Quote: (01-05-2012 09:42 PM)wolf Wrote:
I hear that as you get older you need money to keep your high value. So how do you use your money effectively( without paying for a escort) to show that you're high value.
First, I aged pretty well, but early 40's you can still get 18 year olds if you want, just not the subset that are bent on being "cool". Instead of just opening mindlessly, wait for IOI's especially eye contact with pupil dilation, which is perceived as "flashing eyes." Also lie about your age, unless you want to marry her and pay child support when she dumps you in 10 years.
And you better be saving up to move overseas by 55-- or to be making 12k/month+ in Murka if you want to stand out as a baller; because despite all the bullshit about game rules all unless you are paying you won't be getting a lot of chicks under 27-30 unless you are really charismatic after that ( more below.)
When you get to about 50 make sure there's no weak points in your wardrobe--remember women are shallow and childlike--nice shoes etc.
Probably the biggest hazard for me was alcohol, I had a dreary job as I was saving up to retire, and drinking easily puts on weight which ruins her fantasy. You've got to stay in shape, LOSING weight is vastly harder than when you were young because you can't beat the hell out of your body working out-- you don't recover as fast and you feel like shit if you exhaust yourself. You've got to control it on the front end--reduce eating while keeping protein intake adequate.
Even though when you're young you'll think "Oh, I'm tough I can just work out like crazy, I don't care how much it hurts," it's not that simple, you'll be so exhausted if you do 3-4 hour workouts that you'll get in car accidents, forget stuff and waste money, because your mental functioning will decline if you exhaust yourself. That said, you HAVE to remain active or you'll start to look like the middle aged guy you don't want to be-- like her exhuasted father-- imagine if you had a hot teenage daughter how that would wear you out!?
Then when you hit mid-fifties and have an independent income, by FAR the most efficient fastest way to increase your value is simply move to a relatively poor country.
--make sure you have an income over about US1500 per month, preferably more but don't wait til you're 65 to do it-- that income in 2012 terms
---move somewhere where the great majority doesn't makes that much. You'll deal with the same admiration and jealousy that someone
with an independent income of 6-8k per month deals with in the USA. You still have to be DOING something though, young women like excitement and don't want to think of themselves as simply whores unless they're real dumb or trash. I make artsy movies. It's quite time consuming and gives you a lot of excuses to meet people, not just chicks. Movie people are generally very intelligent and interesting.
-- I say MOVE somewhere rather than "travel" because travel is vastly more expensive-- I can live on 1200 a month, but each time you move, an intercontinental plane flight is over a month's expenses. Also, this is getting better because of online renting, but if you still have to go through the putting a deposit down on an apt that kills you with another 500-1000. I avoid this like the plague unless you're staying somewhere more than a year or so. Who knows if you'll get your money back?
Compare the difficulty of THAT with getting the income you need to stand out in the USA-- 10-20k per month-- that takes real treachery or skill.
Just get on a plane and in a day you triple your relative income.
So just go to
Thailand, Russia, Columbia-- wherever YOUR TYPE OF PERSONALITY and looks are appreciated.
I think this is overlooked, you need to be somewhere where you are capable of LIKING the people. I hate flakes, so I haven't invested in Columbia although the chicks would probably get me really hot. Slavs are more serious and straightforward, and I prefer that. If someone acts like they like you they often actually do and won't change their minds in a day. If you like dancing, laughing in groups, "partying" ( watch out for alcohol) you probably would like South America more. If you are one hopeless mofo, totally disorganized, only able to get together 800 a month in income, I hear really wrecked guys STILL get chicks 1/3 their age in SE Asia.
I'm scuffling around on $1300 / month in an unnamed Eastern Euro place and a very cute clerk in a Home Depot type place here yesterday:
"If you need anything, I'm xxxxx and I work in dept 49 if you come back."
She was treating me like chicks treat a plastic surgeon in the US.
To parphrase an old Randy Newman song, " I LOVE [not being in] LA"