[Lumiere]

I met this Peruvian chick on my last night in Lima a while back. I ended up hooking up with her but not f-closing.

We chat on MSN and it's very clear that she wants to see me again and f-close. I will probably be passing through her town again on my way to the Galapagos islands in the coming months.

She started asking me on MSN if I have a girlfriend and I said no (this is true - I am only really interested in seeing girls non-exclusively right now). Then she started asking me how promiscuous I am.

How would you answer?

[Firepower]

if truly interested, she would've closed the deal with you in person while there.

she's just looking for e-attention. from the safety of thousands of miles in distance

[College Game]

Its true. Avoid talking to girls on msn and what not, just drop a few lines and then high tail, dont get into one of those all night bull shit conversations like you are 15 again.

A word about Peruvian girls, the idea and the word 'novia' means a lot, so don't toss it around. And obviously she knows the answer to her question, as you are travelling. Also, Lima girls are a different crowd, if you really want the good looking (and sluttier) girls you need to hit the north coast, Trujillo, Piura.

[Lumiere]

(06-30-2009 12:01 PM)Firepower Wrote:  

if truly interested, she would've closed the deal with you in person while there.

she's just looking for e-attention. from the safety of thousands of miles in distance

Logistics didn't allow same night close. Bear in mind I only met her once and she was with friends.

She is not looking for attention on MSN. She knows I am passing that way again. She is giving me far more IOIs than I am giving her and it's clear that its there on a plate if I want it.

Promiscuous question is just a shit test. Just wondering how you would handle it.

[Lumiere]

(06-30-2009 07:19 PM)College Game Wrote:  

Its true. Avoid talking to girls on msn and what not, just drop a few lines and then high tail, dont get into one of those all night bull shit conversations like you are 15 again.

Have not had an MSN convo with her for more than 10-15 mins at any one time.

(06-30-2009 07:19 PM)College Game Wrote:  

A word about Peruvian girls, the idea and the word 'novia' means a lot, so don't toss it around. And obviously she knows the answer to her question, as you are travelling. Also, Lima girls are a different crowd, if you really want the good looking (and sluttier) girls you need to hit the north coast, Trujillo, Piura.

Never used the word "novia" with her and she knows my situation. I travel too much to have a GF and I am not interested in seeing girls exclusively.

Don't read too much into it. It was just a shit test.

[Firepower]

(06-30-2009 09:31 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  

(06-30-2009 12:01 PM)Firepower Wrote:  

if truly interested, she would've closed the deal with you in person while there.

she's just looking for e-attention. from the safety of thousands of miles in distance

She is not looking for attention on MSN. She knows I am passing that way again. She is giving me far more IOIs than I am giving her and it's clear that its there on a plate if I want it.

if you say so

Quote:

Just wondering how you would handle it.

ignore her msns

[PartyTime]

(06-30-2009 10:58 AM)Lumiere Wrote:  

Then she started asking me how promiscuous I am.

Double bind. You're screwed no matter how you answer it.

One solution: Cocky funny to deflect the question.
Example: I'm not promiscuous at all. I've only been with 3 women..... this week.

[Roosh]

In person I'd say "None of your business" very matter of factly but i don't know how that would come across online.

[nexeffect]

(07-01-2009 07:33 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

In person I'd say "None of your business" very matter of factly but i don't know how that would come across online.

How do you says ¨none of your business¨in spanish? I´m living in buenos aires and im fluent but all i can think of is ¨que te importa?¨ which means what do you care?

[InternationPlayboy]

(07-01-2009 07:33 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

In person I'd say "None of your business" very matter of factly but i don't know how that would come across online.

That's why gaming online or over texts suck.

[Lumiere]

(07-02-2009 12:54 AM)nexeffect Wrote:  

How do you says ¨none of your business¨in spanish?

No es asunto tuyo.

[Lumiere]

(07-01-2009 07:33 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

In person I'd say "None of your business" very matter of factly but i don't know how that would come across online.

It would come across as very defensive.

[charmer]

(06-30-2009 10:58 AM)Lumiere Wrote:  

I met this Peruvian chick on my last night in Lima a while back. I ended up hooking up with her but not f-closing.

We chat on MSN and it's very clear that she wants to see me again and f-close. I will probably be passing through her town again on my way to the Galapagos islands in the coming months.

She started asking me on MSN if I have a girlfriend and I said no (this is true - I am only really interested in seeing girls non-exclusively right now). Then she started asking me how promiscuous I am.

How would you answer?

say her this ''think a number between 1 to 10 in your mind,but dont tell me.''

(she is thinking)

You ''did you choosed the number?''

her ''Yes''

You ''thats much promiscuous iam,game over''.

[kerouac]

Just say you've slept with 5000 women. She won't believe it, but it will make her wonder at the same time.

A friend of mine who has slept with a lot of women told his girlfriend at the time how many girls he had slept with (it was a high number, like 150 or so) and from then on the girl could not help but feel like shit every time he was sleeping with her. I think averting the question by giving some c+f response is the best remedy to this.

BTW, this girlfriend was beautiful and 18, and he was sleeping with other girl's behind her back on the regular. And these girls on the side were BEASTS. Which goes to show, if you want a high number, you have to let go of high standards.