[BostonBMW]

So I've been reading up on those Okcupid and POF Threads. Been on all them sites, trying to spot the chicas. My issue has been trying to keep my info/pics on the down-low as I don't want my shit all over the web. So I am trying to come up with the following:

Finding a chica with a profile on a dating site that's worth the hassle of what I'm about to breakdown for you. Either try to locate her using a tineye or some other online based service.

Mack on her in real life. "Run" into her at a coffee shop, yoga studio, whatever.

Now here is where I need some advice: I know it would be damn near impossible to locate a dime piece in spots like NYC, LA, (you should be gaming all day and night without all this BS anyways), but what about smaller city/town?

Any advice on figuring out where a shawty might be doing her day to day and indirectly opening her? you might argue that's putting too much focus on one chica, but it might be worth the while, rolling up armed with the intel from her profile, while all the betas bury her mailbox with wack emails?

I would still protect my privacy and step up to a bonafide single chica.

Any advice?


   
   

[gringochileno]

Seems like too much work. In the time you spend playing internet detective and tracking down one chick (which for all you know will result in a 30-second blowout) you could blast messages to 50 girls online or run regular daygame on the hotties you come across doing everyday things in public. If you're worried about privacy, go the "shady and mysterious" route with your online dating profile.

[BostonBMW]

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Please explain how the "shady/mysterious" profile route works? Is possible to set up a profile that's only viewable by the chicas that I'm online gaming?

- What if you farm one area: Figure out one zip code, narrow down your list to 5-10 prospects and approach? Lets talk about a town with less than 10,000 people.

Obviously, I don't know how this whole online dating thing works. I've seen some dimes on these sites and I am thinking yo it might worth exploring this facet of game.

[gringochileno]

Depends on the site I guess. On OKCupid you can set your profile to only be visible to other users but I don't think you can set strict limits on location and such (although you won't show up in match results to people who aren't in your area).

By "shady and mysterious" I just meant to answer the profile questions in an evasive or absurd way without giving away any actual information.

I live in a big city so I'm not sure how much concentrating on a small town would make a difference, but it still seems like a lot of effort to track these girls down when you factor in the time spent online finding all their shit, and in real life actually getting yourself to a place where they're likely to be. It seems like you'd see better results if you went to a good daygame spot and took your opportunities as they came. I just have this image in my mind of schlepping all around town to approach all these different girls and it seems like a colossal waste of time, but maybe you're thinking of something different.

[BostonBMW]

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Good points. Heck, I'd even PAY for my profile to go into ninja mode. Will research this.

- Small towns: 1 or 2 commercial strips -- those 5-10 chicas gotta eat right? Just figure out the best times and see whats up. I am not exactly a fan of what I am describing (it could be a time sink) but if you planning on doing your shopping, chilling at coffee shop in say Boston, it won't hurt to switch it up to Wayland (small town near Boston) for weekend. And you're right, if you don't run into those 10 chicas on your list, I'm sure that there will be others who can be gamed. In that situation, you proceed like normal.

[gringochileno]

Problem with doing it with 10 girls is that then you have to spend time learning all the information you want to use about each one of them and do it well enough that you don't mix them up. If you can make it work then more power to you, but it seems like way more time than I'd be willing to spend just to improve my odds on a handful of approaches (remember, you could end up approaching these girls anyway if you just went to the same spot and went in cold without any prep work).