This is a long story so I'll break it down to the bare basics:
I get invited to a social/dance at an elite private girls school. Meet up with a friend I have there, she introduces me to her friend I'll call L. I game L, don't really get anywhere. I basically escalated too fast which scared her off so I avoided her the rest of the night. Week later she starts inboxing me on Facebook (perhaps because I avoided her), we talk for a while but then I stop replying.
Four and a half months later, I inbox L. In spite of, or as I more heavily expect: because of my flaking on her she is now extremely into me, infact I think she's afraid I'll flake on her again: "uggh I got to go. I'll talk to you later, yeah?" and already hinting that we should meet up "... Ah. I could always give it to you on USB or something."
This experience reminded me of:http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/10/17/the-four-month-flake/
I only remembered this post after all this started going down, but dam that shit works. Flake on a girl, re initiate contact later and let her hamster spin as she wonders why you flaked. Treating them poorly makes them wetter for you if you do it right.
I get invited to a social/dance at an elite private girls school. Meet up with a friend I have there, she introduces me to her friend I'll call L. I game L, don't really get anywhere. I basically escalated too fast which scared her off so I avoided her the rest of the night. Week later she starts inboxing me on Facebook (perhaps because I avoided her), we talk for a while but then I stop replying.
Four and a half months later, I inbox L. In spite of, or as I more heavily expect: because of my flaking on her she is now extremely into me, infact I think she's afraid I'll flake on her again: "uggh I got to go. I'll talk to you later, yeah?" and already hinting that we should meet up "... Ah. I could always give it to you on USB or something."
This experience reminded me of:http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/10/17/the-four-month-flake/
I only remembered this post after all this started going down, but dam that shit works. Flake on a girl, re initiate contact later and let her hamster spin as she wonders why you flaked. Treating them poorly makes them wetter for you if you do it right.