[alchemist88]

I requested a girl I didn't know or have any mutual friends.....she adds me and sends a message shortly after:

hey you look familiar ?!?!

This girl was Asian on top of it so I was surprised I got an add never mind message/response back from her because in my area these Asians stick together...I mean really! I know it's surely possible because my cousin pulled a few.

Anyhow I asked her if she went to this club where she lives, or where she hangs out, convo goes back and forth for a little and I didn't really know how to get to that next level of getting her number and then hanging out with her. Convo was getting dried out, so I said hey I don't really use facebook that much, heres my # text me sometime.

Anyone have any advice of what I could have done better here?? I'm not used to picking up girls on facebook but some of my friends do it all the time and end up meeting and hooking up with girls from it...I mean thats whats it for anyhow

[MiXX]

damn, haven't we beat this topic enough?

OP, please use the forum search feature, and post in the newbie forum.


Mixx

[Deb Auchery]

Facebook in Ukraine is very useful, but the Ukrainian version of Facebook; Vkontake, is much better

With Vkontakte you can search for girls by age and city etc

What I do is go on Facebook and search for the popular places in my city, bars, clubs, pizza places even. I then add the hot ones and message them. Success rate has been good

[Deluge]

(01-14-2012 01:07 PM)Deb Auchery Wrote:  

What I do is go on Facebook and search for the popular places in my city, bars, clubs, pizza places even. I then add the hot ones and message them. Success rate has been good

Success as in getting them to respond to you or success as in meeting them in person?

[alchemist88]

well it can lead to meeting and very quick hookups if you do everything right or get lucky....I've met a girl on here @ the beginning of the week and by the end of it towards the weekend am over her house banging her.

The problem is I feel like I didn't have to do any talking really she just judged me on looks alone...which a lot of girls don't do and other girls are obviously a little bit harder to get up to meet a random stranger

[dulst]

Just a personal opinion - I think adding girls is a DLV. Let them add you.

[Gmac]

Facebook is the myspace of internet dating. Just don't do it, that's my take.

[Caligula]

(01-16-2012 02:43 PM)dulst Wrote:  

Just a personal opinion - I think adding girls is a DLV. Let them add you.

Agreed. Even if you message a girl, don't add her. Gets her hamster spinning.