[mulhollanddriven]

Was wondering if Roosh could comment on this but others are welcome.

Im almost 30 and have been going through a sort of midlife crisis and wondering where to go from here. Ive always had game (I was sleeping with girls when I was 14) so I started out young.

Things I have done:
1. Cheated on my gf in her own apartment while she was asleep in the other room by inviting over two girls and playing strip poker with them in the kitchen. It was a small 2 bedroom apt and all she had to do was wakeup and see me, her asshole boyfriend, with two naked girls at the table.
2. Nailed 2 girls that were 17 when I was 24. I was invited to give a speech at their all girl Catholic High School about the dangers of drug use. I went to class, where both of the girls who I nailed sat on either side of me staring at me like a piece of steak. The entire all girl class signed a big thank you card and the teacher (also female) looked like she wanted to nail me.
3. Had many threesomes, and filmed about 40 girls having sex.

Basically what happened to me was that I ended up getting burnt out, which is something you touched on in another post. I went through a "what is the fucking point" crisis and have never snapped out of it. I don't want to get married, but this strange thing has happened. I have developed "anti-game." I don't know if it is guilt or shame or depression or what, but I just have zero sex drive or desire to meet women. Im stuck.

I guess what I was wondering is, what is your view on end game here? What do you do when you get burned out? I sort of want to get started back up but I am honestly sort of afraid of the situations it might land me in, because that lifestyle landed me in some fucked up (i dig the filter so im not even gonna mess with it) positions in the past. (it would take months to explain all of the fucked up things I have done)

How do I do it in moderation? For me it is like a switch that gets turned on and it's all over....Also, I find it hard to get with a lot of girls and keep them all going. I actually feel guilty about it somehow! I just keep going for one until I crack her, and than go on to the next one. How do I get out of this rut of thinking?

My game is basically simple. I viciously ignore the girl I want, have a couple of drinks, and than I suddenly turn on game out of the blue. But its super nice and intense game (shake hands, stand upright, almost like Im meeting their parents) which makes them think im a great guy, so they immediately think that they got the wrong impression of me. This throws off their entire thinking to the core and basically pulls out the rug from underneath them. When I do this, it is almost 100%....except that after I fuck them, they tend to hate me for "tricking" them I guess I always operate with a wingman, and Im a big believer in changing venues frequently. If I have a target, there is pretty much nothing that can stop me. But I can't find a middle ground where I end up staying with the girl for at least long enough to develop a rolodex.

Anyway...great blog...A lot of it I feel like I could have written myself, but not quite as eloquently maybe. Im also not as well traveled. Maybe thats my problem? Toxic American Skankinosis? haha

Anyway....I read that you were having trouble naming your penis so let me solve that problem for you:

Clarence.

Your penis is named Clarence. Yes, I know...it's a gift I have. You're welcome.

Peace.

[Roosh]

I understand your problem completely, but unfortunately I don't have any answers besides generic tips like do something that challenges you and change your environment.

Your history is something that a lot of guys wish they could have, especially at the relatively young age of 30. I'll sit on your question for a few days and see if anything comes to mind. Maybe other guys can offer better advice in the meantime

[speakeasy]

(08-24-2009 06:44 PM)mulhollanddriven Wrote:  

Was wondering if Roosh could comment on this but others are welcome.

Basically what happened to me was that I ended up getting burnt out, which is something you touched on in another post. I went through a "what is the fucking point" crisis and have never snapped out of it. I don't want to get married, but this strange thing has happened. I have developed "anti-game." I don't know if it is guilt or shame or depression or what, but I just have zero sex drive or desire to meet women. Im stuck.

Interesting that you say you have zero sex drive. Have you ruled out the possibility of this being a physiological problem? Sex drive does start noticeably declining in your 30s. When I was a teenager, I'd get a hard-on just from seeing a girl's nipple poking through her shirt. Now I can look at a naked woman and not necessarily get hard until I actually start touching her. Some day we're all going to need viagra when we can't even get hard from touching a woman's pussy.

[mulhollanddriven]

(08-25-2009 05:36 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(08-24-2009 06:44 PM)mulhollanddriven Wrote:  

Was wondering if Roosh could comment on this but others are welcome.

Basically what happened to me was that I ended up getting burnt out, which is something you touched on in another post. I went through a "what is the fucking point" crisis and have never snapped out of it. I don't want to get married, but this strange thing has happened. I have developed "anti-game." I don't know if it is guilt or shame or depression or what, but I just have zero sex drive or desire to meet women. Im stuck.

Interesting that you say you have zero sex drive. Have you ruled out the possibility of this being a physiological problem? Sex drive does start noticeably declining in your 30s. When I was a teenager, I'd get a hard-on just from seeing a girl's nipple poking through her shirt. Now I can look at a naked woman and not necessarily get hard until I actually start touching her. Some day we're all going to need viagra when we can't even get hard from touching a woman's pussy.

I guess that is a possibility. I know my sex drive dropped but at first that was a blessing.

I think what Im going to do is hit the gym hard, work on my diet, and get back into really good shape. Than I will see how I feel when I get to that point. If I still am feeling like this I will come up with a game plan. I also think that I am sort of getting to the point that Roosh got to where I need to travel. I just don't get any sort of excitement from this country and I think that I need a change of venue. I'm actually considering selling my car and using the money for a trip. I could last a long time on what my car would fetch me.

[kerouac]

(08-24-2009 06:44 PM)mulhollanddriven Wrote:  

Im almost 30 and have been going through a sort of midlife crisis and wondering where to go from here. Ive always had game (I was sleeping with girls when I was 14) so I started out young.

I'm curious to hear if you figured things out. I'm going through a bit of a "blue stage" myself. It's really conducive for getting work done, but I need some fire in my life!

[Riker]

I just started and not a lot burnt out but I sometimes get afraid of that happening to me. I'm seeing this 8 that I'm starting to like and even though I know I want to experience lots of different ethnicities and 9's and 10s, I'm tempted to get in a long term relationship.

If I were you I would just go for what I want, either a more elaborate amazing goal like a threesome with two stranger 9's in the bathroom of a plane, or go ahead and try and find fulfillment in a long term relationship with an awesome girl.

You got the game. Go use the fruits of your labor and experience to make your life happy, whatever that means for you.

[Trotter]

(08-26-2009 09:54 AM)mulhollanddriven Wrote:  

(08-25-2009 05:36 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(08-24-2009 06:44 PM)mulhollanddriven Wrote:  

Was wondering if Roosh could comment on this but others are welcome.

Basically what happened to me was that I ended up getting burnt out, which is something you touched on in another post. I went through a "what is the fucking point" crisis and have never snapped out of it. I don't want to get married, but this strange thing has happened. I have developed "anti-game." I don't know if it is guilt or shame or depression or what, but I just have zero sex drive or desire to meet women. Im stuck.

Interesting that you say you have zero sex drive. Have you ruled out the possibility of this being a physiological problem? Sex drive does start noticeably declining in your 30s. When I was a teenager, I'd get a hard-on just from seeing a girl's nipple poking through her shirt. Now I can look at a naked woman and not necessarily get hard until I actually start touching her. Some day we're all going to need viagra when we can't even get hard from touching a woman's pussy.

I guess that is a possibility. I know my sex drive dropped but at first that was a blessing.

I think what Im going to do is hit the gym hard, work on my diet, and get back into really good shape. Than I will see how I feel when I get to that point. If I still am feeling like this I will come up with a game plan. I also think that I am sort of getting to the point that Roosh got to where I need to travel. I just don't get any sort of excitement from this country and I think that I need a change of venue. I'm actually considering selling my car and using the money for a trip. I could last a long time on what my car would fetch me.

How often do you rub one out?