[charmer]

you want to bang a girl,and all seems in your favour,she is chasing you like a hush puppy,and you behaving like you ignoring her,and she craving for attention,and you are planing to dump her because of her flakiness attitude in the past....then .....only one wrong move,turns the table and because of that wrong move you played, she flakes on you.

and all you have is waiting for the phone to ring.

its a huge rejection which burst your fragile ego.

how many times it happend with you guys?,and how did you handle it,also,i have a question on that,will it help alot with your game in the future?

[kerouac]

There are different ways to get over a oneitis:

1) GFTOG, that is... go fuck ten other girls. This is the common remedy prescribed on pickup forums
2) hang out with a bunch of good friends
3) party a lot
4) travel and explore the world
5) focus on something else like work or hobbies

The key is to ALWAYS stay proactive. Sometimes it can't be helped to go within yourself and feel some pain, but really, focusing on it does no good. Focus on something positive. Focus on the good. Your mind is influenced by what you pay attention to, so pay attention to something that is good for you.

This is a great time to explore yourself as well. Instead of focusing on the girl or whatever, this is a great time to explore your inner self and question your ego. Question why your ego was hurt in this situation and begin to learn about your emotions.

Also, completely disconnect yourself from the girl. Delete everything (ie. phone #, email, etc)!!! Just move forward. That is the key. And nothing cures this sort of stuff better than Time!

[a_stranger]

can`t win them all, keep learning new things every time u loose

[thegmanifesto]

"and how did you handle it"

Go to the bar and swoop more girls.

The more girls you have the more leverage you have.

- MPM
http://www.thegmanifesto.com/

[Roosh]

If all it took was one wrong move then you didn't have her like you thought.
Girls who are really crazy about you let you make at least a couple mistakes before going cold.