I have always had trouble interpreting those "looks" and "glances" i get from women in various places, resteraunts, bars, class, malls, coffee shops, walking on campus, cars, etc...
I know for myself, if i see a girl that i find attractive, i am looking at her, trying to make eye contact etc... and if i see a girl that i do not find attractive i dont even make eye contact and if we do its merely for a second and i look away and she is completely off my mind.
I never get that "look and smile" that i so often hear about EVER, maybe from fuggos or older women as a courtesy but from chicks that are hot or bangable it is so rare that i get a look and a smile that says hey come and talk to me. usually it is a quick glance than look away, or it is a look without a smile and a look away, maybe a look back etc... which to me is either a "hey come talk to me" look or a "jesus is that guy still staring at me" look. in any case i have trouble with it.
I have talked to a few girlfriends about the looks and they have said various contradicting things so i just dont know. I do know that when i am out with those various girlfriends they will tell me this girl and that girl over there is checking me out etc... but when i look, nothing.
Anybody have any info for me or insight?
I know for myself, if i see a girl that i find attractive, i am looking at her, trying to make eye contact etc... and if i see a girl that i do not find attractive i dont even make eye contact and if we do its merely for a second and i look away and she is completely off my mind.
I never get that "look and smile" that i so often hear about EVER, maybe from fuggos or older women as a courtesy but from chicks that are hot or bangable it is so rare that i get a look and a smile that says hey come and talk to me. usually it is a quick glance than look away, or it is a look without a smile and a look away, maybe a look back etc... which to me is either a "hey come talk to me" look or a "jesus is that guy still staring at me" look. in any case i have trouble with it.
I have talked to a few girlfriends about the looks and they have said various contradicting things so i just dont know. I do know that when i am out with those various girlfriends they will tell me this girl and that girl over there is checking me out etc... but when i look, nothing.
Anybody have any info for me or insight?