[Menace]

Suppose you go on a date (drinks) and don't SNL. She agrees to a second meet up. What's the best suggestion for the second date that in your experience leads to bangs? Another bar or set of bars strategically located near where you live (or she lives), then extract?

Is it too soon (or creepy) to suggest a "let's cook X and watch a movie" type of thing? I recently tried something like this and now I think it may have been a bit premature, considering nothing sexual happened on day 1 (although there were other positive things that happened). However, I figured it's also better to just suggest something bolder/more personal and check her interest.

Normally on any day 1 I do it on M-Thurs. Do you guys push for a day 2 on a peak night (F or Sat), or is it also better to do it on off night?

[Menace]

Update on her response:

"Um that sounds awesome. But I'm afraid this week is a bit crazy for me. Can we do dinner in the city and raincheck the Netflix?"

She's a DC lawyer (don't laugh, I know). Sounds like she has a better dick offer, but still wants some attention. I don't see how dinner is going to further my goals, so I guess it'll just be a dark bar somewhere.

[Smoker]

I'm a bit confused by your post. SNL means "same night lay", no? I take that to mean, the same night you meet someone. After that is the 1st day. After that is the 2nd date.

So are you talking about the 1st date or the 2nd date with a girl?

[November]

(11-28-2011 12:52 PM)Menace Wrote:  

Is it too soon (or creepy) to suggest a "let's cook X and watch a movie" type of thing?

This is probably fine. You can always suggest it.

I would avoid 'going for drinks' or anything traditional like that. Do something that's actually fun. Active dates will work way better (especially if you've already done the basic shit once).

If you don't want to cook dinner/hang out at one of your houses (I love this one) maybe...roller/ice skating, go on a picnic, climbing/hiking, etc.

I'm blanking on other ideas, but make it unique, active and fun.

[naughtynomad]

Get to your home. You can do this without being creepy. You need to build a yes ladder first...

Try this...

Text 1: blah blah blah blah Ps - Do you like marshmallows?
Her: Yes. lol whatever.. blah blah

Text 2: blah blah blah blah Ps - Do you prefer red or white wine?
Her: Red. blah blah

Text 3: Cool. We should have a wine and marshmallow night at mine You bring the marshmallows I'll bring the wine.. sound good?

[PDX]

(11-28-2011 03:31 PM)Menace Wrote:  

Update on her response:

"Um that sounds awesome. But I'm afraid this week is a bit crazy for me. Can we do dinner in the city and raincheck the Netflix?"

She's a DC lawyer (don't laugh, I know). Sounds like she has a better dick offer, but still wants some attention. I don't see how dinner is going to further my goals, so I guess it'll just be a dark bar somewhere.

So she's busy, but still has time for you to buy her dinner? And she's pretty much outright stated that she won't be going to your house? I'm not sure another round of drinks is going to help your cause, unless you think you can escalate to the point of getting her to bounce home.

Might be a good time to pull a dick move – like set up the dinner/drinks date and then cancel on her day of.