How to work with women's inability to (a) fight fair (b) gain insight (c) apologize
11-23-2011, 12:11 AM
I've realized all these are tied together and they make it way harder to deal with/game women.
As an example, there's a Russian woman I've been pipelining for my upcoming trip. A way I've been screening is to say there's a certain household task I expect my gf/wife to do ( what it is is not that important: it's a shit test to screen out non-submissive women.)
She writes back challenging me asking if I believe in "equality". Of course, the situation is she's contracted the Feminizivirus: the belief she deserves everything for nothing.
I'm supposed to come over there with Western money and support her-- but we split the chores equally. Sound familiar, American boys?
But this is just an example of women's irrationality and inability to assess fairness. The general tendency is what's really interesting. I've noticed women almost NEVER sincerely apologize-- they NEVER realize they've done anything wrong. if they FELT like doing something at a certain time, that is moral justification to them. they sometimes apologize, but it's almost always after YOU apologize, then they agree, and say "Oh I shouldn't have gotten mad either. " But they never have that kind of insight a guy does, like " I was over the line there, sorry. "
I guess they're too vain.
At this point I believe there's no way to directly debate the point-- as my father said "never argue with a woman."
He meant it in a strategic retreat sense: humor them, agree with what they say, and then go ahead and do whatever you want. It worked pretty well with my mother.
I think the trick is to simply say "My position is X, it's not changing." and then simply accept her actions if she toes the line or split if she doesn't. But I'm sure some of you more natural alphas have ideas on this.
As an example, there's a Russian woman I've been pipelining for my upcoming trip. A way I've been screening is to say there's a certain household task I expect my gf/wife to do ( what it is is not that important: it's a shit test to screen out non-submissive women.)
She writes back challenging me asking if I believe in "equality". Of course, the situation is she's contracted the Feminizivirus: the belief she deserves everything for nothing.
I'm supposed to come over there with Western money and support her-- but we split the chores equally. Sound familiar, American boys?
But this is just an example of women's irrationality and inability to assess fairness. The general tendency is what's really interesting. I've noticed women almost NEVER sincerely apologize-- they NEVER realize they've done anything wrong. if they FELT like doing something at a certain time, that is moral justification to them. they sometimes apologize, but it's almost always after YOU apologize, then they agree, and say "Oh I shouldn't have gotten mad either. " But they never have that kind of insight a guy does, like " I was over the line there, sorry. "
I guess they're too vain.
At this point I believe there's no way to directly debate the point-- as my father said "never argue with a woman."
He meant it in a strategic retreat sense: humor them, agree with what they say, and then go ahead and do whatever you want. It worked pretty well with my mother.
I think the trick is to simply say "My position is X, it's not changing." and then simply accept her actions if she toes the line or split if she doesn't. But I'm sure some of you more natural alphas have ideas on this.