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04-08-2013, 09:49 PM
Atleast, this gives me reason to continue living when I'm over the hill. From looking at the profile pictures of that guys facebook the guys are unreal ugly. I don't think I saw one reasonable looking dude in the photos and all had decent looking hookers with them. Seems like the guy is having fun but I can't believe he'd post this stuff all over his facebook.
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04-08-2013, 10:50 PM
Oh look! The crew of La Isla and San Diego Show! These girls have no future anyways, so they make a perfect match. When they get to their 30's, nobody will spend a peso on them and the most money-addicted ones will be serving as the couriers of the local mafias. By the time they are 40, most of them will be dead.
On the guys who do it, I will withhold my opinion.
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04-08-2013, 10:56 PM
When I went to Medellin ten years ago, I never once saw a gringo. At that time, all the Americans were going to Cali which had a healthy cluster of marriage agencies. The sex tourists moved in and basically destroyed the whole marriage agency scene making the women jaded, after which they starting moving to Medellin. If you want to get away from this, maybe one solution is to stick to Bogota which is a huge city and has more middle class women. Sometimes I wish the gorillas would come back.
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04-09-2013, 02:40 AM
One thing I noticed about the P4P and sex tourism scene in Colombia was that its nowhere as prevalent and in-your-face as it is in SE Asia and the strip clubs are full of locals, unlike what I saw in Thailand.
For example, if you go to Soi Nana or soi cowboy in BKK, the entire clientele in the whore bars and strip clubs are foreigners, you won't see any Thai guys, or very few anyway. They probably have their own places to go.
In Colombia, if you go to the red light district in Bogota (Santa Fe) or the strip clubs in centro Medellin, you may be one of the only foreigners in there, the place will be packed with local men. Its kinda of funny because the Colombian guys will be drinking heavily, some openly snorting coke off the back of their hands and they dance with the hookers and make out with them. Then they head upstairs for some action.
Anyway, prostitution is legal down there and has been going on a long time before the hordes of Gringos arrived and will certainly continue if the sex tourism stops, which is unlikely IMO.
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04-09-2013, 02:52 AM
Yeah, the locals are big into prostitution there and Brazil. I would imagine P4P would be a much better bet in Colombia, unless you are really into Asian girls. The quality must be better in Colombia, right?
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04-09-2013, 04:35 AM
Some of them girls are fine! Has anyone been to the Woka Lounge, was in one of that guys pics, goggled it looks like a cool place.
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04-09-2013, 06:50 AM
After seeing those pics on that dudes facebook , i was reminded of a documentary i watched about sex hotels in South America on foxtel. Dont know If you guys noticed or this has been discussed before but that is what that guys pics were from, the guy that owned the place the 'Medellin Mansion', Aussie greg. So yeah them girls would have been earning big dollars, relative for Colombia at least.
This shit fucks it up for guys like us; I don't want to walk around and have everyone thinking I am a sex tourist. If Medellin is truly like this I wont be staying long.
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04-09-2013, 07:09 AM
I'm relishing the challenge of going to Colombia. Obviously its not a good thing that these news stations are grouping all white guys together in one group, but the calling out of sex tourists could honestly have a positive spin. The guys with no game will be weeded out and forced to go p4p, leaving those of us with good spanish and local links the opportunity to absolutely kill it. From what I understand Colombia has always been a very social circle oriented environment for the upper tier girls anyway, as their bar environment is much more sit at tables and talk in a group rather than meander around the bar. I am a huge fan of Colombian women as well having gotten my flag last year in Spain and I find them to be very passionate and fun to be around, not to mention absolutely amazing in bed. I also don't think that good lays and easy lays go hand in hand, the satisfaction of gaming a girl when the odds are against you is half of the fun for me. In short, these stories are pretty much telling everyone what they already knew, lots of guys go to Colombia looking to bang girls. What you do with that situation is a test of your game to be perfectly honest, and if you can't hack it maybe Colombia isn't for you...Just my opinion.
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04-09-2013, 08:06 AM
I am no expert on Colombia but after living here for some time I have noticed a few things...and i know this has been said many times before....but... You will have more options on what type of girl you can get if your spanish is decent, you present yourself in a decent manner, and the big one....they know your going to be here for awhile (i.e. you live in the country, have a business/vested interest in the country, or a retiree). Are there exceptions to the rule, yes of course....but generally speaking your not going to meet a solid girl with her shit together if your just passing through for a 1-2 week visit.
The cats outta of the bag on most gringos, (sex tourist) especially in Medellin. Yes, you can get with a low end/poor barrio chica or a hot prepago if thats your thing, to each his own there are tons of those girls and yes they are hot and plentiful....good on the older guys....they are enjoying themselves, and really are not hurting anyone.....until your 60-70 years old, I would hold back judging these guys.....I know I am still gonna be attracted to young 20-30 yrs old women at that age....
However, to get with higher level good girl that have not banged 400 other men before you, your gonna need some of the qualities I listed above.
As far as the prostitution thing.....the gringos make up such a small portion of the p4p market....maybe like 3%. The rest are Colombians. I can tell you most of the punters I see are colombian dudes, in Bogota there are thousands upon thousands of working girls from registered girls in Zona tolerencia (red light) to hostess bars, casa's, massage parlors, freelancers in high end clubs....they are everywhere......and who are the ones mostly using there services...Colombian men.
the thing is Colombian men are not as flagarant with their whores, they dont take them to the food court at the mall, or out to the high end shopping malls on saturday morning....they bang them in the casa's, or love motels and keep it on the down low.
I love Colombia for the fact you have tons of freedom and choices. In the US your career and life is ruined if your caught with a working girl......it's ridiculous.....but you also can meet good younger attractive women who are on a whole different femine scale than western women, you really have tons of girls to choose from... it's just important how you set up your life/career so your not stuck in some western country with limited options.
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Gringos Buscando Sexo en Colombia
04-09-2013, 08:18 AM
these links are gone?
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04-09-2013, 08:48 AM
I'd say gringos make a bigger portion than you think. They don't openly show up in places like San Diego S, Fase 2 and La Isla, but they deal on the side with it. There's a bunch of shady agencies that prepare the whole thing for them, from tickets to accommodation to something resembling a restaurant menu with their names and phone #s. I'd say that including that side, we're talking maybe about 40% gringos on the loop instead.
The other percentage is either a bunch of rich people that were raised poor and always wanted the whores regardless of family, and different druglords and narcokids who suddenly find money and they decide to show the world or keep a low profile and reach them like the gringos do.
You know the gringo-related prostitution is bigger than people think, that a few times I got into a cab and asked them about gringos and so, they show me a list of agencies and sometimes a small guide in English for whore-mongers for when they ask "Putas?".
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Gringos Buscando Sexo en Colombia
04-09-2013, 09:53 AM
I am really looking forward to going to Colombia next. I dated a Colombian au-pair, and although we split up, we are still on good terms. Good enough terms as a matter of fact that she set me up with one of her colombian friends, who I got with, that has since moved back to colombia, and is working in a high end steakhouse in Bogota. This 2nd girl has invited me to visit, and basically said she will set me up with any/all of her friends. She is kind of a hippie/pothead/wild one, and I'm interested to see what her social circle is like. Girl #1, although she is from Santa Marta, much of her family is in Cali, and she has also generously offered to set me up with her cousins etc... male and female, to hang with. I am having a hard time getting enough time freed up to go for the 2 or 3 weeks at least I would like to, but I am very excited at the prospect of heading down there and already having some local contacts, which will hopefully cut out some of the courtship. Spanish is solid, & dancing is bad but improved thanks to DR. I think I'm going to skip Medellin, the last few threads on it make it sound like it's getting played out a bit.