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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 08:24 AM
I'm 6'4", and where I live (UK) the average male height is 5'11", so I'm pretty damn tall.
So when I'm out in a smoking area for example, random girls will often say to me "wow, you're really tall!"
"Great, she's opened me" I'm thinking, then I realise I have absolutely no idea what to say back. Being approached by girls rather than the reverse is so weird to me that I normally just get really confused and say "yeah, I've had that pointed out for 18 years but thanks for noticing".
Then I'm stumped.
This is a pretty noobish question, but should I just continue from there into a standard conversational thread? Or is there something better I can say than "so how's it going anyway?"
Cheers in advance.
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 10:00 AM
"Maybe you're just really short"
"Yeah there isn't much oxygen up here, I feel high all the time"
"You're really _____" (whatever you want, anything but "hot" I think)
"Wow you should come home with me" (Apocalypse lawlz)
w/e
Have fun with it, I love it when girls open me (not that it happens constantly). My favorite response, no matter what they say, is "who the hell are you?"
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 11:00 AM
I get the "Hey your really tall" or "How tall are you?" thing as well ( Im 6' 7")
I get stumped on it too, you get so used to people asking you, you just go to the auto response, and dont even realize it as an opener.
Plus you get so used to people looking at you that you become oblivious to chicks checking you out.
You would think taller guys would have it easier but really there are quite a few disadvantages, having a conversation with a woman of smaller stature is almost impossible sometimes in a club since your WAY up there and you end up hunching over to hear what shes saying, since everyone can see you (or you believe they can) you become a bit more self-conscious, and finding clothes that fit you well can be a real challenge.
The response I've been defaulting to:
Her:"Hey how tall are you?"
Me: "On my feet or on my back?"
I haven't figured a good one out for "Your really tall" yet..
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 11:58 AM
I'm a 6'6 guy and I've got one that works decently: "Yeah, I'm good at changing lightbulbs and reaching into hard-to-get places.".It usually challenges the other person to turn on their game or transition.
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 12:15 PM
I agree. Have some fun with it. Try "Yeah mom makes me wear these platform shoes."
I've read that penis length and girth is directly related to a man's height. I'm thinking that's why they open you. Can you tall guys confirm this?
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 12:33 PM
Keep in mind that women see height as a huge attraction factor worldwide, probably No.1 on the list of what draws a woman's attention to a man. So, when she opens you with this "wow, you're tall" line, it is a surefire invitation that she is attracted to you, and wants you to spit your game at her to see if she will ultimately fuck you.
I'd play the cocky-funny role and respond to it in a cool, but confident way while making fun at her at the same time (not insulting her).
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12-11-2011, 03:25 PM
There are a million different ways to respond. The bottom line is that you need to improve your conversational skills. Let me guess, you have always been shy and quiet around women? Well, its time to come out of your shell (comfort zone) and start talking to these girls every chance you get. You need the practice.
Open them in line at the store, at the bus stop, on the street, everywhere! Keep it playful and light-hearted.
The sooner you get comfortable and confident talking to girls, the sooner you can just relax and let the conversation flow. Right now, you are thinking about what to say. That's the sign of an inexperienced conversationalist.
With alot of practice, you will know what to say instinctively just by looking at her. The look on her face, her body language, clothes, shoes, the way she speaks and the way she carries herself. These are all clues about what type of person she is and what types of things she is in to.
You wanna get good at anything. You gotta do it a million times. You wanna get good talking to girls, talk to a million girls.
Have fun. Its a beautiful thing for a young man to break out of his shell and become a confident speaker around women.
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 03:54 PM
"yeah, you'd probably need to stand on a chair to kiss me..."
Then push-pull
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 04:41 PM
Bro, she likes you. Be cool, be relaxed, be confident and take it from there.
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-11-2011, 10:08 PM
This is so simple, should be in newbie area. I;d say 7'4, 6 '4 from head to toe 12 from base to head
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-12-2011, 12:01 AM
Tell her that's because you've got long thick limb. Notice how I deliberately left the word limb as a singular?
If she notices and says: "Don't you mean limbs?"
You say: "Oops, I wouldn't mind if I do" and wink at her.
If she says "ooh aye?"
You should say "Yea since I hit puberty, me leg got very long and thick, giv us the 7 and I'll let you 'ave a gander a bit later on"
Use the British wit to get a bit of a slap an' tickle.
My point is, turn it into some humour directing towards the sexual favours you desire.
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-12-2011, 11:54 AM
Mixx you're the man, i am buying this shit. Just a quick question, when i buy it should the size of it (shoe lift) be smaller than my shoes size? My shoes size is 8 (UK), i am wondering if my shoe lifts should be size 7 so it can fit.
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-12-2011, 12:08 PM
I shouldnt wear it when i am rocking trainers ..why?
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Girls saying this leave me stumped
12-12-2011, 12:33 PM
"thanks. what's your name?"
her: Jenna
Hey Jenna, I'm Dulst. So what makes you so attracted to tall guys? (smile and raise eye brow to show your teasing her)
then normal convo.