female friend like that, who was well socially connected and was always flirting and hitting on me, etc. I liked her as a friend but was a little annoyed by it and made a mistake by rejecting her harshly ("not in a million years") and she got really pissed and completely cut me off from the social circle where she had influence.

Never reject them if you can benefit from them or if they can harm you in any way; keep them as orbiters just like women do with chodes

[ccurtis189]

(01-30-2012 08:38 PM)SVK Wrote:  

Yeah, def don't reject her outright if you want to benefit from her in any way/ I had a chubby female friend like that, who was well socially connected and was always flirting and hitting on me, etc. I liked her as a friend but was a little annoyed by it and made a mistake by rejecting her harshly ("not in a million years") and she got really pissed and completely cut me off from the social circle where she had influence.

Never reject them if you can benefit from them or if they can harm you in any way; keep them as orbiters just like women do with chodes

Doesn't it suck how no one says anything when a female gets rejected by a guy friend or the guy is made out to be an ass hole, whereas in the reverse situation a guy is expected to stay friends with a girl who rejected him, otherwise he's an ass hole?

Dude, it just seems like there's no winning with women.

[TheMan]

(01-30-2012 08:42 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  

(01-30-2012 08:38 PM)SVK Wrote:  

Yeah, def don't reject her outright if you want to benefit from her in any way/ I had a chubby female friend like that, who was well socially connected and was always flirting and hitting on me, etc. I liked her as a friend but was a little annoyed by it and made a mistake by rejecting her harshly ("not in a million years") and she got really pissed and completely cut me off from the social circle where she had influence.

Never reject them if you can benefit from them or if they can harm you in any way; keep them as orbiters just like women do with chodes

Doesn't it suck how no one says anything when a female gets rejected by a guy friend or the guy is made out to be an ass hole, whereas in the reverse situation a guy is expected to stay friends with a girl who rejected him, otherwise he's an ass hole?

Dude, it just seems like there's no winning with women.

I feel you buddy; you need to apply THIS-----vv

(01-28-2012 11:14 PM)Carl Sagan Wrote:  

The first thing you need to do is accept the world as it is. It's easier for girls to get laid and harder for men. So what of it?

Women get old and they become invisible to men. Women get overweight and fewer guys want to fuck them. Women have a hard time getting commitment from players etc. In other words, they have there own share of suffering as well.

Edit: Its from this thread

[ccurtis189]

(01-28-2012 11:14 PM)Carl Sagan Wrote:  

Women get old and they become invisible to men. Women get overweight and fewer guys want to fuck them.

Overweight and old women will still be able toget sex easy from plenty of desperate men. If a man's overweight and/or old then he has to prove his worth with style, personality, and most importantly money.

Quote:

Women have a hard time getting commitment from players etc. In other words, they have there own share of suffering as well.

That's their own fucking fault if they suffer because of that. If they're looking for commitment they shouldn't expect it from someone who's only interested in chasing tail