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07-14-2009, 04:23 AM
there was a girl i was talking who knows me long time ago...she was constantly asking me out...so when finally i said ''ok,iam agree,so when u meeting me''....she was like ''yes i ll go out with you but i have to see''..two months of talking but she didnt meet me....so finally three days back i said her to back off and iam not interested in her gamez...if she didnt want to meet me then why she constantly said me to meet..she said she will call me and clear me everything...but guess wat..she again didnt contact me....the next day she sent me text...by saying good morning.
i text her and said ''it was nice meeting you,and kindly dont follow me anymore'' and i dumped her.
was i correct on dumping her because she was playing games?
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07-14-2009, 04:30 AM
Quote: (07-14-2009 04:23 AM)khang Wrote:
there was a girl i was talking who knows me long time ago...she was constantly asking me out...so when finally i said ''ok,iam agree,so when u meeting me''....she was like ''yes i ll go out with you but i have to see''..two months of talking but she didnt meet me....so finally three days back i said her to back off and iam not interested in her gamez...if she didnt want to meet me then why she constantly said me to meet..she said she will call me and clear me everything...but guess wat..she again didnt contact me....the next day she sent me text...by saying good morning.
i text her and said ''it was nice meeting you,and kindly dont follow me anymore'' and i dumped her.
was i correct on dumping her because she was playing games?
she might not interested in meeting you.
i dont give a shit when a girl play gamez with me,if a girl wants to date me thats fine,if not go to hell.
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07-14-2009, 04:53 PM
If that's me I just let her flake. When she calls back in a month or two, or whenever, I just say "I'm not interested" and that's it. I've done it before and had mixed results. Either she gets the message and just stops calling, or she'll get offended pressing the issue how you could possibly not be interested in her.
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07-15-2009, 02:46 AM
You were correct about cutting it short but you should have done it by not responding to her text. And you should have done it earlier, MUCH earlier. She played with you for a couple of months. You should have given it a week, two maximum.
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07-15-2009, 07:04 AM
Quote: (07-15-2009 02:46 AM)Hangover Wrote:
You were correct about cutting it short but you should have done it by not responding to her text. And you should have done it earlier, MUCH earlier. She played with you for a couple of months. You should have given it a week, two maximum.
every girl go out with a guy as long as he is running in her mind..the reason she is flaking because he might have shown 2 much interest,his case is difficult..but if he remained confident she was going to meet him,nothing is a lost cause unless girl go fully cold.
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07-17-2009, 01:39 PM
You can't dump a girl until you've pumped her. That's why it's called the pump and dump.