[balistik12345]

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I havn't made many posts but I am again in need of some advice. I met this chic from online. I starting messaging her and took her out that same day after getting her number. We went out brought her back to my place we watched a movie drank a bit and then I took her to the bed. After some resistance we fucked twice. This was last Saturday. Since then we have hung out twice but always during the day. First time we just hung out. I regret not bringing her home that day because she was making comments to me about how distracting my body is to her but I reverted back to being nice and tried to show her that I wasn't just interested in sex. The second time during the week we hung out I brought her to my place. We kissed on my bed but she said she was on her period. Thanks to what Ive read on this board I didnt ask for a blow job I simply took out my dick and put her hand on it. She sucked my dick like a pro and swallowed all the cum. After that we went out walked around hung out talked in my car and then I dropped her off at home.

Were I have fucked up I think is that I have been calling and texting her everyday of the week. I sent a frustrated text to her one day because I thought she wasnt answering them. Then I did it again last night (friday) when she didnt call or respond. Basically I told her that I thought she was playing games and that she is hard to read.

In response to that she says she never had planned on hooking up it just happened and that Im really attractive but "lets just be friends for now until we know each other well enough to read each other more accurately then whatever happens from there happens"


HERE IS MY QUESTION- Have I already fucked this up beyond repair? What should

Please any advice. Im new back in the game and this was one of my first successes.

[tenderman100]

She's feeling slutty. Reassure here that she's not. Tell her she's more than a friend to you. Do something nice for her. Bring her a rose.

Take her out. Then bring her home and fuck her again.

Remember you can always move on.

[Gmac]

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Were I have fucked up I think is that I have been calling and texting her everyday of the week. I sent a frustrated text to her one day because I thought she wasnt answering them. Then I did it again last night (friday) when she didnt call or respond. Basically I told her that I thought she was playing games and that she is hard to read.

You are right, this is where you fucked up.

Do you want to see her again or not?

If you don't, stop talking to her. If you do, tell her you have no interest in being friends, and that you want to continue seeing her as a woman. That's it.

The lesson here: Don't let women see you frustrated. You don't want to share your feelings or uncertainties with her. Just tell her how it is and how it is going to be.

[balistik12345]

Solid to the point advice. I will follow it and if it doesn't work out with her it is a lesson learned for the future.

[Riker]

I have a rule where I don't send two texts in a row ever. Its too needy you have to wait it out and play the little game where if she takes a day to respond you'll also take a day or whatever. You have to play games and always seem somewhat indifferent to her if you want to maintain attraction. Having girls on the side helps.

[Vitriol]

(12-05-2011 01:35 PM)Riker Wrote:  

I have a rule where I don't send two texts in a row ever. Its too needy you have to wait it out and play the little game where if she takes a day to respond you'll also take a day or whatever. You have to play games and always seem somewhat indifferent to her if you want to maintain attraction. Having girls on the side helps.

I think this is a good rule also. Bitches are constantly playing with their phones and you better damn well believe if you send something and she didn't respond it's because she either doesn't want to or she's fucking with you. At that point it's better to just cut off contact with her and move on.

When you get to the point where you're wondering if she's going to respond or not it's a losing battle.

[endobendo]

ive done needy multiple texts in a row and recovered to bang but it is annoying and you lose self respect. ideally the pipeline is big enough where you dont have to do this and you feel better about yourself

[balistik12345]

Appreciate all the responses. I sent her an ultimatum text but with no response, however I have a few other bitches I have been working on and got one to come through this Saturday night. Unfortunately the other chic was the first one in my pipeline to meet me so after I got the pussy I was a little bit too eager. But I can see now having multiple chics in rotation is the key for me.

Although this last bitch I brought over was not quite as sexy and fit , she was enough to get me to keep movin. I followed the same pattern. Setup an evening meeting, brought her to my house threw on the exact same movie. Again I sat real close and put my arm around her, she threw her leg on me and I knew she was down so I led her to the bedroom and put on one of my music playlists. No pussy...but I sucked her tits, got a blow job and later on a hand job.

Taking these bitches out within a short period like this has been an eye opener for me. (first was 22 & 2nd was 18). I followed the same pattern, wore similar clothes said similar shit and they both responded the exact same way with just minor differences in their personalities.

The next step is for me to master real game but this is a start and the future is looking good.

[balistik12345]

(12-05-2011 11:03 PM)jakytrung222 Wrote:  

(12-03-2011 05:47 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

You are right, this is where you fucked up.

Do you want to see her again or not?

If you don't, stop talking to her. If you do, tell her you have no interest in being friends, and that you want to continue seeing her as a woman. That's it.

The lesson here: Don't let women see you frustrated. You don't want to share your feelings or uncertainties with her. Just tell her how it is and how it is going to be.

This is just an expert advice. This is all the OP need.

True...Lesson fucking learned.

[misterstir]

Meh you seem to have you game down, you bang 3 girls in a short time span. Who knows why that first chick acted weird and never called you back, maybe your dick was too little, maybe too big, maybe you fucked her too much or fucker her not enough. With women you just never know and they do not use logic like men so it is best not to try to figure out why.

The only thing I can sense is that she maybe thought you were too needy, but even then it is suspect when a girl cuts off all contact like that.

[Scarlet_Terror]

As perhaps one of the biggest online closers here (30+ notches), let me say this:

Is she very attractive? Has she been online for long? Even average women have WAY too many options online. Above average and pretty women basically have the world at their fingertips. She may not want to get 'locked down' or feel guitly about going on first dates with other guys while fucking you.

It sucks, but this is a real possibility.