[drymarro]

Ok so I met a cute Ivy-league girl at a party and we had a pretty crazy makeout session but the logistics weren't in place(I live at home so I usually can only get the lay that night if she also goes to the University I'm at..which she wasn't, I'm not in Ivy league lol)

So we texted a bit(I think maybe too much), and I said "well you seem cool we should hang out sometime", I immediately realized the error and should've set some firm date period(like oh this weekend or next weekend).. so then she asks me for my facebook.. I reluctantly gave it to her and she added me.. that was yesterday..

How can I recover from this? Should I call, text, or fb message?
And what should I say?

The logistics are now in place as I can easily get to Philly and go for the bang. BTW, she was making out with me and threw me on the couch to makeout about 10 seconds after I met her lol.)

so yeah I need advice...(I suck I know)

[slotbust5000]

Have no advice as to how to recover, but I would think that at least this is a good learning experience, and to realise that this girl is just one of many.

Whatever you do, I'd think of it as an experiment to see how far you can get.
Be Bold.

[PDX]

No recovery needed, sounds like you're in control of the situation.

Now call her and set it up, the sooner the better. If she jumps on guys right after meeting them, your window is narrow.

[drymarro]

(12-05-2011 08:27 PM)PDX Wrote:  

No recovery needed, sounds like you're in control of the situation.

Now call her and set it up, the sooner the better. If she jumps on guys right after meeting them, your window is narrow.

Should I text first to see if she's available? what should I say in the text? as for the call, I should be fine and just pull off some charm.

[PDX]

(12-05-2011 08:32 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

(12-05-2011 08:27 PM)PDX Wrote:  

No recovery needed, sounds like you're in control of the situation.

Now call her and set it up, the sooner the better. If she jumps on guys right after meeting them, your window is narrow.

Should I text first to see if she's available? what should I say in the text? as for the call, I should be fine and just pull off some charm.

Make up a reason why you'll be in Philly (that's not her) and see if she's down for a quick drink / coffee / whatever.

Sounds like you're on her turf, so logistics could be tricky.

You might want to pick up Bang and read the sections about maneuvering to her place. (I have no advice for this as I always take girls back to mine.)

[Alex Lockhart]

Relax man, you didn't 'screw up' anything yet. Just make a move now. Push the interaction all the way to the end.

[drymarro]

So I texted her and said that I had business in Philly, (I'm 19 but I own a business), and she said her birthday is this weekend and she actually invited me to come along(also said not sure what shes doing yet.
I said something like "maybe, let me know what you end up doing"..
what should I do? should I hang out with her and her friends? I'm not sure...maybe hang out then isolate? I don't have any experience with a birthday girl so advice would be appreciated.

[PDX]

A lot of people will tell you not to go, but I'll be the contrarian.

This probably wouldn't be worth a more seasoned player's time, but it sounds like you could use the experience, and you could still get a piece. So I'd say go, but:

- Don't have any expectations that you're going to hook up or take things further.
- Make sure you flirt with her friends as much as possible. In fact, they should be your targets as well.
- Don't rely on her for accommodations.
- Have a plan B. You don't want to sit there like a chump when you realize her BF is there and she just invited you to be a "friend." In fact, you might want to frame the whole meet-up as something you just happened to have time for, rather than going out of your way.